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Inverse Operations: The Supremacy of the Man’s Lady

We’ve all heard of the lady’s man, that notorious breed of gel-coiffed, perfumed womanizers who have given nice guys the hurdle of female intimacy issues and nice girls crabs. Yet the lady’s man has fallen from the pinnacle of social deftness to the gutters of infamy, and now there’s a new kid in town. Gentlemen,

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Get Off Your A$$ Already

It never fails to amaze me how some people just don’t seem to get it. I hear, read or see it every single day in letters to editors and in online chat forums – people complaining that even though they devote X amount of time being part of this community or that community or reading

Ask Your Wingman: Taking Initiative & Handling Rejection

This week I am going to share a more personal story with you about my recent history with women. One of the things that can be frustrating when trying to meet women and becoming the person you want to be is that it takes a ridiculous amount of trial, error and time. It is a

Sex and the Suburbs: And the Final Answer Is…

So the last experience with the Dalai Drama has really jaded me on the whole dating thing.  At this point, my stories have become a source of entertainment for my girlfriends, most of whom are in committed relationships.  They laugh about how they live their ‘pretend’ dating lives vicariously through me.  I agree that when

Salsa: And the Art of Small Successes

Cancun, 1999 I’m half in the bag.  My friends and I took the booze cruise out to the island of women.  The music is thumping.  The lights are blinding.  And a mixture of testosterone and Red Bull has given me a feeling of being unstoppable. There is a DJ calling all the men onto the

5 Questions About Myspace Hookups With Action Jackson

Action Jackson was personally coached by Mehow, and mentored by Sinn.  He has taken the fundamentals of pick-up and applied them to Myspace game, where he has been crushing the competition for the past couple years.  He has taken everything he learned and put it into the Matchbook Method. For the guys out there who

Don’t Take Anyone’s Shit

Ask Your Wingman So I got back from New York City this past weekend and I had a blast. Whenever I can party and do things to further my business I like to call those times, “professional vacations.” There is nothing wrong with mixing business with pleasure. Of all the things that went down that

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Summer Music Festival Run-Down: Part 1

Who wants to spend their summer farting around on the couch all afternoon in their skivvies while shoveling down last night’s Chinese? Because eventually these rainy days will give way to summer sun, which in turn will give way to babes in bikinis and a plethora of music festivals. This year many of the same

It’s Time to Be the Hero in Your Own Movie

You’ve probably heard the saying: All the world’s a stage, And all the men and women merely players. Well, since hardly anyone cares about plays anymore lets rephrase that quote in a way you can really wrap your mind around its meaning. Let’s think of your life as a movie. And you’re an actor in