Mini Compliance Request

Christian Hudson, formerly of Master the Vibe, has started a new site called The Social Man. I’ve always been a fan of Christian’s work and am looking forward to what he will be coming out with.

Christian sent in this short post about flirting with a girl you’ve just met. I love quick tips like this because they are actions that you can immediately implement and see results.

The Mini Compliance Request by Christian Hudson

You meet a woman and she gives you her hand to shake. “Nice to meet you,” you say as you hold your hand out… “and wow, what an incredible sense of fashion you have. Come here, let’s have a look.”

At this point, you lift her hand as if putting her into a dance spin, and you gently twirl her to face away from you. You look her up and down, front and back, and nod approvingly. From here, you can do a few things:

– grab her other hand. now you’re holding both, and continue your conversation. this creates a very flirty, intimate vibe

– pull her into a hug and tell her you like her. it makes no sense but it works wonders

– let her hand go as if you were releasing a firework that was about to explode, and tell her she’s too hot for you. rock out for a sec, then pull her back into you with a little hug around her waist

In a high-energy environment like a club or crowded bar, these mini compliance requests work wonders on several levels. First, they get you touching her. Second, they get her following your lead. Third, they give you a pretext for being flirty and fun.

Go have some fun with this one, its a blast when it starts to work for you…

And don’t forget to check out www.thesocialman.com

Rock and roll,
Christian