Make a Conversation Sexual With One Change
Honestly, in the time I have spent in the pick up community there is one thing that I have seen give me and guys I know the most dramatic results quickly. It’s not a magic line, understanding female psychology or some forbidden technique. All of these pale in comparison to the results this small tweak in your game will get you.
This sounds simple, but 90% of guys are to afraid to touch a girl they just met. Now, I am not talking running around like a mad man and slapping every ass in arms reach. I am suggesting stuff like hugging, taking her hand, and putting your arm around her. There is literally no quicker way to get a vibe going that getting physical in these ways with a girl. Time and time again this has taken a boring conversation and sky rocketed the sexual chemistry for me, and it can do the same for you.
The biggest mistake guys are making is that they think gaming girls is a completely verbal skill set. While being able to click verbally later is important, good conversation is not a consistent way to get girls to feel that instant spark with you. Think back to when you had a girlfriend or met a girl where there was a instant click. Most of the time nothing that special is being said. However, I can guarantee you were probably in close proximity to her and most likely touching each other a lot. This create a huge amount of sexual tension and chemistry.
The funny thing is, you can get this sexual charge with anyone through touching!
If you really think about it, it makes perfect sense. Do you think caveman had complicated pick up lines and long drawn out conversations, probably not. So how did they pick up girl caveman? With naturally sexual interaction, and sex involves touching.
Touching Works. Period.
By touching you are also showing that you are a confident guy. Think about it, would a cool guy stand off at a distance and make awkward conversation. Nope, a cool guy would walk up and take what he wanted. If you ask girls what the most attractive trait a guy can have is, 9 out of 10 times they will say confidence. You are making yourself 10x more attractive when you touch a girl confidently, instead of being like every other guy who cannot even look her in the eye.
By putting your arm around a girl, hugging her, or taking her hand you are making moves and being the man in the interaction. So many guys wait for the girl to make the first move and by playing it safe they are actually ruining there chances. Why? Because men are naturally the leaders when it comes to sexuality, not girls. By being a naturally touchy guy, you are leading the interaction and this put you ahead of every other guy in the bar almost instantly.
Next time you are talking to a girl, instead of standing 10 feet away and talking about her favorite color, introduce yourself with a big hug and a lot of eye contact. I guarantee once you get used to doing this all you conversations will become sexually charged. On top of this, it is completely socially acceptable to hug a girl you just met. So stop being asexual and try it!
Here is another article related to the subject: https://www.tsbmag.com/3-questions-that-turn-her-on-from-pandoras-box/
Do girls leave you confused as to whether or not they like you?
Let's face it. Girl's don't make it easy for you. She will often send mixed signals leaving you unable to tell if she is being friendly or flirty. If you read her signals wrong you risk rejection and embarrassment. Or worse, you blow it with a girl who wanted to kiss you.
Here is a simple and innocent move that will instantly tell you if you're in the friend zone, or if she's waiting for you to kiss her.
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About Alex Becker Alex Becker is a dating coach and writer with a huge knowledge base in PUA, psychology, and social dynamics. He currently spends most of his time focusing on teaching college aged men how to naturally improve their success with women. In his free time he enjoys playing guitar, building websites, and his dog Chewbacca.