What Seperates the Men from the Boys
I hate jumping on the Michael Phelps bandwagon… but I heard an interview with him today, and one of his answers bears repeating.
The interview asked Phelps, “What separates the good athletes from the truly great ones. How do you get to be as good as Michael Phelps?”
Phelps response:
I think the guys like Tiger Woods, Roger Federer, Tom Brady… what makes them so great is the way they handle the obstacles. Its the way they handle the pressure. I mean Michael Jordan got sick. The difference is that when Michael Jordan plays sick… he still makes the shots.
I think this relates to anything you want to achieve in life. When you’re trying to improve your dating life… you’re going to run into obstacles… It is how you respond to the obstacles that separates the men from the boys.
Do girls leave you confused as to whether or not they like you?
Let's face it. Girl's don't make it easy for you. She will often send mixed signals leaving you unable to tell if she is being friendly or flirty. If you read her signals wrong you risk rejection and embarrassment. Or worse, you blow it with a girl who wanted to kiss you.
Here is a simple and innocent move that will instantly tell you if you're in the friend zone, or if she's waiting for you to kiss her.
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About Bobby Rio I'm Bobby Rio, one of the founders of TSB. I tend to write about what is on my mind so you'll find a mix of self development, social dynamics and dating articles/experiences. For a collection of some of my favorite articles check them out.