If you’ve spent any time at all trying to learn how to get better with women you’ve probably read advice on overcoming approach anxiety, using openers, be cocky and funny, tell stories, pass shit tests, and an entire checklist of do’s...
I want to tell you a story about the exact moment I learned to love being tested by a woman. It wasn’t always this way. In fact, long ago I was clueless to the fact that women were actually testing men. I thought that when women got bitchy,...
“I’m hungry. Come over to my house. And we’ll head over to The Barnyard for a burger and some beers. Wear something cute and summery.” Most guys would not have the balls to say something like that to a woman with whom they...
We’ve all heard of the lady’s man, that notorious breed of gel-coiffed, perfumed womanizers who have given nice guys the hurdle of female intimacy issues and nice girls crabs. Yet the lady’s man has fallen from the pinnacle of social deftness to...
Negs and cocky/funny are the two most misused concepts in the dating community. And most guys misuse both of them together… creating one big mess of a conversation. If you’re one of the guys whose cocky lines are bombing… and whose...
So the last experience with the Dalai Drama has really jaded me on the whole dating thing. At this point, my stories have become a source of entertainment for my girlfriends, most of whom are in committed relationships. They laugh about how they live...
The Rules vs. The Game If men want to get a beautiful woman… they either go mainstream and memorize pick-up lines or they pick up Neil Strauss’ The Game. As a professional dating coach, I’ve invested years of research and experience...
I wanted to take the time to discuss a topic that I think many guys still have a very hard time with internally. It is something that is so tough for many of us to comprehend because it isn’t logical. And that is the point. Attraction Isn’t...
Remember this: you want to make women laugh. If you can make a woman laugh (so long as she isn’t laughing at your expense) then you are delighting her, and she’ll want to see you again. However, as most men know, women often find different...
Don’t Be the Creepy Guy “I can’t talk to her. She’ll just think I’m a creep.” Does that voice sound like anyone you know? It sounds to me a LOT like the little green demon voice in the back of my big dumb head. Maybe...
Sell the Sizzle Not the Steak As some of you know I’ve been writing a lot of posts lately where I’ve related some tested sales and marketing techniques to the realm of dating science. I was browsing various marketing blogs and found this passage...
Annoying pest… to welcomed guest Two girls are standing together in a bar talking about their upcoming vacation. They seem really into the discussion and barely break eye contact with one another. They are obviously in deep rapport, and quite...
First off, I never realized reconstructive surgery for a woman’s private parts was such a big thing, but after thoroughly reading the article I can understand how this has all evolved. With all the breast augmentation, bot-ox and face-lifts, why...
Kim Cattrall pretty much confirmed that there will be a squeal to the ever so popular Sex and the City movie that came out this past year while on the Paul O’Grady Show. There were many rumors about how the cast could not agree on salaries, but...
A new study came out that women in stable relationships have lower sex dives. Is it because men get bored? Are women just settling these days? Or are they prescribing too much xanax? So basically they are suggesting a female testosterone patch, great…more...
Great reader question this week about anal sex. I’ve also received a lot of emails about The List, both expressing readers’ wishes that they had started one way back when and also wanting to know more about the contents of my list, so I’ll...
What is “dating”? Typically, dating a hypnotic cultural mechanism where guy meets girl and takes her out for entertainment (and usually spends lots of his hard-earned money) in the hopes of getting laid, or establishing a long-term intimate...
This weeks radio show was a blast. We had a couple college friends stop by the studio to discuss the fine art of partying like a rock star… We take the entire night from start to finish and give a complete game plan. Starting with “creating...
You never know what your going to find across you internet journey and today I found something so cool that I just had to make a post about it. I like the way these guys think and they are onto something here with Sarah Palin, but they seem to be making...
