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“How to tell if a girl likes you”
How many times have you been twenty minutes into a conversation with a woman … and asking yourself ‘Does she like me or is she just being polite?’
It would be so much easier if they just came right out and said it, wouldn’t it?
But they won’t.
It’s up to you, as a man, to take notice of the subtle signals a woman is giving you, and act accordingly.
It you don’t have your eyes wide open for these signals you may wind up in a dead end conversation with a girl who has no interest in you past the free drinks you’ve been feeding her…
Or even worse … you may wind up walking away from a girl who is practically jumping at the chance to follow you back to your place and tear your clothes off.
So what are these subtle signals you should be looking out for? What are other way how to tell if a girl likes you?
Signs a woman might be interested?
All of the signs below, in isolation, don’t necessarily mean a woman is into you. But as you begin to see several of these signals of interest, you can be certain that, at the very least, you’ve got enough rapport to begin to escalate the conversation to a more intimate level.
1. She is laughing at your jokes, even when they’re not funny
If a girl is being the perfect audience, laughing on cue, egging you on to talk more, and has a big smiled plastered across her face the entire time you’re talking it is a pretty clear indication that she’s enjoying your company.
When we laugh at someone we unconsciously are saying “I like you. And I’m listening to what you’re saying.” And if she is going out of her way to make sure that she’s laughing … she is also going out of her way to encourage you to keep talking.
Just be careful not to confuse true laughter with an “oh my god get me out of here” grin or a nervous giggle.
2. She tells you to take a sip of her drink
This one has been an almost 100% indicator for me over the years that a woman was ready to be kissed.
If you’re at a bar talking to a woman, and she hands you her drink and says something like “Try my drink.” Or if she encourages you in any way to take a sip of her drink, she is unconsciously telling you that she is comfortable with you on a more intimate level. This is a great “little known” how to tell if a girl likes you.
3. She asks you if you have a girlfriend or pries for the information
When a woman is around a man that she is becoming attracted to, she will almost always try to find out if he has a girlfriend.
Most women will flat out ask.
If she doesn’t flat out ask, she’ll most likely ask questions that pry for the information like “Who do you live with?” Or if you just told a story about going on vacation or to a concert, she’ll say “Who did you go with?”
If a woman has no interest in you whatsoever, she very rarely will care whether or not you have a girlfriend.
On the next page, we read more ways how to tell if a girl like you… (READ MORE)
Okay, there’s a girl that I’ve been friends with since I was little and we actually have dated (but it was for literally a day & we were in jr. high). But I’m in high school and I really like her now. She smiles at me all the time, she hangs around me in band, and literally hugs me whenever she needs it. But she told me a couple of days ago that she like a friend of ours who already has a girlfriend, and for some reason I feel like she’s baiting me into telling her how I feel. I NEED HELP!
then tell her how you feel and that you like her and move on and begin dating her man…it isn’t that hard.
im scared to tell my girlfriend that i love her . besides im only primary 4 now so when do u think i should tell her that i love her
every-time i look at her she looks at me too but looks at me sad or sometthing else that cannot be explained
No dont tell her how you feel start kind of ignoring her and make her feel like you have better things to do for two or three days and then make a big move. Dude trust me it works
There’s this girl that shows half the signs but only sometimes. Do’s she like me?
she doesn’t know yet
I’ve tried…. Once you get it out of u you feel soooooo uch better!! XD
mmmmmmmmm jus kiss her
Hey, I am a girl lol, just wanted to check out if these signs WERE adleast a little accurite and they sorta are, but bwt if you wana really know if she likes you, ask.
she’ll apreciate the fact that you got balls and might just give u a chance even if she DOESNT like you.
Ive liked this girl for a while now and im not sure if she likes me back, i looked for all the signs, but, nothin. Plus, her friends are with her every day and if i say anything they will ask me all these pointless questions and they wont leave me alone. I need help!!
mate, im in the same boat, i would try and get her on her own and just try and tell her how u feel about her.
