The Strong Eject: How to Compliment a Girl and Still Come Off Cool
When I was first began going out and really trying to improve my game with women, I kept running into the same problem; my conversations would quickly run out of steam. It was really frustrating because I would start off with a solid opener, usually get her laughing pretty quickly. But then I would sort of hit a dead end. And rather than plow through it, fearing the awkward silence, I would usually just make up an excuse to leave. And get nothing.
This happened less and less as I began to improve my conversation skills, but I still get sick to my stomach thinking about all of the great opportunities I missed because I ejected too soon. And worse, I ejected without giving her any indication I was interested in her.
Well, a few years back, a great pickup artist by the name of Juggler gave me a really insightful tip that has worked wonders for me over the years. And I thought I would share it with you. I call it “The Strong Eject.”
How to end a conversation with a woman in a sexually charged way
A major problem you might be facing right now is getting comfortable displaying interest to a woman, or any kind of sexual intent. Sometimes it is very difficult to break rapport and say something to a woman that lets her know you’re attracted to her on a more than “friendly” level. It is even harder to compliment a woman in a way that still allows you to maintain the more dominant frame. This solves both problems.
It also solves the problem I spoke of earlier in which you start off strong with a woman … then run out steam. And even those times where you legitimately have to leave.
It is very simple.
When you begin to feel yourself running out steam, or battling a mind that keeps going blank, simply pause for a second and deliver a strong, sexually charged compliment, before excusing yourself. For example, you could say:
“I didn’t notice this before … but you are actually really sexy. Anyway, it was cool chatting with you. I have to go find my friend.”
What you’re doing here is showing a sexual interest in the woman, and at the same time, you’re immediately taking it away from her. And we all know how women like to chase what they can’t have.
So while I usually advise trying to plow through awkward moments using tips and techniques on making small talk sexy, in some instances I know the a quick eject, might just be the best move. And if you’re going to eject, give this method a shot. Not only will you be improving your ability to confidently compliment a woman, but you’ll also find that on many occasions the woman will be so intrigued that she will actually hunt you down later.
Give it a shot and let me know what you think.
About Bobby Rio I'm Bobby Rio, one of the founders of TSB. I tend to write about what is on my mind so you'll find a mix of self development, social dynamics and dating articles/experiences. For a collection of some of my favorite articles check them out.