A Short Guide To Cunnilingus

A Short Guide To Cunnilingus

I cannot remember a time since I started having sex that I didn?t enjoy giving the oral form of it. Over the years, I?ve given a lot of thought to why this is so.

Every man knows the extraordinary power that women have over us. One look, one touch, one kind word from a girl, even a rather plain one, instantly drives us to distraction. When you are courting a girl, she is in complete control from beginning to end. Her body, her charms, and all her other allurements make you putty in her hands.

When you go down on her, the roles are reversed. She is helpless, in a state of total ecstasy?she is without the will or capacity to do anything but enjoy the pleasure that you?re giving her with your mouth and tongue. Performing cunnilingus confers power to a man that is unlike any other kind he is able to exert over a woman. That, I think, is why I have always liked doing it. To watch my girl wiggle, squirm, and vibrate to my ministrations is truly gratifying.

There is, however, an art to giving women head. And once you?ve mastered it, you can make any one of them addicted to the pleasure of it?and, by extension, to you.

1. Only fools rush in

One of the biggest complaints that twentysomething girls have about twentysomething guys is that they dive into their pussies as though there were in a swim meet. Don?t be one of those guys. Take your time. You may have gotten a hard on as soon as she agreed to come up with you, but she will need some warming up. Kiss her lips, caress her body, peck and nibble her neck, tits, and stomach?slowly. When you get below the waist, don?t go for the bush straightaway. A gradual build-up will give her a much more intense orgasm. Start with her inner thighs. Make your way slowly from the bottom part to the top part of those regions. Take a moment to inhale deeply. The scent of a warm, moist pussy is unmistakable. If you get a whiff of that, she?s ready for the greater siege.

2. The tongue is mightier than (or at least equal to) the penis

It is not something that we guys want to admit, but it is true. An expert tongue on her pussy can take her places that your dick can?t. You must be creative, though. The secret to giving your girl great oral is to keep your tongue moving. Make it moist and flat and constantly engaged along her clit and vulva. Up-and-down and side-to-side are both acceptable, or you can do a combination of the two. It is a myth that a prolonged flicking of her clit with the tip of your tongue will get her off. The softer part of your tongue is what gives the most pleasure, and you will need to employ it in the beginning to warm her up. The flicking thing has its place, but only after she has started dripping. An occasional soft sucking of her clit should also be done.

To be sure, women differ. You will have to pay close attention to where she wants you and what she wants you to do. This can be partly gauged by the way she responds to a particular action. But you should also keep your ears puckered. She may start moaning out directions at various points.

3. Hands and fingers, hands and fingers?

Don?t get so caught up in moving your mouth that you forget your hands and fingers. When going down, try to put yourself in a position in which you can comfortably massage her breasts and body. This will add an element of delight. You must also learn how to lift up the hood of her clit to get at the most sensitive part of that extremely sensitive organ.

Your fingers should not be forgotten. Most women like a bit of insertion when the juices really start flowing. When she?s ready, you should establish a rhythm of motions that includes the use of your tongue, mouth, and fingers in combination. It may be just the thing to push her over the edge.

4. Closing Time

There are women who are so sensitive down there that they will cum within minutes of you starting to munch. For most, it takes alot more time. Listen and feel your way through the act. Some girls can be a bit shy about telling you what they want you to do. Nearly all, however, will give you a clear indication that they are about to cum. That’s the signal that you should continue with whatever you?re doing. You may accelerate or intensify; but for goodness sake, don?t slow down and don?t withdraw. Once she?s nearing the edge, you?re committed to the close.