Kino and Seduction
Here is another one of Derek’s articles. When learning to seduce women, or just pick them
up in a bar, it is always good to have some tricks up your sleeve. Anyone familiar with
Mystery’s method knows this, as well as anyone who’s read Neal Straus’s “The Game:
Penetrating the Secret Society of the Pickup Artist.” Below is a Derek’s take on it.
We men might not be interested in the stars or fortune telling, but most women are. And that can be used to create very playful and fun conversations, to sustain positive touch, and to influence how your date will act with you. The esoteric is a powerful friend.
What Are Women Interested In?
Think about this a moment: what is one area of knowledge that most women are interested in? Hint: most men think itâ€™s stupid. Tick-tock-tick-tockâ€¦ timeâ€™s up.
Why? Because even if a woman doesnâ€™t REALLY believe the stars have anything to do with her mood, astrology is all about relationships and emotions (and since itâ€™s illogical men tend to laugh).
Even if she thinks the lines on her palms have more to do with her tennis grip than her life, sheâ€™ll still enjoy talking about the future and all THOSE emotions and possibilities.
In short, that sort of inner esoteric material is fun to think about. And even though itâ€™s improbable, a lot of women will have a seed of hope that thereâ€™s truth in the ancient traditions â€“ because thatâ€™s a pretty damn romantic idea.
Donâ€™t Talk About the Star Trek Stuff
On the other hand, talking about aliens and political conspiracies will mostly bore her, although it fulfills the same deep desires â€“ just for men.
Why? Conspiracies are all about the outer world and logic â€“ while the inner one is what most women are more interested in.
So, great, youâ€™ve got a number of interesting topics there. Take the zodiac.
You donâ€™t want to open with â€œWhatâ€™s your sign, baby?â€ You might as well grow a porn moustache and rename yourself Dork Diggler.
The Zodiac Doesnâ€™t Have To Be A 70â€™s Opener
But after youâ€™ve got a little conversation going and sheâ€™s having fun with you, it can be a playful tangent. Maybe youâ€™ve just had a particularly good laugh, your eyes are smiling and your hands holding, and you ask â€œWhatâ€™s your birthday?â€
If she misunderstands and thinks youâ€™re asking her age, great â€“ youâ€™ll probably get her age, and you can tease her about how dense she is, to not get what youâ€™re saying.
But when she gives you her birth date, you can answer with a thoughtful â€œAhâ€¦â€ or â€œThat explains it.â€ or â€œUh-oh, watch out. Iâ€™m trouble baby.â€
In any topic, cliff-hanging remarks like that will almost ALWAYS prompt a response â€“ and you can dance around it for awhile, playfully teasing.
But in this case, since the topic is one she is probably at least a little interested in, you can have all sorts of conversations branch off from it.
You Donâ€™t Have To Believe â€“ But At Least Know Something About It
Now understand, youâ€™re going to have to do a little homework here. Not much – but enough that you know what sheâ€™s talking about if you wind up with a girl whoâ€™s REALLY into this shit (which will happen sooner than you think).
For instance, say you lead with â€œIâ€™m trouble baby.â€ When you eventually get around to answering why (and remember again, take your time, build suspense) you donâ€™t want to be exposed for a fraud.
Say she asks you your birthday, you tell her, and she says â€œNo, that doesnâ€™t sound right. That doesnâ€™t make any sense. Unless your ascendant is wood or your moon fire. Is it?â€
You donâ€™t want to answer â€œUhâ€¦ raaaaaaaeeeeyt.â€ You want to know at least enough to say â€œYou know, I never found out my time of birth, so I donâ€™t know. In fact, I donâ€™t know much about all that â€“ why donâ€™t you explain it?â€
PLAY With Her
NOW you can have a lot of fun. If you meet this sort of girl and sheâ€™s going on, you can just riff off that. Playfully make fun of her. â€œSo you honestly think that because the moon was 54 degrees off the horizon instead of 56, that I was a bedwetter until I was 5? Oh, that damn moon! I blame Armstrongâ€™s big step, that musta done it.â€
You donâ€™t have to believe this stuff â€“ in fact, it can work great if you donâ€™t. But you should know enough that you can converse about it, because itâ€™s almost always an interesting conversation for the lady.
Also, because itâ€™s all about relationships, the zodiac lends itself well to sexual innuendo. Or it sometimes directly talks about it.
â€œOh, youâ€™re a scorpio? That must be it then.â€
â€œThatâ€™s where all your sexual energy is coming from. Scorpios are insatiable. I once dated a scorpio who was an animal in the bed. The kinkiest girl Iâ€™ve ever known. Are you anything like that?â€
See how useful this can be?
The Power Of The Palm
However, my favorite still is and will always be the palm-reading. You get all the same conversations as the zodiac, plus sustained positive physical contact. Not to mention you can CHALLENGE her to fulfill what you see in her hand.
Let me give an example of how Iâ€™ve used this, so you can see what Iâ€™m talking about.
Into Derekâ€™s Life
I went to a diner with a lady one late night, and we were having an interesting conversation. She started talking about one of her friends and some of that girlâ€™s foibles. I responded:
â€œYeah, itâ€™s interesting the way that happens. Just last week I was reading my female friendâ€™s palm andâ€¦â€
â€œYou can read palms?â€
â€œYes.â€ (Remember the showcase skill â€“ donâ€™t boast, let it naturally come up.)
â€œWell, I donâ€™t know. I donâ€™t do just anyone. Iâ€™ll need to get used to your energy and see if itâ€™ll work.â€
At that point I took her hand in mine and we continued talking for 10 minutes or so as I gently kneaded and massaged her hand. She was getting turned on just from that (remember the oxytocin response). Finally, I decided to give her a reading.
â€œLetâ€™s seeâ€¦oh wow. This is interesting.â€
â€œWhat is it?â€
â€œThis says you have a very open, experimental personality. You arenâ€™t scared of trying new or exciting things; in fact, you seek them out. Is that true?â€
â€œYes!â€ Now Iâ€™ve given her a picture of herself sheâ€™ll try to live up to, and a positive view of this way of acting. Much more likely sheâ€™ll be open later after Iâ€™ve said this.
Soon our waitress â€“ a cutie herself â€“ got curious and came over to see what we were doing. When she found out I was reading my dateâ€™s palm, the waitress said â€œDo me!â€
I took her hand and immediately let go of it and drew back in shock. â€œMy god!â€
â€œWhat?â€ Both girls asked this simultaneously, actually.
â€œYou donâ€™t want to know.â€
â€œCâ€™mon, tell me.â€
â€œNope. There are some things itâ€™s better not to know.â€
The waitress wound up being even more intrigued by the palm-reading than my date â€“ to the point where she was becoming annoying and getting in the way. So I just reset the date in a new location â€“ my apartment, as it happens.
All Sorts Of Positives, No Negativesâ€¦ and No Sweat
The waitress still digs me though, my date is impressed with the fact that I can be that attractive (not to mention sheâ€™s oxytocin ODing), and Iâ€™ve given her a playful fun and SEXY template to live up to.
Oh, and reading palms? I have no idea how. I made it all up.
Ok, not everything â€“ I know a few basics â€“ but you donâ€™t need to be an expert. Learn a few lines here and there, and you can easily ad-lib the rest. Just make it interesting and playful (and keep that contact time high), and youâ€™ll do incredibly well with this one simple skill and your social value will skyrocket.
If you want to learn more about how to easily and effortlessly apply the art palm reading to your seductions, then you’ll want to check out my ebook Palm Reading For Seduction. In it you will learn all my tricks and techniques that will make women chase you without you knowing everything there is to know about reading palms.
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