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This is an interview with Ryan “DRH” of Dance Floor Mastery.

TSB Mag: Can you give us a little bit of background about how you learned and became an expert in dance floor game?

Ryan “DRH”: I was born and raised in France by North African parents. What you probably don’t know is that even up to 5 to 10 years ago,  entry to night clubs was refused if you were black or from North Africa. So, until my 24th year when I moved to the United Kingdom, I had never really been inside a night club my entire life. It’s absolutely true. At the same time, I discovered the Mystery Method and got excited by the idea of picking up women in clubs.

Unfortunately, my English wasn’t so good at the time and also felt insecure talking to women in a loud environment. So I stopped trying to “open” women and went to the only place in the club where I felt confident: the dance floor.

From there in less than a year, I counted almost 40 night outs. For 40 night outs, I got 34 kiss-closed from the dance floor only with often minimal or no talking at all.

In 2008, I launched the first seminar exclusively on how to pick up women on the dance floor without having to learn how to dance. I created the only Dance Floor Game program that gives a straightforward road map to seduce women on the dance floor.

TSB Mag: What are the myths in terms of getting into a club and meeting women on the dance floor?

Ryan “DRH”: Unfortunately, there are two myths about the dance floor: “The Dance floor is a trap” and “I have to know how to dance to pick up women on the dance floor”. The Dance floor is not a “trap”. Anybody with basic dancing skills can be successful on the dance floor.

Don’t fall for these two myths. Success on the dance floor has nothing to do with dancing skills. That’s the beauty of this: anybody can do it. If you can move your body, you can do it.

I’m going to give you a specific example.

Have you ever been to a salsa club? Did you notice that the good salsa dancers, guys who are very good, always do the same thing at the end of the song…? They split from the girl! This is because he might be a good dancer but he does not know how to attract and thereby increase attraction with his dancing and his body language. It’s not about dancing skills. It’s about how you look at her, how you move, what you do, what you don’t do to scare her and it’s very easy to do and it becomes very obvious why it works.

My first advice is stop losing money on salsa lessons and start learning how to really attract women on the dance floor.

TSB Mag: For someone completely new to dance floor game, what would you say is the best and lowest risk approach?

Ryan: A lot of guys make the mistake of going to the dance floor and just stare at women and they stroll up and down the floor not even smiling or enjoying themselves. They don’t even engage properly a girl that catches their eye. They just don’t have the guts to approach them.

It’s important how you approach on the dance floor. Always approach from the side and never from behind. Also make sure you are in a club with music you really enjoy, you will look more relaxed and you will feel good.

The lowest risk approach is to make eye contact with your target and high five her. Then simply spin her. Don’t forget to smile and to look playful. From there you can escalate smoothly.

When you have a game plan and you know what you are doing you’ll be surprised how easy it is to pick up women on the dance floor.

Most guy feel either a lack of enjoyment in clubs or a sense of isolation from others. A great dance floor game can fill both gaps, giving a sense of connection and fun that would otherwise be missing. It brings more fun to both yourself and women, and you will have the night of your life!

To learn more about dance floor game check out Ryan’s program Dance Floor Mastery.