Dude just try the high five test! offer her a high five and is she accepts when she slaps your hand grab her palm, if she’s comfortable round you she won’t mind, if she doesn’t like you she’ll pull away, ITS THAT SIMPLE and its suprising how often they like you.
I’m in the same situation but I don’t know how to get her to date me I know she likes me but she just is shy and won’t say yes help
ya my gf is also like tat she is so shy and wont com and even talk to me but i proposed her and she said yes to me
Dude ignor her for two or three days like you have better things to do and then make a big move it works
Im have the same problem when I speak to her she blushes but she is always with my freind smiling and laughing
Same here but when I speak t the girl I like she blushes but every time I look at her she is smiling and laughing with my freind Wat shoul I do there?
I am the same too, also this site was published on her b’day too, so yeh
Same here
Well, if you like her, go up to her and HAVE SEX HAVE A BABY Man
You’re gross. I’m a girl and that is disgusting!!!!
you just stupid or what
I am a 17 year old boy studied in class 12 and i like a girl .i hesitate to talk to herand ifeel shy.i never talk to her.My mates takes my name in front of her many times so she tells her friend(my friend) that she already have a boyfrind.Plz tell what i do
Hi,
If this girl ever talks to you, be observant. Look for anything; eyes dilute, face blushes, lips quiver and weather she laughs at your jokes (its better if she laughs with all her teeth showing, not just the top row.) These small things can add up. If she says that she has a boyfriend, she may be ‘playing hard to get’ where she may be seeing weather you are actually interested in her or not. Try to talk to her often (not too often though) as this will show her that you are interested in her whatever the cost.
Good luck and I hope that this helps
I am a 17 year old boy studied in class 12 and i like a girl .i hesitate to talk to herand ifeel shy.i never talk to her.My mates takes my name in front of her many times so she tells her friend(my friend) that she already have a boyfrind.Plz tell what i do ????????
how to set girl
Ok I think this female from my church liked me but I may never know because she now has a boyfriend. But when she was single and I was in choir she would be looking at me but then one day I told her that I didn’t think choir was for me and she was like don’t quit god loves you more than you think and everyday is a blessing and she had this sad face on her and I don’t know why? Then I told her that she is an amazing person with a great voice and she was like aww don’t know what she meant by that. Then one day at chuch she looked at me and started crying then looked down and shook her head with another sad smile. Then as weeks keep on going she kept on looking at me and I don’t know why do you think she like me or was just trying to be a really good friend?
She likes u, im a girl believe me
simply do not be embarassed for a no if u ask her out ask her out staright away just get to know her first and that is all be brave!!!!!
There is this girl who is in choir and I can tell if she likes me and I want to ask her out real bad. And every time I walk her to class I freeze and have no idea what to talk about! I’m in choir to and she asked me to sing to her the other day and she said I did reall good. And I can’t tell if that’s a sign that she likes me or not! And another thing is is that after we hug when we walk away we rub our hands together and I can’t tell if that’s a sign either!!! I need help!!
dude she friggin loves you
it is!
Hey think a girl likes me but how can I be to sure
Ok So My Girl Best Friend Is Who I Like But The Thing Is That At Like The Begining Of THe SKOOL YEAR Like Maybe L8ter But Like In September 2011 She Found Out I Liked Her And A Few Weeks Later I Found Out She Liked Me Back . Now It Is Kinda Hard To Now In Febuary 2012 To FiGure That She Likes Me. Butt We Became Best Friends When She Started Calling Me Which Was Like A Month Or So After. Now She Has Gave Me Like A Nickname And She Hasnt Used It In A While Butt When I Came Back For 5th Period After AFeild Trip She Called Me By The Nickname . Butt She Also Says She Hates Me . Sometimes She Says It Annd Its Kinda Plafully Butt Like Serious At The Same Time . I Really Dont Know What To Do Like I Still Like Her . PLZZ GIVE ME SOME TIPS AND EMAIL ME SO WE CAN TALK MORE ABOUT IT.
