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Many guys ask “Why don’t women see me in a sexual way?” And a lot of the time the answer is that you’re not dressing in a way that conjures up any sort of sexual energy.
Brad P. talks a lot about the idea of using sexual stereotypes to instantly have a woman seeing you in a more sexual way. This is such a brilliant concept and it’s strange that more men are keen on this. If you think about it, it’s exactly what women do to us.
If a woman is dressed in a preppy sweater, khakis, and is wearing very little makeup or jewelry, how much “sexual” attraction do you feel for her? Compare that to the same woman dressed in a sexy black dress, with dangly earrings, fuck-me pumps, and fire engine red lipstick … how much “sexual” attraction do you feel for now her?
There are many different reasons we’re more “sexually” attracted to her when she dressed in the “sexy” outfit. Maybe it’s because she’s showing more skin, maybe it’s because the effort she has put into getting dressed like this shows her sexual intention, but most likely, it’s because she is playing off of your stereotype of the promiscuous, sexual woman.
You need to play off that same stereotype with the way you dress.
Now I’m not going to get into the eight sexual stereotypes covered in the Fashion Bible, but I do want to talk about one particular item that is a good way for a man to “peacock” his sexuality.
Leather Bracelets
Celebrities like Johnny Depp, Justin Timberlake, David Beckham, and various other musicians, actors, and sport stars have turned the “leather bracelet” into something that conjures up the image of sexy.
Now, the idea of peacocking has been in the seduction community for years now, but I think that Mystery has given the term “peacocking” a negative image. When in fact, peacocking with something as simple as a wrist full of leather bracelets will drastically improve the chance that a woman sees you in a more sexual way.
The trick with the leather bracelet is to not just wear one or two. You need to have about five or six bracelets on at least one of your wrists.
You can go with big leather looking one like the one in this photo available at Amazon.com. This one takes up a bulk of the wrist.
But then you’ll need several smaller ones like these pictures available here.
Leather bracelets are just one of the many ways to add sex appeal to your wardrobe. If you would like to learn more about how to use the sexual stereotypes to dress in a way that women are programmed to be attracted to: Read the Fashion Bible.
Leather bracelets??? WTF Are you a Blacksmith?
Bobby, I usually agree with your advice, but this time I’m surprised. Any type of bracelets on a guy is pretty gay. Stars like Johnny Depp can get away with it because they have that rock star image. Imagine dressing like Steven Tyler and walking down the street, for the average guy dressing up in this manner it makes them look pretty stupid, and like a wanna be.
Johnny depp and steven tyler are the extreme…. just look at any skateboarder, snowboarder, surfer type and you’ll see the
same kind of bracelets and stuff- in moderation…
Will it work for everyone? No.
But if you’re looking for a quick and easy way to add some accessories it might do the trick
I’ll back Bobby Rio up on this one with the addendum that it depends on the environment. Women want a guy who’s “fashionable” and up to date with current trends because those traits make you a better catch, especially in a city like New York City where the women are more sophisticated. When I go home to Rochester, MA in the middle of the woods just before Cape Cod, however, the bracelets gotta go because most of the people there (even five years after graduating high school) still haven’t moved past American Eagle and Abercrombie… :-/
Basically, though, it’s all about how you rock it. If you feel prissier because you’re wearing a bracelet, then don’t wear it because it’ll be too much of a distraction. But I’m telling you that I own a few (a metal one for black outfits, a brown one, and a colored one) and I’ve had girls GO OUT OF THEIR WAY TO COMPLIMENT ME.
hey bobby, this is an awesome article.
long story short. i went to vegas this past weekend. this cute girl who hit me up because i was wearing stuff on my wrist and i got some.
thank you for everything you’ve done for us.
hey man thanks for the feedback…
Got to love Vegas
I just listened to your new podcast “Drama, Drama, Drama.” You guys come across as just bitter, negative brats and seriously remind me of little Perez Hiltons.
I have no clue what you’re talking about dude… Drama, Drama Drama…. lol.. i have
absolutely no clue what you’re talking about
It was the first podcast that showed up from you guys dated 1/6/10 where you make the top 7 list of charlatans, freaks and weirdos of 2009. However, I did laugh though when I saw your “Kiss Test” banner affiliate link to David D. on on the side of this website after ragging on him and half the people he features in his products.
Dude you totally got me confused with someone else… I think it was Sinn and Cameron Teone who did that podcast….
And I haven’t run a kiss test banner in years…
Not sure why that podcast would be coming up with TSB Magazine…
By the way….
Just to clear it up…
I’m a huge David D fan…
Not sure about anyone else Sinn rags on in the podcast since i didn’t hear it… But David D’s Man Transformation program is one of my all time favorites.
thx for the post … very nice
wrist bands work. I also find that Fossil, Aldo, Guess, Armani Exchange, and Swatch sell nice-looking watches for reasonable money ($50-150). I have a watch to match almost any outfit (need a dress white and either a dressy metal band or a black dressy watch) and these also garner compliments from the ladies. Nice shoes count too and I love adidas originals and Puma, although there are a TON of options available on that front.
Brad P.’s Fashion Bible is legit, too. Well worth the $40 or $50 I spent for it
Ik ga het ook proberen, met die leren polsbantje. Is zilver ring en brezelet ook okay! Ik kan je advies goed gebruiken. Thanks
Ken from Holland
Nederland
Yea i love how many types of accessories you can choose from when peacocking…especially since everyone has different styles…. for peacocking tips and hundreds of peaocking examples, check out
SargeWear.com
Have fun peacocking!