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Indicators of Interest

There are a bunch of new Mystery videos floating around in an effort to promote some new bootcamp or course he has coming out. Some of them are just filled with fluff… but most of them contain nuggets of good information. This one came out about a week ago and in it he discusses indicators of interest. For those of you not familiar with the terms, these are basically signs that a woman is into you.

Here is a short list of IOIs

  • She reinitiates conversation when you stop talking
  • She giggles
  • She touches you
  • She plays with / tosses her hair
  • She asks you for your name or any other personal questions (e.g., age, where you live)
  • She disagrees with you but laughs when she does
  • She compliments you on anything
  • She asks if you have a girlfriend or mentions your girlfriend, whether or not you’ve said you have one
  • She calls you a player or a heartbreaker
  • She introduces you to her friends

For the complete breakdown of attraction, IOIs, and escalating I would highly recommend one of my most influential books Magic Bullets.  I consider it the bible of bar and club game.


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    December 9, 2011 at 3:35 pm

    A girl is in my class and she ones told her friends that she likes me,but when i asked her she said she is just my friend and also she always gaze at me in class.i do not no if she really loves me

  5. Heyo

    April 19, 2013 at 4:52 am

    I don’t think that if a girl calls you a player she likes you… I usually use that term when a guy who I am just friends with is being very flirty with a number of girls, but maybe that’s just me. I wouldn’t say that to a guy I was interested in.

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