Yeah, Stop Capitalizing The First letter of every damn word is a start
What’s with you’re computer!!!!! I liked this guy and I always said I hated him because I was embarresd to say so. She is properly in love with you. Grow some balls and try!!!!!!
So there’s this girl the turns red and talks to me SOMETIMES and I don’t think she likes me she laughers when she’s with me but she practically acts like I’m invisible in front of her friends and I don’t know if I should ask her out I’m 14 and valentines day is coming up what do I tell her and how I need help idk
She may not want her friends noing about it. Like me I felt fine I front of him but with him and my friends I felt embarresd. She loves you try!!
Getting rejected isn’t actually thy bad as long as no one else finds out. Cmon guys and man up
Its a bitch to get any girl on their own. I have a girl at work who always smiles when she looks at me, since its work its difficult to get a moment alone to say anything. Is she just really friendly?
what if she is asking you to give her something
There is this girl that i like and i want to get to know her so i could ask her out but im wat if she says something bad like i dont want to get to know u but if she is like sure why not. can u help me please i shy to talk to her i really want to go out with her and meet her so we could go out should i try to talk to her or no also today was valentines day and i was looking at her and she would dance and look at me back does that meaan that she wanted me to go talk to her or wat can give me advice please i really like her allot thanx
Hang out with her more get to know her. You will never know on less you try!!!!!
I’m still scared to ask who I think is my girlfriend. What should I do?
Theres this girl that i like everytime she sees me she starts talking louder so i could hear her. We dated but she then broke up with me because she said dhe didntl liked me but for some reason i think she still does .WHAT SHOULD I DO? ASK HER IF SHE STILL LIKES ME?
Ok so I have this girl I like and shes my friend but she hugs all of her friends that are guys EXEPT ME! Doas she like me or not!?! i NEED to know
you should probably try to get closer to her and let her know more about you. small talks would do.
Dude, Imma girl, she most likley likes you, and is just trying to make you jealous. and advice for every other guy on here, be mysterious if you want to attract a girl. all girls love mystery and something to think about, wheather they know it or not. And don’t worry about those times when u mess up your words or get nervous around us, we can see it and if we like you, we will find it adorable, and when you get hurt, we will worry like our life is at stake. Good luck guy world
There’s this girl @ my church that I like but I don’t know if she like me though we talk & text all the time & on Sundays when we’re singing @ the end we pray and she stairs at my well everybody’s eyes are closed and she always wants to walk with me and talk…do you think she likes me?
I’m not an expert but seems she dose like you
i like a girl and dont know how to aproach her my friend told her that a friend of his likes her and i dont know if she knows its me. i really need help i cant stop thinking about her.
I think I like this girl. She asked me in gym what type of girl I liked. I wonder if she likes me so what steps do I take to find out. I barely talk to her.
I like this girl at school (high school) I dont see her much at school. In between classes and before sure but she lives just across the street from me so we take the bus together. She always smiles and laughs lightly at 90% of the things I say. When my friends were saying that i was flirting with her, she laughs softly. I like this girl but she is pretty “high up” socially.
A couple guys asked her out over the year and she shot them all down. What do i do?
You only live once, so if it feels right just ask her if she wants to go to see a film some weekend…. you won’t know until you try and at the end of the day the worst thing she can say is no, you will feel a whole lot better about yourself too, there is nothing worse than holding onto something as complicated as love, it will just eat away at you… good luck!
Im in high school and i like this girl who is in the same grade. I don’t see her much at school, only sometimes in between classes and before. I’ve known her for little under two years now and i’ve only seen her at lunch two, three times!
