Be the “Exciting” Alternative
Most people are bored out of their minds. They live a boring life. They have boring friends. A boring job. They wake up bored. And go to bed bored.
In fact, they are so damn bored that they have almost completely lost faith that it is possible to be anything but bored.
So they watch the news, go to movies, DVR fifty different television shows, have a table full of gossip magazines, and dwell on small, insignificant, meaningless problems…
They’ll do anything to escape the goddamn boredom that is their life.
And they are practically begging for someone to come around and cure them of this perpetual, relentless, and soul sucking BOREDOM.
If you can be that cure, that “exciting alternative”, that “light” in a seemingly endless tunnel of despair… You would have the world eating out of the palm of your hands.
Yet, instead, you simply dwell in your own boredom.
And you sit and wait for someone else to save you.
You “imagine” that a beautiful woman is the cure to your boredom. But what you don’t know is that beautiful women are the most bored creatures alive.
They are so frustratingly bored that they are crawling out of their own skin. If you don’t believe me … take peak inside her medicine cabinet. The cabinet is probably filled with anti-depressants, anti-anxiety, sleeping pills …
She is losing her mind because she can’t figure out why with her looks, all the guys in her life, all her friends… she can’t figure out why she has what all the magazines tell women they are supposed to want, what other women strive for, for what men kill for…
And yet, she is just as bored
So here you come…
And you want her to “save” you.
And within minutes of talking to her she realizes you are just like every other guy. Bored. Living in a one dimensional world. Tired of your boring life. Believing that SHE is the answer to your problems…
And you wonder why she turns you down.
Here she is, waiting, hoping, praying for something exciting … and you show up just as bored as her. And you remind her of the hopelessness of her situation. And she resents you for it.
Be the exciting alternative to her boring friends, the other boring guys, and to her boring life.
Don’t add to the misery.
How do you do this?
The first thing you need to do is get yourself out of your own god damn boredom trance.
Before anyone else can save you… you need to save yourself.
What will it take for your life to be more exciting for you?
What would you like to learn?
Who would you like to meet?
Where would you like to go?
What do you want to do?
Now is the time to do it. Not when that beautiful women comes into your life. Not when you make more money. Get older. Finish school.
When you approach a beautiful woman … what are you bringing to the table?
About Bobby Rio I'm Bobby Rio, one of the founders of TSB. I tend to write about what is on my mind so you'll find a mix of self development, social dynamics and dating articles/experiences. For a collection of some of my favorite articles check them out.