Must-Read: Sexy Phrases

We’ve all been there. You work your game out in the bar, and you get her back to your place, and you have all of the right things going on — the clean bed, the sexy music, the candles — but then you say the wrong thing and she bolts before you have a chance to, well, you know. Everything you say to her while she is in a very delicate place like your bedroom is terribly heightened. Which means, if you blow it, then you blow it hard. But you can also use this to your advantage if you say the right things.

Which is why today we are designating another Sex Tips Day, where we spend a post trying to relay exactly the best things that will help you in the bedroom. Today, for our lesson, we turn over to the guys from Men’s Health, where they have a list of phrases that you should use in the bedroom in order to turn her on. For instance, among the phrases they believe will get you in the sack even quicker:

“I adore . . . “

“I adore your freckles.”

In order to feel sexy, a woman first has to feel beautiful. “Women get intimacy from words,” says anthropologist Helen Fisher, Ph.D., of Rutgers University, the author of Why We Love. “You look beautiful” is a fine comment. But follow up by complimenting her on something that is unique to her, like her laugh or her freckles. This assures her that you find her attractive, as opposed to every other woman in the room.

Head on over and check out the other phrases that will get her in the bedroom in no time. And then try out a few of these phrases out tonight and through the New Year.