The only time i get to talk to her is when shes walking to the bus stop with me. She lives right across the street from me and we talk about our day. She laughs lightly and smiles all the time but Im always the one to initaite the conversation. I like her a good amount and want to ask her out but I don’t see where we can go, how i should or even if i should in the first place.
A couple of guys have already asked her out and she shot them all down!! I don’t want things to become awkward or anything. If i know she likes me as a friend, i would stop but I have no idea!!
Help anyone!!?????
Give it a shot and ask her out. If she turns u down then she probably doesnt have the interest in u. But, if she says yes then….. Congratz u got a date!
Ok,so there is this girl that I like. But I’m kinda a shy guy. Whenever I talk to her she gets all quiet. But when she starts a conversation I answer and she laughs and smiles ( even though it wasn’t funny) we happen to accidentally glance over at each other sometimes. We stare into each others eyes for a few seconds then both look away embarrassed. She has a locker next to mine. I was gonna make a move by putting a note in her locker, sadly it wouldn’t fit through the slot! What should I do????!
make a smaller note dumbass
i like this girl in one of my classes, she knows i like her, but she has a boyfriend. what do you guys think i should do
She taken!!!
I’m in a very weird situation and need some help to know if a girl like me or not. We first met at a party and we had a couple of smal talks there, nothing special. A couple of weeks later we met again at a party and talked a lot more togheter this time. She held my hand when she wanted me with her around and she ALWAYS looked me deep into my eyes when I talked. But nothing more happened that night, except me making out with a random girl -.- I dont think she saw it, but anyway.. After a month or something we both got invited on Facebook to the same party, then she started to text me on facebook if I were comming to the same party and ect, and we talked for a whole night, she laughed a lot of things I said. And when the party finally came, I was a little drunk when I arrived, and so was she when I met her there. And it didn’t take more than 10-15 minuttes and we were making out, I arrived at the party at 10 pm and she left 12.30 am. And we made out constantly those two and a half hours. The next day she texted me on Facebook “Martiiiin, I’m sorry for yesterday, it took a litte way off” So I said “Don’t be sorry, I had a great time, and I hope you did to
” She answerd “haha, well well!” And I didnt answer that :L And the weekend after I called her while I was drunk and we talked with each other for about 2 hours, my friends said. The day after she started texted me on my phone and we have been chatting for a week now on facebook and phone, but I don’t know if she likes me or if she just loves being friend with me :s We have a lot incommen, and laughs of each other jokes and things, But we have never talked in person while we were not obsessed by alcohol. I’m 17 years old and I would love to get some answers 
Sorry for the long story and my English :p
any guy or girl out there that will help i like this girl and i have liked her for a long time but she has a boyfriend. she knows i like her and all that but i cant tell if she likes me back. she still has a boyfriend right now and there having troubles so do you guys think this is my chance to get with her. and if you can give me any other tips on this it would be great
if your positive you wont get caught try to write a letter and make it look like it was from her boyfriend im a girl i know this stuff
So I met this girl while we were both helping out at our church’s first communion mass. We small talked for a while while waiting for our moms to stop talking. I knew I liked her from the moment I laid my eyes on her and only confirmed it shortly after we started talking. The only problem is that I’m homeschooled and she’s in public school and that was the only time we talked. We’re friends on Facebook and I told her that I like her on chat and she thought it was sweat but we hardly even know each other. We go to the same church and I see her around there. I want to talk to her so bad but she’s always with her family or friends. Help please?
i want my girlfrien to love me very much
There’s a girl I like. We talk a little and I’ve spent time with her with when she was upset/crying to cheer her up but we’re not close friends by a long shot just friends that talk every now and then but I really want to know if she likes me! What should I do?!
I’m a high school senior (not by credits though) and there is a girl I really like. We talk every now and then after school before she leave and I’ve spent time with her when she has been upset/crying. I really want to know if she likes me. What should Ido?!
