- #1 Most Attractive Trait You Can Display to a Woman
- #1 Way to Get a Girl Hooked on You (Proven By Science)
- 5 Things That Make You Look Desperate and Immediately Turns Girls Off…
- 3 Toxic Mistakes That Lead to the Friend Zone
- 3 Reasons Why A Girl Will Test You
- How to Raise Your Status Around Girls
- What You Need to Stop Wearing After 25
- Jason Capital’s Honey Trick (Six Questions)
- 10 Articles on Better Sex
- The Style Mistakes That Make You Look Cheap
- What to Talk About with Her to Make Her Fall for You
- Girlfriend Secrets: What Women Really Want
- 10 Ways To TEASE A Woman
- The 9 Types Of Orgasms
- How to Dress Like a Bad Boy
- Three Sex Techniques Stolen From Lesbians
- Top 10 Things Women Want You To Do In Bed
- How To Ejaculate Like A Porn Star
- Five Subtle Signals That She Wants Sex
- Texting a Girl: A Guide To Text Message Game
- 3 Ways to Instantly Turn a Woman Off and Kill Any Attraction She Felt
- How to Tell if a Girl Likes You (5 Fool Proof Signs to Look For)
- What to Say to Girls, Explained
- How to Display Masculine Qualities
- How to Keep Your Power Edge With Women
Envy: A Deadly Sin and Great Motivator
It’s nearly the start of the school year and my friend can’t find a job teaching anywhere.
He’s got a degree from a reputable school, years of solid experience and a likeable personality, just no luck at the moment. So, when he sees former classmates, some of whom are younger with less experience, getting jobs he’s qualified for, he goes ballistic. “How the hell did he get a job at ___ High School and I can’t even get an interview!” he screams. Rather than be happy for the success of others, he’s pouting and calling nepotism on his friends.
He’s turning his envy into something negative and destructive, when he could be using it to his advantage.
Whether you’re full-swing into the rat race or still balancing beer pong tournaments with 5,000 word essays, you can learn something from this situation: Envy can be positive or negative depending on what you do with it.
If you go to the gym and see some dude in tip-top shape benching double your max, don’t get pissy or instantly chalk his bulk up to steroids. Don’t give up either or think “I could never get there”, “I don’t have the body for it,” etc. My friend got so upset he couldn’t find a job and others less qualified could, he stopped looking as much. Envy can lead to self-destruction and stress. Just ask Buddha.
“Do not overrate what you have received, nor envy others. He who envies others does not obtain peace of mind.” –Buddha
If you see somebody achieve something that you wish you could, use it as motivation. Say your friend just scored a sweet joband you’remiserable serving coffee to yuppies. Don’t get pissed and fling a latte at a customer (not unless he asks for a specific foam-to-espresso ratio. In that case, go for it.) Collect your tips, go home and get proactive about finding a job outside the java universe. Turn your envy into something positive, as suggested by professor Robert Bringle.
“Envy can be a positive motivator. Let it inspire you to work harder for what you want.” –Robert Bringle
We all get envious of others. I wish my music career was going better and get jealous when I see others I know further along in their pursuits. Do I wish for their downfall? Do I hope all their gear gets stolen and/or they lose the ability to sing? Of course. But then I calm down, count to ten and get rational. I should send out more demos and network more, I think. I turn that poor me attitude into a can-do attitude. I see what others have and do my best to achieve similar results for myself without getting negative or angry or hoping my friend’s record label goes out of business.
Whether you’re envious of some guy’s job, body, house or Dunks, chill out and use your energy for personal good. Make the necessary changes. In the meantime, pat your friend, coworker, classmate, or former beer pong teammate on the back, because someday you’ll be right there with them. Channel your energy the right way and you’ll be someone to envy. Just be ready to be hated.
Simple Trick Tells You if a Girl Wants You to Kiss Her
Do girls leave you confused as to whether or not they like you?
Let's face it. Girl's don't make it easy for you. She will often send mixed signals leaving you unable to tell if she is being friendly or flirty. If you read her signals wrong you risk rejection and embarrassment. Or worse, you blow it with a girl who wanted to kiss you.
Here is a simple and innocent move that will instantly tell you if you're in the friend zone, or if she's waiting for you to kiss her.