Role Playing Secrets For Getting The Girl
By: john sinn
Jon Sinn here, with another information packed article. Today I’m going to be talking to you about one of my favorite tools for flirting with a woman and getting her to think about you in a romantic context.
That’s right I’m talking about role-playing!
Role plays are really good for flirting because role plays are pure emotional communication, which means they’re playful. They assume a relationship because you’re creating this fun fantasy role play relationship. They are familiar, they create an “us versus them dynamic”, they’re not too deep and you can verbally and nonverbally communicate while you do them.
So role plays are awesome for flirting. Role plays, in fact, are one of the few things that Hollywood gets right when they are depicting scenes of flirting or scenes where a man meets a woman, or a woman meets man. For the most part they are crap but Sex in the City and various movies that I’ve seen have gotten the role play. Hollywood gets that when you play around like this and you create these fun, fantasy scenarios you, two, are flirting.
So I want to talk about two specific types of role plays today. The past and future adventurous projection,.
So we are going to start in the past, as we should, with what a past future projection is. A past adventure projection is when you make up a fun scenario where you and the girl you’re interested in knew each other in the past. In my opinion these types of scenarios are a little more fun and flirty because they assume the two of you already had a relationship.
So my favorite one of these is called “I cheated on her with a Spanish milk maid”, so if it’s a group, I’ll say
“You know girls, there’s something you don’t know, Sarah and I actually dated and I’m not too proud of this but I actually cheated on her, you know. It’s not my fault though because I did the math and statistically like this was my really only one chance to sleep with a Spanish milk maid, so I had to jump on that, but I do feel bad about it, you know, and I promise I’ll never do it again. “
At this point, one of two things is going to happen. The girl is going to play along and be like: yeah, I cheated on you with a pool boy; or something like that, that’s usually what they say, or she will like mock-cry or something, and now you know she’s flirting. I like that one a lot because either she’s going to flirt or she’s not, ad you know really early on.
Future adventurous projections are situations that haven’t happened yet but take place in the not so distant future. I like to do, ones that assume relationships that are real. I don’t like to do the ones that are like: I’m going to put you on a spaceship and make you my space princess, or I’m going to put you in a devil suit and walk you down the street, because I guess like at a base, base level, psychologically something is happening there, maybe. But for me I’d much rather make it more realistic and something that we can kind of play into.
So I’d be like:
“You know what, you’re going to be my girlfriend for the next five minutes, so we should create a whole relationship including breakup into five minutes, so we had better get started. How do we meet? ”
And from there I’ll just go through this whole role play, fun, tongue-in-cheek scenario and I don’t have a specific way it goes down, it depends on the situation. It could be in the bookstore, and I was making fun of you because you were reading Rush Limbaugh’s book. Or I was making fun of you because you were reading Spanish Vogue, didn’t really realize it was in Spanish because you were just looking at pictures; and we were on our first date to the mall, and then blah-blah-blah. But role plays in general, like I said, I like to keep a more serious role plays not like the crazy ones like: I’m going to swim with a shark with you and save you, like that stuff, I don’t think you get enough bang for your buck, pun intended, as with the ones that are a little more realistic.
The best thing about role-plays like these, are that you can use them right away to start getting great results in your conversations with women. So get out there and start role-playing today!