About the Author
How to Have Better Conversations with Women
Awhile back I sent out a survey asking you guys what topic you would most like a podcast about… and the answer was overwhelming…. “Conversation skills.”
In order to ever truly get better with women it is absolutely essential that you build this skill. In fact, I firmly believe that the ability to hold and carry a conversation can take you further in life than any other skill.
Talking (especially to women) did not come natural to me… I spent a lot of years working on it and trying to improve… so creating a podcast that I really believe will help you was a high priority for me. This podcast also sparked a renewed interest in the area of improving our conversations with women… more importantly our “small talk.”
So, in addition to this podcast, I have also put together a free report called Small Talk Tactics. The report is all about how to turn boring “small talk” into something fun and playful. You can download the free report here.
In this 65 minute podcast you’re going to learn:
- The biggest obstacles and roadblocks men face in their conversations with women
- How to avoid some of the common and damaging mistakes that kill conversations
- How to quickly create “rapport” with any woman you’re talking to
- What sort of things you should be talking about- and what you should avoid…
- The #1 biggest reason most conversations “stall out” and how you can easily avoid this
- and much more…
And don’t forget to grab a free copy of the Small Talk Tactics Report. This will completely change the way you look at small talk.
Bobby, you really killed it with this one.
You summed up up all the mistakes I usually make in small talk and gave me ideas on how to fix them.
thanks, man.
Thanks man! I appreciate the feedback…
And I welcome any questions or suggestions to add to the upcoming Conversation Escalation: Make Small Talk Sexy program.
Great podcast Bobby.
I found the biggest improvement to my conversation skills in regards to women came when I started to spend more time around my female friends, because I didn’t really spend a lot of time around them. I definitely didn’t go on nights out with them.
From doing that I learned what women liked to talk about and within about 3 months I went from only being able to talk to a girl that I didn’t know for about 2 or 3 minutes before it fizzled out to being able to stay in conversation with a girl all night.
It seemed so counter intuitive when David D said about doing it in his ’77 Laws of success with women and dating’ but it really works. I remember thinking: How will making friends with and spending time around attractive women help me get better with them? But doing it made by far the biggest improvement to my game.
I totally agree Brandon… my biggest realizations came working in a restaurant and befriending all the waitresses…
Hey bobby, when do you expect to be releasing the make small talk sexy program
Joey
Im thinking it should be ready to go early next week.. I’ll be sending more info on it soon.
i know where you come from BOBBY i had this sexy girl throwing herself at me i simply couldn t cope we ve all been there well most of us
ALPHAROMEO
i have just read you free bok
intesrtingly enough i pretend i am an American in FRANCE i put on a U S accent and it really works the women dig it !! i play on double entendres i pretend i didn t get such or such a word i C/F a lot most women love it i do it all the time i speak some ENGLSH off and off to impress them
Hey dude, downloading your mp3 right now, will feedback once I’ve heard; thanks!
Cool man… look forward to your thoughts
Hey Bobby, man, I gotta tell you I love the small talk sexy report. I think you have hit the nail on the head. Like you, I have always been very introverted and avoided small talk at all costs because I always felt that you should stay quiet if you don’t have something important to say.
I am 39 now, and have for the most part, only dated women that chased me. I have made the conscious decision to get better with women, and I gotta say that building self esteem and confidence only go so far if you don’t know how to keep a conversation going long enough to get to the fun and rapport. I don’t agree with the idea of using stacked openers and canned stories, so your ideas really hit home with me.
When I am around friends that I have known forever, I am so cool and comfortable…that I can even attract women. But, when alone, it is a whole nother story, I really need to learn your tactics for keeping a conversation going and developing a fun persona rather than being the laid back, cool guy, that I am accustomed to being!
I would really like to learn more from you, so keep me in the loop brother. I think your stuff could very well be the turning point for lots of shy “nice guys”.
Hey Matt,
Thanks for the feedback….
Along with the emails you probably get from me (which i try to focus on conversation skills) I also have another blog dedicated to social skills http://www.makesmalltalksexy.com/blog. I’ve got some videos there too. (all free!)
Keep in touch- and let me know of any specific questions you’d like me to write about…
Bobby
Man, You…Are… Good!
You Rock Man! That’s all I got to say now, but I’m very pleased learning from you… take care