How To Date More Than 3 Women Simultaneously
In the last month or so I’ve been having a lot more free time than usual so I decided to try and date 3 women at the same time. When I’m saying “date” I’m actually referring to regular intercourse with all of them, going on dates and trying to keep them all somewhat happy. In short, I tried and wanted to have 3 girlfriends at the same time.
So far I’ve only managed to get to 4 and time won’t actually allow me to date any more as I’ve got work and other personal stuff that I have to deal with. If you’re already rich, don’t need to work, don’t need to go to college or you just don’t give a f**k then you could go even further but that would imply seeing 2 girls a day, meeting them during the day-time as well as in the night-time.
With that being said, this article is going to show you how to get and have at least 3 “girlfriends”, the difficulties that come with this and how to deal with them.
My plan was simple. It was so simple that it actually worked. Here’s what you need to do. Get yourself to 0 people that are having sex with you and focus your mind on what’s about to happen. Get some cash and go out almost every day for 2 weeks.
Depending on how lucky and how much game you have, you could be banging number 1 around the first weekend. Anyway, the plan basically stipulates absolute best time management. Each night you go out to meet women (clubbing/bars w.e) you will force yourself to get 2 solid numbers. This means that almost every next day, one of the solid numbers will see you. You can forget about the other one.
You’re whole plan should be going out then going on a “date” the next day. Finish the date, if no sex; go out after she went home. Continue this for a maximum of 2 weeks and by the end of the second week you’ll be seeing at least 6 women.
From the first date you’ll be able to quickly gauge how soon a chick will sleep with you. If you know that she’s going to take more than 3 dates, drop her and go out that night.
My initial plan was to get and keep just 3 but I ended up with 4 and said oh well…
Every dude brags about how cool he is that he’s seeing 99 women but in reality he’s seeing that many women in front of his PC monitor with his pants around his ankles. Anybody that has ever dated more than 2 girls on a somewhat regular basis will tell you that this shit is freaking hard.
We all know how hard it is to have a girlfriend, well multiply that by 4. Sure, you give them all less attention, less interest, less all that. You even tell them that you’re seeing other women but that only makes them want to you more. In truth, seeing this many women will drain your time and resources tremendously.
The first issue on our list is the money. It will cost you loads. I don’t agree with taking girls on dinner dates (unless they are your official girlfriend) but, if you’re going on a “drinks date” almost every night it’s still going to cost you a pretty penny. Yes, you should be paying for her drinks as well and although most of the time they are well mannered and don’t break the bar, you’ll still be spending loads on a date (+transport) especially if you like to drink. That being said, once you do get to sleep with them, the costs will go down slightly since you can just meet at your place or hers.
Time is probably your worst enemy here. All of the girls you’ll be dating won’t have such a full schedule. The thing is, you work till 5-6PM then you need to make sure you’re going to see one of these girls every night. If you don’t, you risk pushing your next meeting to much and if you didn’t spit solid game or didn’t sleep with her yet, that can cost you the chick.
If you’re dating 4 chicks you want to basically see all of them at least 2 times a week. Of course that’s going to be impossible which means each week you’ll have to sacrifice seeing 2 of them only once. Why? Well because you need at least 1 day to rest, see your friends etc. You need to mix this pattern up so none of them feel like they’re left out.
To make all of this work, you’re basically going to have to be their very own personal assistant that gets a very good idea of each girl’s schedule. If one of them works a random hours job it’s going to get even harder.
The secret here is to keep a very close eye on their patterns. Taking down notes helps but it’s not really necessary. If the chicks were as organized as you, you could basically plan your stuff for the next 4 weeks but unfortunately, that’s never going to happen. All dates you’re going to plan are planned at MOST 1 day before. It’s just the nature of “unavailable” women which are in fact very available but are acting their part.
Even though you’re only seeing these girls every other day, you still need to keep an emotional connection via text or phone calls. To get rid of a chick I like to call her after she’s done with work and talk about everyday things for about 20 mins. Yes, that’s 20 mins per chick, per day. You’re only going to call 3 of them because you’re going to meet the 4th that night.
Also, because you’ve been spitting hard game, these chicks will start to call/text you themselves. Get ready to decline sex invitations, get ready to “be involved a lot more in your work” and get ready for awkward shit to happen.
The stuff you tell them and the stuff they tell you is outstandingly important. You can mix things up so easily that makes the whole thing NOT FUN anymore. Unfortunately, the only way to keep clear tabs on what you said and what she said is to take down notes.
Because every player that wants to sleep with a chick should mold his personality based on her needs and desires, you’re going to be a fairly different person with each of them. When you’re only seeing one chick this really isn’t a problem but when it’s 4 you best create that persona as close to the real you as possible. This way you’re going to reduce the stuff you have to remember and you’re going to have a much easier time. Sure, it can have bad consequences (chick might not like you) but when you’re seeing this many women, who cares?
Write down what you told each chick and write down the things she says about herself. This is important because you don’t want to repeat yourself nor do you want to assume that she already knew something about you when in fact you told that to someone else. It’s hard but, if you write it down and read it before a date you’ll be fine.
I’ll give you a quick example of how my list is now:
Tall and skinny chick – studies hard for masters, does something about restaurant inspection, is smart, gives me shit, independent woman type, worth it for the sex.
Petite chick – works at Burger King, has random hours, not much in her life, good in bed, hot bod, asks a lot of questions about my other affairs.
Curvy chick – is an accountant, does well with numbers, likes me too much already, will want relationship soon, doesn’t like me seeing other chicks, great sex.
Foreign Chick – studies psychology year 2, easy to talk to, laughs at my jokes often, is fairly available most of the time, can’t go to her place, best bod, shy in bed.
You’ll be amazed how just these simple notes are more than enough to make them think that you care about them, especially if you repeat their names in a conversation and then discuss their jobs, uni etc. Do this list again to what you told them about yourself and you should be fine.
*some time ago I saw a dude in New York doing spreadsheets for something like this. The whole thing went public and was a total fail for the dude. If you like spreadsheets, do that but be careful about who gets access to your computer”
The final thing on our list is obviously the sex. All women are different; all women want something more than just you stabbing their insides with your manly part. I don’t take notes here because I easily remember this part since it’s why I’m doing this in the first place.
The first 2 times you meet and have sex you should be exploring her like Columbus. You’ll quickly see what she likes and how she likes it. How much pressure she can take from your fingers, your manhood, how sensitive she is in some areas compared to others etc.
This stuff is important because it’s a major deciding factor in her sleeping with you again, especially after you only saw her once last week.
Ideally, you’ll want to use condoms with all of them. 4 regular sexual partners screams STD so be careful. If you think one of them is trustworthy or is on the pill, still consider the consequences and then do as you please.
As you can see, dating 4 women at the same time is seriously hard work. It will drain your time, resources and life in general. If you don’t think this is worth it, don’t do it. I wanted to see how it is. I’m probably going to end it with 3 of them in a month’s time because I personally can’t do it much longer (can’t decide which yet). With that being said, as far as scoring chicks and being a player, this is still one of the best things I’ve managed to do in my life and I think every bro should at least try it once in his life.
This is the sort of stuff I discuss on my blog and in the free eBook I give out. If you want to increase your success with women, visit ThePlayerGuide – a place where the dating mindset is thrown out the window in favor of more direct and fruitful methods of meeting and seducing women.
About Alex Matlock Alex Matlock is an expert in dating and woman psychology. Apart from working on his PHD in Social Psychology and writing for TSBmag he also owns ThePlayerGuide - a place where the "dating" mindset is thrown out the window in favor of more direct (and fruitful) methods of meeting and seducing women.