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Daniel Rose is the author of the Sex God Method. He teaches men simple yet powerful ways to give women sexual pleasure through using her "Four Orgasm Triggers." Once you know what these are, and how to use each one, giving her an orgasm becomes as easy as flipping a switch or pressing a button.

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To this day, I STILL remember my first threesome. Because most “first” experiences in bed which weren’t as good as I fantasized about, my first threesome was fucking amazing.

But it didn’t come without some trial and error. I’d tried at least five times to get threesomes with women in the past, but inevitably blew it every time. Whenever I thought it was going to happen, something would always come up which would make one or both of the girls want to back out. But this time, it was different. And here’s exactly what was different – this time, MY GIRLFRIEND actually wanted the threesome more than I did!

In fact, she actually took the initiative to call one of the other girls I was having sex with at the time, and invite her over to watch a movie. Talk about a keeper!

threesomeSo the other girl comes over, and all three of us are in my bed, in the dark, watching the movie. I was really nervous at this point – I’d gotten this far and blown it multiple times, so I wanted to make sure that I didn’t this time. Rather than just trying to initiate the threesome without a plan like I did before, I decided to try something new. First, I started kissing my girlfriend. I kissed her passionately for over a minute … and I could sense the other girl getting REALLY uncomfortable. So I leaned over to her… and started kissing her. She was a little hesitant at first, but then she got into it.

And then the magic moment: I brought both girls towards each other, and told them to kiss each other. Hesitantly, they touched lips. Then, before I knew it, they were making out with each other with a passion I couldn’t believe. And from there, everything just took care of itself.

The girls LOVED each other, and as soon as they started touching it seemed like they couldn’t stop. And they were eager to please me as well, and they made all of the things I’d dreamed of doing in a threesome come true. It was a beautiful, magical experience. And the reason why I’m writing to you today is that I want to show you how to have one just like it.

WHY MOST GUYS NEVER HAVE THREESOMES

But again, it didn’t come easy for me. I had to blow way more opportunities than I care to remember before I finally learned how to successfully have threesomes. And the reason why I failed to get threesomes initially – and why MOST guys fail to get threesomes for their entire lives – can really be traced down to one mindset. And that is the mindset of TRYING TO BE THE STAR OF THE SHOW in the threesome, and making it ALL ABOUT YOU. Let me explain:

When most guys are trying to get a threesome, they’re completely focused on what an amazing experience it would be for THEM. This leads to doing things like telling their girlfriend how having a threesome has been their fantasy for their entire life, and how amazing it would feel for HIM to have two women sucking on his cock at once.

And in the bedroom, it leads to doing things like trying to act like porn stars do in threesomes, and making it all about their own pleasure. Needless to say, I did ALL of these things and I know from firsthand experience these are all great ways to blow a threesome.

THE FOUR KEYS TO GETTING A THREESOME

What I eventually discovered is that nearly ANY woman will want to have a threesome, if you do four very important things right. Blow any one of these four things though, and you can kiss your magical experience of having two girls suck your cock at once goodbye.

1 – BE THE DIRECTOR, NOT THE STAR

As I mentioned before, having the “porn-star” mentality and making it all about you is a sure way to make her NOT want to have a threesome with you. By making it YOUR fantasy rather than hers, you’re taking all the excitement out of it for her. It becomes just about pleasing you, rather than what she wants. The much better way, I found, is to make it all about HER. To make it HER fantasy, which you are just facilitating.

The difference this makes is HUGE – it was why my girlfriend took the initiative to actually call up other girls for threesomes, where with other girls I had to cajole and convince them to just come along. As I said before, almost all women are open to a bisexual experience if you know how to make her excited for it. But they will still want you to lead and control the interaction – especially if she hasn’t been with many girls before, she’ll want a man to take the lead like she’s used to. So this begs the question – how to you lead, without making it all about you and trying to be the star?

The mentality that has worked best for me is taking the attitude of being the DIRECTOR. You’re the one who sets everything up, and who leads the interaction. But the stars are the two girls – you’re just allowing them to sexually connect with each other in a way they couldn’t do on their own. And if you can make this happen, then believe me … they’ll be more than happy to take care of your pleasure.  So if you want to have threesomes, really internalize this mentality: be the DIRECTOR, not the STAR.

2 – USE THE THREESOME FANTASY TO MAKE HER WANT IT

If your girlfriend has never shown any interest in other women, you’re probably wondering how you can make her want a threesome in the first place. The absolute best way to do this is to first role-play the Threesome Fantasy with her in bed, and make that a great experience for her. Basically, with the threesome fantasy you’ll both be imagining that you’re having a threesome while you’re having sex. This mainly comes down to describing how good it will feel for HER to feel the sensations of another girl sexually touching and caressing her.

There are also a few other very important details which can make it feel real for her (such as my technique to simulate a bisexual woman giving her oral sex – women go CRAZY for this one). Almost all women will be open to role-playing something like this, if you do it in the right way. And once you’ve started giving her orgasms from imagined threesomes, it’s VERY easy to get her to do one for real.

I describe exactly how to enact the threesome fantasy in my book, the Sex God Method. I also illustrate it with an explicit, uncensored example of using the threesome fantasy from my own sex life.

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13 Responses to How To Get A Threesome

  • Bobby Rio says:

    Great article Dan…

  • PuppyJuice says:

    Dan, this is the best post I’ve read from anyone in a very long time. Not to take away from any of the other editors here because they all give great posts, but to me, this one was exceptional. Keep up the good work.

  • D-mAn says:

    Thanks for writing the article you’ve offered some great advice, I’m kinda on the same yet different boat, you see my girlfriend has been trying to convince me for a year to have a threesome and I’ve been researching it online for a long time, and while it looks cool in porn, to me that doesn’t mean it’s cool with me in real life, we don’t like to label but my girlfriend is what most people would call a lesbian, and the thought of her with another woman makes me a little jealous, I have been very hesitant to agree to have one, and I still may but I haven’t decided yet but you made some good points I will take the ones that apply to me, again great article

  • Tim Todd says:

    Dan…Grrreat article, I too am a master at the art of threesomes….have had over 25 and all have been Awesome ….I use the same mindset …they have to Trust you ….everything else is Magic and may last for hours ….Thank you

  • dave says:

    Good article with interesting points. but, I would like to add something, something I learned the hard way. BE VERY VERY CAUTIOUS AND TREAD CAREFULLY. Why? because I was in a long term relationship and we had good sex, no problem there. this topic came up during one night of wild sex. And she was like oh ah, I like it. she said she was into the idea of another guy. Then she asked about it a month or so later. I said “well, its sex talk and i never seriously considered it”. she hammered away on it “can you find someone blah blah blah”. after all the needling, me being a stand up guy said “ok, but are you really comfortable with that?” she said “yes, so can you find someone” and I said “well, i can see, but I don’t know”. The fucking bitch. she turned it on me called me an “asshole”, and everything under the sun.
    Lesson I learned, when it comes to this shit always say “NO”.

    • diddles says:

      u asking if she was really ok with it probably made her feel uncomfortable that u would even ask that. she saud she wanted it. if u were cool with it, u should have said, “sure, i’ll ask around”. maybe YOU werent ok it…

  • diddles says:

    great article! i have a third for my bf and i just wasnt sure what to do once i got her to the house! thank you!

  • hi im victoria i want another women for a three some with me and my guy i want a women thats thin and cute please texts me my number is 636 649 9601 send pics i will do the same

  • Ashley says:

    Me and my boy friend are looking for a couple or a women or a men

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