How To Know When She’s Flirting Back
Let’s face it boys, sometimes we just don’t know when a girl is hitting on us.
This can actually become truer if you’re always the one approaching and initiating the conversation. Even if you’re getting numbers, dates and hooking up, you’re probably just thinking, “oh, I did a really good job of hitting on her.” Totally oblivious to the possibility that maybe she was just really into you.
Believe it or not, every now and then, but merit of you not trying at all, a girl will become interested and hit on you.
So how can you tell when the tables have turned and she’s the one flirting with you?
The signs a woman likes you are really not all that different from when you’re hitting on here.
She asks about you, your hobbies, your job, your interests, if you have any wild stories. She wants to know more about you, because she’s interested and she wants keep you talking and keep you around.
And she uses it a lot. This is because she wants you to remember her. She’ll also ask you at some point, “do you remember my name?” So you better be paying attention, but don’t miss a chance to flirt back and purposefully, jokingly guess her name wrong (be obviously way off).
“Oh you’re getting a drink? I’ll get a drink too? The patio? Sure I could use some air.”
She doesn’t want you out of her sight. Does this require an explanation?
Playing with hair is one of the most common fidgets that a girl will do while hitting on you. It’s because of nervous energy. She wants you to like her back.
Women will neg you! How about that? The reason they do this is because they want to make sure that their interest is not misplaced.
They’re double-checking to make sure that you’re not just a walking façade and that you’re as sexy and confident as you appear to be and that they hope that you are.
Do girls leave you confused as to whether or not they like you?
Let's face it. Girl's don't make it easy for you. She will often send mixed signals leaving you unable to tell if she is being friendly or flirty. If you read her signals wrong you risk rejection and embarrassment. Or worse, you blow it with a girl who wanted to kiss you.
Here is a simple and innocent move that will instantly tell you if you're in the friend zone, or if she's waiting for you to kiss her.
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About David Maitland David Maitland is a writer living in Vancouver, Canada.