5 Steps to Getting “Average” at Pickup
Let’s talk about the idea of becoming the average guy.
What I mean by getting to average is that contrary to the opinions of extremely out of touch internet pickup artist fan boys on message boards and all these losers who never go out and talk to girls but just sit around and read on the internet and spout off all this theoretical bullshit, you are worse than an average guy.
So you have to understand that you are probably not average. You’re probably below average if you’re reading this, unless you’ve really worked on yourself already. But basically the reason you’re studying pickup is because you’re not average. So all the guys who find this stuff start off below average and you need to fix that in the areas of looks, neediness, sexual anxiety, social skills, etc.
So how does one get to normal? I know you’re saying all right Jon this sounds good but how do I do it. It’s actually not that hard.
First, start working out if you’re not in shape you have no right to complain about not getting the girls. I’m not even trying to hear it. Literally, it’s been on the side of my blog for 5 years, if you’re not going to the gym 3 to 4 times a week you don’t have any right to complain about not getting girls.
Number 2, get a makeover. Guys for whatever reason tend to keep the haircut they had in college or when they first got out into the workforce. They also tend to keep their same style. If you wore t-shirts and jeans as a college student, chances are now that you’re in the workforce you wear t-shirts and jeans on the weekend when you’re not being forced to wear your work clothes. This is another major reason why you’re not getting girls.
Change it and shut up about money! You can get a good haircut for about $24 at most Floyd’s Barbershops and it’s a chain in every major State. You can shop discount retailers like Ross and Marshall’s for clothes and even thrift stores for cheap new looks. You don’t need money to fix your makeover. Obviously you need some money but for literally $200 you can give yourself a makeover that will make yourself more attractive to women.
Number 3 get a life, meaning you need to start getting out of the house for interacting socially 3 to 4 times a week every week. That means more nights need to be spent doing something social than staying home. It doesn’t have to be pickup but you need to go out and start talking to people in networking groups, volunteer work, co-ed sports teams, comedy or music classes. Being social is something you have to do a lot to get good at it and it’s something that takes time.
It’s impossible to get really good results socially whether it’s networking, making friends or getting laid without putting in a lot of time on a regular weekly, every week basis. If you’re not doing that I don’t want to hear you complain about not getting girls. If you stay home 7 nights a week I don’t want to hear about it.
And 4th you need to learn basic social skills. You don’t need to be the most interesting guy in the world but you do need to be able to have a normal conversation without saying anything too weird, creepy, boring or self centered. If you see my stuff on Social Comfort or Filling in the Gaps you know what I’m talking about. If you haven’t, I highly recommend you get the 5 Minute Chemistry Course and that will point you in the right direction of what stuff you need to be talking about.
Number 5 start asking girls out. In a well publicized study in 1978 that was then repeated in 1982 at Florida State, university scientist Russell D. Clark III and Elaine Hatfield and had an average looking man and woman approach members of the opposite sex and ask them to in order: go on a date with them, come back to their apartment with them and have sex with them. 50% of women agreed to go on a date with the average man, even if you adjust for flaking with the 90% rate that most men get it still translates to 10% of girls showing up, which is a similar rate to those reported by other pickup artists.
So once you’re average you need to start asking girls out and seeing what the results are. Then if you’re still having problems we can move onto the rest of the technical and tactical sticking points and problems with pick up.
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About john sinn Sinn is widely regarded as the second best PUA in the world. Sinn is known for his hard nosed style and take no excuses approach to teaching. He is a nondenominational teacher, which means that he subscribes to no particular method and instead blends the best of every school of seduction to create the best possible results for himself and his students. Sinn is currently running his own pick up company The Sinns Of Attraction, which offers live, phone and email training.