I have liked this girl for about 5 years now, i have told her that i liked her a few times but that was when i was a few years younger, i have no idea if she likes me, we both met in primary school and i liked her from the second i layed eyes on her, i want to tell her how i really feel about her but i dont want it to sound like im forcing it on her, i realy do like her, what should i do? Do i tell her or not? Pleasr help
I have liked this girl for about 5 years now, i have told her that i liked her a few times but that was when i was a few years younger, i have no idea if she likes me, we both met in primary school and i liked her from the second i layed eyes on her, i want to tell her how i really feel about her but i dont want it to sound like im forcing it on her, i realy do like her, what should i do? Do i tell her or not? Please help
theres like 14 girls that like me at school and im like nervours to ask them out WAT DO I DO AHHH IM LIKE CHICKMAGNET
theres this girl and she is my friend but i think i am in love with her everyone around her i am jealous of becuase they get to be with her and it kills me inside i think about her 24/7 how do ik if she likes me back or not and no shes not gay… She talks to me about a lot
Help I really like this girl in my class but I don’t know if she likes me or not and I need help also were goin to the same school plz help
I really like this girl in my class and she broke up with her boyfriend but I do not know how to aske her out before someone does
Hi, I’m looking for some advice because I really don’t know what to do. Sorry for my English. I’ll try to describe my situation. I think I’m in love with my class-mate and I can’t find out if she feels the same. When I say any joke she will laugh everytime. I don’t know if that means something because she is that type she laughs very often. One more thing – I said once I really like sitcom How I met your mother and especially Barney Stinson character… and about few weeks later she said his few his quotes around me (In that moment I realized she is the one
). She calls me a player sometimes because she sees me talking to many women. I remember one situation – I was in a club talking with her best friend and she interrupted us and said to her:,, oh please don´t listen to him, he is hitting on every girl!” In next month I said to my friends (there was she too) that I like her best friend and I´m want to date her. Friends were like:,, yes, you go for her! You will be nice couple.” … but she yelled something like: ,, no! she is in love with someone else, she doesn´t want you!” Another story – once we were in a bar with our friends and she was sitting on the chair and there was like three other guys around her. Probably they were flirting with her. I had a few drinks so I didn’t care about them and came to her. Ok, I had many of drinks… so I came to her and said something like: “hey, I´m going to play table football and I need a team-mate, are you in?” She like jumped out from the chair and she was like in a second with me. I think that she likes to be around me but on the other hand there are other five guys she wants to be with. She is playing “hard to catch” for every guy and she flirts a lot. I don’t want to be in the “friend zone” so I don’t give her compliments and I don’t speak with her all time. Actually I speak with her very lightly in class. Maybe we are too scared to be rejected of each other. A problem is to figure out if I’m one of this guys she only flirts with or she likes me and she is afraid of insinuate something because I behave to other girls similarly she behave to other guys. She has never said directly she´d like to go out with me or be around me and even she likes me. I need your opinion for my situation to find out if she likes me and what should I do if I want to date her.
I’ve been hanging out with this girl whom i met from my close highschool friend (who’s a girl too). We have been talking and texting each other every day for a little over a month now and I really like her. About a week ago, I learned from my friend that she thinks that I’m cute, funny, and nice and she couldn’t stop talking about me that day. And NOW I really want to ask her out, but I don’t know when the right time is. She has guys hitting on her ALL the time when we go out and do stuff together, so I’m afraid that I’ll just be one more guy that’s hitting on her. But I really like her and I’m happy around her for once, I’ve never had feelings like this for someone else. So what do you think?
I like this girl and want to ask her out but don’t know what to say. What do I say?
