The signs she wants you to ask her out
You have been talking to a particular girl lately, but it is not progressing from there. While you are trying to work out if she is interested, she is patiently waiting for you to pick up on her obvious hints that she wants you to ask her on a date.
She mentions places she wants to go
No matter what place or event you are talking about, she always professes an interest in wanting to go. She even says she’d like to go to that new seafood restaurant, despite her life-threatening allergies. The more she does this, the stronger the hint: she wants you to ask her to go together. You may wonder if this still applies when she is genuinely interested in whatever place you mentioned. Trust me, if she did not want to go with you but thought it sounded like something she wanted to do, she would make a mental note of the place name without telling you that she’d like it.
She mentions that she is free on the weekend
Women are not always as subtle as you would think. She mentions that she is having a quiet weekend. You do nothing. Next time, she ramps up her hints by complaining that she is going to be bored that weekend. If you do not take the hint that time, it is a lost cause. It is extremely rare that a woman will complain that she has nothing to do all weekend to a man she is not interested in. Watching her nails dry would be a more preferable way to spend her weekend than going out with someone she is not into.
She tries to find common interests
She is probing you about what kind of music you like or what genre of movies you are into, because she is hoping to hit on a common interest. If you discover that you both really want to see a new movie that is coming out, it would then make sense to go and see it together. You may also find that she is suddenly interested in every movie you are interested in. Last week she told you she hated action flicks, but now that you want to see a movie with too many explosions and not enough plotline, she is suddenly open to the idea. Tip: if you do decide to see a movie together based on a common interest, you may want to double check with her that she actually wants to see that particular movie.
Not a sign: complaining about not having a boyfriend
You may think your female friend complaining to you that she wishes for a boyfriend would be a strong hint that she wants you to declare yourself as her boyfriend. This is often not the case. She may be pleased to know that you are interested in her- it’s a good confidence boost- but this does not mean she is interested in you. It is more likely that she is complaining about her loneliness to you because she thinks you are a genuine friend to confide in. It is also possible that she is just annoying like that, and will complain to anyone who will listen.
Here is another article related to the subject: https://www.tsbmag.com/2015/04/13/how-to-know-she-wants-to-talk-to-you/
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