Should You Date An Ugly Chick?
I?ll be the first to admit, I?ve nailed and even dated plenty of less-than-attractive women in my time. Sometimes you get hammered at the bars and that 5 turns into a 7, aka you get beer goggles, or you need a slump buster, and things just happen.
If you?re a social artist and remotely concerned about your relationships with the opposite sex, I think it?s a serious question to ponder: should you ever date an ugly chick? I think the answer is yes.
I can think of several circumstances where dating an ugly chick is the right thing to do. Here are a couple of examples from my past:
My game got really off at the beginning of the year and I hit a dry spell. I broke the slump by nailing a chick who was basically a 5, maybe a 6 because she had a rocking body. After the slump ended I started seeing a lot more success. I dated her for a couple of months because she was fun to hang with.
I lived for a year in Ohio for a job, in a mid-sized city, that had absolutely no beautiful women. Or at least it seemed that way. I cycled through a handful of homely chicks just to pass the time before I moved. I did date one model briefly, but she was only in town for a month before moving back to LA. Anyway, if you live in a location that sucks, expect to have to have to swim in the shallow end of the pool.
When I first started working on my game back in the day, I got a lot of inconsistent results, and that translated to banging some less-than-fair members of the fairer sex. I think that?s fine because experience, any experience, improves your game. Just don?t get in a rut. Keep your standards high.
Sometimes that chick with mediocre looks is super cool and really fun to be around. I?ve known plenty of those. Generally, I look for chicks who are into sports or college football and turn them in to F-buddies that I can easily hang out with.
I generally keep my liaisons with ugly chicks to 5s and 6s?maybe a 4.5 if things get really bleak. I look for at least a couple of redeeming values if I?m going this route, such as a fantastic body, or at least a fantastic rack, to help offset the homely appearance. It?s also helpful if she?s great in the sack and loves to get down?that encourages me to keep her around for a little bit longer.
One year I had a girlfriend who was no better than a 5 from the neck up, but she had a fantastic runner?s body and was nuts in the bedroom. She also loved to party?so all of that made it worth it for me to keep her around in the long term. She ended up being a psycho, which obviously is two big strikes too many, so I ditched her in the end. But man, do I miss that body of hers.
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About Lance Lance is a tech geek by day, social artist and fitness enthusiast by night. He specializes in relationships in real life situations, such as workplace and in business, and his goal is to create high value social circles filled with opportunity. For more on his dating and relationship perspective, check out his blog honeyandlance.com