">How to Attract Girls FAST
  • How to Flirt
  • How to Get a Date
  • How to Get a Girl to Like You
  • How to Get Girls
  • How to Get Women
  • How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back (In 3 Steps)
  • How To Get Your Ex-Girlfriend BACK
  • How to Meet Girls on Facebook
  • How to Pick Up Women
  • How to Talk to Women
  • Insanity Max 30
  • Join TSB Magazines Free Membership Newsletter
  • Kissing Tips
  • Little Book of Openers
  • Magnetic Messaging
  • Maintaining Weight for Men
  • Man On Campus Review
  • Mark Ling Interview about AffiloJetPack
  • Mensajes Magneticos
  • Online Dating Tips
  • Pandora’s Box Personality Quiz
  • Paul Janka Review
  • Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists
  • Pick Up Lines For Guys
  • Picking Up Women
  • Porn Star Sex Life “Incredible Sex Video Series” Review
  • Privacy Policy
  • Products
  • PUA Advice Articles
  • Pua Routines
  • Push Button Dating Preview Video
  • Push Button Dating Review
  • Push Button Dating: Quick and Dirty Profile Set Up
  • Relationship Rewind Review
  • Revive Her Drive Review (Turn Your Wife into a Nympho???)
  • Second Date Tips
  • Secrets of Getting Laid the Very First Date
  • Sexual Decoder System Review (and 3 Tips Revealed)
  • Sinn Seduction RoadMap BONUS
  • Small Talk Secrets
  • Super Natural System Review
  • Superman Stamina Review (With Hot Pictures from DVDs)
  • Tao of Badass Review
  • Text Your Ex Back
  • Thank You
  • The Fat Girls Story
  • The Secrets of Relationship Management
  • The TSB Philosophy
  • The Ultimate Guide to PUA Openers
  • Training Strategies
  • Truth About Abs Review
  • TSB Author Best Practices and Guidelines
  • TSB Magazine Lifestyle Design Mobile App
  • Ultimate Guide to Escaping the Friend Zone
  • Ultimate Guide to Find a Girlfriend
  • Ultimate Guide to Texting Girls
  • Vin DiCarlo Pandora’s Box Review
  • What to Say to a Girl
  • Where to Meet Women
  • Wingman Weekend Retreat
  • Write for TSB
  • Your Copyright Request
  • top-wrapper-->

    When She Tells You Her Friend Is Interested


    Few things are more earth-shattering than the moment when the flirty, fun babe you’re chatting up directs your attention to her shy (and probably not as cute) friend, telling you that this friend has a thing for you. Just when you thought you were in with a chance, she drops this bombshell. But before you run off to the gents’ and burst into tears, take a second to evaluate the situation. A snub of the ‘but my friend is interested in you!’ nature can mean different things depending on the context. Either way, it shows that at least one of her and her friend have shy personalities, so tread carefully.

    When It Means She’s Not Interested

    Even W. would be confused

    If you’ve been chatting to your lady of choice for a while, decide to make a move on her and she dismisses it by saying her friend is interested in you, it often means she’s trying to reject you but isn’t quite assertive enough to do it properly. Telling you another woman has her eye on you is an attempt to distract you from the rejection. In this case, it is time to move on. Going for her friend is not the classiest of options, but not a terrible last resort.

    When It Means She Is Interested

    If you’ve been briefly flirting and she’s definitely been flirting back, but neither of you has made a move, it’s possible that she’s said her friend wants you as a way of saying that actually, she wants you. But it’s also possible that that could mean nearly anything. Suss it out by making your intentions more obvious, and see if she seems receptive or shuts you down.

    When It’s Hard to Tell Who Is Interested

    If she’s come up to you for no other reason other to tell you that her friend’s interested, it’s quite unclear. Perhaps she is interested. Or maybe her friend actually is interested, for once. If they’re particularly immature, it could even be a joke. You’re on your own with this one! The best approach is to play the comedian. That way, you have time to establish what she meant; not to mention you can lure her in with your wicked sense of humour.

    The Cheekiest Response!

    If you want to make your intentions known and don’t mind putting yourself out there, try this flirty reply for when she tells you that her friend has an eye on you. A typical exchange could go like this:

    Her: “My friend Lucy is really hot on you!”
    You: “Yeah? That’s a coincidence. Tell Lucy that I’m really hot on her friend over here!”

    This will probably lead to laughter from your lady of choice. As long as it’s a flirty giggle rather than a nervous titter, you definitely have a chance.

    Ladies can be confusing creatures at times, particularly when they speak for each other. Pay attention to the signals she’s sending you, and you should be able to evaluate whether she’s snubbing you or just shy.

    About Natasha Abrahams

    Natasha Abrahams is a writer and journalism student from Melbourne, Australia. When she is not busy with being a principal writer on Weekendnotes or skipping lectures, she can be found emptying her wallet at the nearest shopping centre. You can read more from Natasha at: http://mensstyleandfashion.com/

    We respect your email privacy

    You must be logged in to post a comment Login