New Columnist at The Seduction Bible


jimmysude.gifJimmy Suede is coming to the Bible!  I’ve been a huge fan of Jimmy’s site Ask Jimmy Suede and I asked him to come on board and write an original weekly column for us here.

I suggest checking out some of his old columns over on his site.  They are an extremely funny look at the PUA community as a whole, and always serve to remind me never to take things to seriously.   I honestly find myself laughing out loud at the shit that comes out of his mouth.  His advice on picking up women is priceless!

I’ll be posting his first column here this weekend.  Look out for it.

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About Bobby Rio

I'm Bobby Rio, one of the founders of TSB. I tend to write about what is on my mind so you'll find a mix of self development, social dynamics and dating articles/experiences.  For a collection of some of my favorite articles check them out.

Simple Trick Tells You if a Girl Wants You to Kiss Her

Do girls leave you confused as to whether or not they like you?

Let's face it.  Girl's don't make it easy for you.  She will often send mixed signals leaving you unable to tell if she is being friendly or flirty.  If you read her signals wrong you risk rejection and embarrassment. Or worse, you blow it with a girl who wanted to kiss you.

Here is a simple and innocent move that will instantly tell you if you're in the friend zone, or if she's waiting for you to kiss her.


  1. Boris

    September 28, 2007 at 12:26 am

    Hey Guys,

    can’t find the forum so i’ll just post here.

    first off, i’m 100% believer in the limited routines and natural ‘inner’ game stuff. The website is great. Read all the articles in a few weeks (big information whore). The community really has changed almost every interaction I have, and for the first time have had multiple girls interested! Dave D, Tyler D, and Juggler i’ve enjoyed their work.

    On to the story. This one girl i am friends(yuck) with, has recently flirted pretty heavy with me. One night i was rolling good, working good kino and the lot, and sitting down next to her she puts her head on my shoulder, play with each others hands for a minute, i’m thinking i’m in great shape. So i move her upstairs(not to my room but out of the finished basement where the people were), it was not done terribly smooth but got her alone. Then she just went really cold. Same type of thing happened again next time we hung out in the same place. Months of me being a wussy i feel is holding the whole thing back.

    Should i just forget it? Be risky and use a strong SOI when things are looking good?

    It is not a one-itis case, and shes only about a 7, but it would be satisfying. Feedback appreciated.

  2. Bobby_Rio

    September 28, 2007 at 6:49 am


    I can honestly say that I have hooked up with quite a few girls that I was previously friends with. THe key is in the flirting.. You have to progress the flirting to a sexual level. Not blatantanly sexual but let her know you see her as a woman and not just “one of the guys”

    Do all the cocky/funny attraction building stuff and if you sense it go for it.

    Trust me, its not the easiest move to make. I had a girl i was friends with for five years before I pushed it. She slapped me. She told me she didn’t want to ruin the friendship. She told me things would get weird. She pushed me off her.
    … But then she pulled me back on her and starting kissing me passionately. We were naked an hour later…

    Things did get weird though. So if she really is a friend you don’t want to lose don’t do it. If you’re only friends with her cause you want to hook up with her them go for it!

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