One of the girls that I have known throughout this school year in highschool. Her friend tells me to text her twice and she is happy when she says that. Then, I talked to her friend again and after i tell her we have been talking she is super happy. I tell her to give me a reason and she tells me to figure it out on my own and she puts a smiley face. Then, she suddenly changes that subject. Does the girl like me? << not her friend.. Plz if someone can reply soon
i love a girl in my class she looks at me everytime we talk for long and i love her so much that every time she looks at me i want to kiss her but i am just in 6th grade help me do she like me
there’s this girl that i really like and she always sees me with a particular girl.i sometimes talk to her n even call her.i friend of mine told me she came asking whether i am reli into her.she allowed me into her room(she was almost naked).she made me sat on her bed n she lied by me.i told her wat i feel for her n i cud touch her hair.we started hitting each other with the pillow.she told me she knows and feels that i rely like her.i dnt want these signs to blind me SO CAN SOMEONE WITH EXPERIENCE HELP ME OUT,COS I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!!
I Need Help please .
i dont know if the girl likes me and i am not sure these are signs so i am asking here :
we are talking very often when she is siting near me or behind me in class.
she talks to me better then to other boys – to other boys she talks more loud and to me she talk in kind
of quit cute voice.
sometimes she trying to make me laugh and when something funny is happening to her in class
she looks at me.
she is saying my name very often and she always notice if someone talk about me and she helps me almost with everything i am asking her.
Please Response and help me
Don’t waste your time. These are pretty good signs she is interested in you. Just ask her out and if she rejecet then move on because she is only being a tease. Good luck
Man, whats wrong wit all these choir boys and guys at church. Man up, ask her or confess! So many girls going for guys OUTSIDE church because churchmen only hang around sites like that! tsk tsk.. wat a shame…
there is this girl at college who is really funny and we see each other alot and she seems to be happy to see me if i am around but today when we were talking and she said she really enjoyed talking to me, does it mean she likes me and how do i ask a girl out in a way that if she doesn’t like me i won’t embaress myself and where is the best place to go on a first date
I got on this website to see what you guys really think we like and your all wrong! PS Im a girl
theres a girl that i like in my church the thing is im not sure if she likes me or not. most of the time when were connected on fb she would send me a messege to start a conversation and stuff and whenever im at church i go to say hi to her put she doesnt say anything.. can somebody help please?
guys, okey, first of all. my english is bad, so just try to understand what i am trying to share with you guys and i need help ! btw, theres this girl hes my junior in high school. but now, i like her and i already have a girlfriend, and i think she saw me n my gf together in the picture. what should i do guys, before this we are used to texting, but since i recognize that she saw the picture she nvr send me a message, btw, we are currently in a long distance. bout my gf, shes not matured enough thats why i have no feeling with her.. but this other 1, even shes still 18 but i like the way we do our conversation. please help me..
So theres this girl thats been my brothers friend forever and i was at a party when i noticed how cute she was and i had a really big crush on her my bro asked if i liked her and said he thinks she likes me when i was at another party with her we walked around the whole time and talked to each other and had lots of fun do you think she likes me or was just being friendly?
we are new to each other,,
but she’s showing intrest in me…..
I like her very much……<3
she also enjoy's talking wid me
so what can i do to get close to her?????
plz rply soon……..
Hi guys and girls, I’m a university student, sadly never had the chance to get into a relationship. Anyway there was this girl (not even sure if she is a student) but was selling some stuff, she got a small table and another person with her to sell spring stuff.
Anyway , last week I passed by…. she starred at me a lot… I mean she held eye contact until I was completely gone. The reason I’m asking is because she did the same 4 times (last time she leaned her head back while looking right into my eyes which turned me on, I mean I was so shy I didn’t know what to do lol). I even asked my mates and they said, there is a high chance that she is interested. If she done that once or twice I would say yea she is just looking around, nothing special. She is pretty, I regret not talking to her but I am a shy person.
So my question is, do you guys think she wants to talk? is she interested? since I’m not that experienced, any advice on how to ask her out if I see her again?
She is tall and very pretty, I’d say same height as me (6.1ft) she is in my mind all the time.
I’m going to try my luck on Monday I guess, I really hope she is in or I can see her again