Day #1: Introduction to 31 Days to Better Game

Day 1 Video : Turning Interest Into Attraction

==>Grab the Teasing and Banter Cheat Sheet

Welcome to the 31 Days to Better Game with Women

(Which from now on we’ll refer to as ’31 Days’.)

Version 1 of 31 Days was released 3 years ago. Since then I’ve refined the learning process and streamlined the content.

I know that the 31 Days will be some of the best training you will ever be exposed to.

Just because its free don’t discount it. A lot of ‘gurus’ are charging hundreds of dollars for similar programs. And I guarantee they don’t touch on half the ‘tricks’ and ‘secrets’ you’re going to become privy to.

This course is going to rock your world.

The majority of the lessons will come via text articles… but every seven days you’ll get a special video lesson.

And I’m going to make it as EASY as possible. I got a lot of tricks… and I promise to share them ALL with you.

31 Days will change the way you approach your dating life, and the way you interact with women to get dates (and more sex.)

But most importantly it’ll will change the way you view yourself. You’ll begin to see the world as truly a land of opportunity (when it comes to scoring.)

It will give you power, control over your dating life, and choice of who you are going to be with.

Result: You are surrounded by women who want to date YOU. And you become a more confident, charismatic version of YOU.

The Battle for your inbox attention

You get a lot of emails. No doubt about it. Some of them get your attention. But most don’t.

I need your attention!

I need you to commit to reading each of these daily lessons and implementing what you learn over the next 31 days.

I can hand you the knowledge, the secrets, and the tactics …but I can’t force you to use them…. that’s on you.

Every email I send you will have a subject line prefixed with:

[31 Days] Day X:___________________

When you see that email hit your inbox- open it and read it.

You’ll get one ‘bite sized’ lesson from me each day for the next four weeks.

This is on purpose so you can easily consume the lesson.


Please don’t delete any of the emails. 🙂

Check your junk or spam folder if you think you’re missing an email – just in case.

Also, at the end of each lesson will be a link to the previous day’s lesson. That way if for some reason you miss a day, you can’t go back to the lesson’s you missed.


Create a special ’31 Days’ mailbox folder.

Each day when a training email comes in:

1. Read it.
2. If there is task for you to do- do it.
3. Then archive the email in your special folder.

Make it happen,

Bobby Rio

P.S. Here is the game plan for week one:

Week one is all about YOU. (your attitude, your appearance, and your level of confidence around women)

Don’t worry though… we are going to focus on the easy things to change.

I’m all about small tweaks that get big results.

These tweaks won’t take much time or money.

But they will take some ‘guts.’

So get ready.

Click and “like”

TSB Magazine






{ 185 comments… read them below or add one }

Ron McCarron October 27, 2019 at 12:13 pm

Many times I was in quick sand so far deep I needed a diving bell for life support! Great program so far!

Eddie June 2, 2019 at 4:03 pm

Hey Bobby I only have one question. What is the scrambler? I ordered it and I’m wondering if it’s like a dvd program that comes in the mail or is it just these emails?

Flako Ray April 29, 2019 at 11:14 pm

Can I get this daily emails?

Nick August 14, 2017 at 10:50 am

Hi Bobby

I work with a girl in an office but it is only us two. How would you employ the going dark on her for two weeks if I see her every day?

Thank you

Andrew Fick May 4, 2017 at 7:52 pm

Dear Bobby,
Hello, you are the relationship guru. I know you say often, that my relationship, isn’t unique, but. .. So, My girlfriend lives down on a Polo horse ranch in Argentina (British Journalist), Skyped for 4+ years,I live in Oregon. We are both very private and when we first talking she was very passionate until I told her.
She, gave me a plane ticket to see her, for my birthday. .. I was very happy, but all of my friends were trying to discourage me from going (they were trying to protect me), I almost was convinced , so I started just TALKING to other women, but never acted-I was compelled to go see how I actually felt, after looking into her eyes (magical), I was embarrassed, I became flooded with guilt and I believe my subconscious. She was betrayed by so many men and I once told her, I couldn’t ever lie… I was also very hurt, too…
She, changed towards me, I just felt sick (literally)- as you say “felt, like someone sucker punched-me, and still have that nauseating feeling when she isn’t how she first was… I stayed down there September 1st to November 5 or 6th-hopes to make everything good between-us (She was to important), and went back December 29th stayed til February 8th.
She said when I was down there that this time it will be a test to see (her, too see), if everything worked between-us (I panicked, I wanted to prolong my stay), but eventually couldn’t.
My last-night I thought we were going to make love, but we DIDN’T!! The first trip was different-love-making quite often with passion!
Now, I’m back in Oregon and I was talking about even starting up a business there… I told her that I was planning to comeback in late August, she texted me and said 1 she doesn’t want me to start-up a business there, nor should I come down in August… Major blow-before she used to joke with me,when, I brought-up August- But I now think she was genuine, going to go and start-up, anyways…
She has an 11-year old son-which, does’t do ANYTHING, at-all… She, thinks the world of him… does whatever, he says. He is very nasty towards-me, Bad… But, I usually take it… For her… EXTREMELY narcissistic towards me…
He feels torn, thinking I might replace his biological father, there’s no way I would. But, I told her that he picks up on her negative towards me. He fed on that and exacerbates her feeling towards-me… Finally, she agreed with me, but the damage was done.
I think I need to convince him, and her, both…? I TRULY want to make this WORK, I was going/am going to us your techniques about getting her back. Know I’m in love and she feels the same about me, but said that I shattered her trust, I did (I, admit that), I was just very skeptical. But, how would you put it to her?? Getting panicked… Please Help…
Take care,

David houpt April 2, 2017 at 10:24 pm

I need all ur stuff the parts to listen to on cd so i can listen in the car or home and the video part on dvd to watch at home. Just give me one price for all u have complete. Talking. Tricks. Lessons. Styles. Everything

Chris February 22, 2017 at 8:03 pm

When you click to go to next page, it is blank, at least for me anyway.

Peter January 22, 2017 at 9:40 pm

Hi Bobby
I have purchased your Unlock Her Legs and I have started reading the 31 days to better game. I am not in a situation where I have problems with dating. I purchased the program for another reason. I have a complex situation which I would like to email to you but not here. No she is not my ex, she is single and I am looking at long term not a quick hook up etc. I know a lot of people have a complex situation also and i understand you are very busy. My problem is a little different and I would like to tell you about it so you can advise me the correct parts of the program I should use from Unlock Her Legs and 31 days or any other programs you may have .
Look forward to hearing from you

Mike December 29, 2016 at 6:01 am

Today is day number one for me, and I’m so excited to start the program..Hopefully it’s all uphill from here!!

Eric H July 14, 2016 at 3:37 am

I had a girl that seemed interested in me but when i visited her she end up fucking some other guy now we don’t even talk anymore and i made the mistake of confessing my feelings to her. What do i do now?

And what do you do when other girls just want to talk about their ex-boyfriend with you all the time. I been kind of not paying attention and trying to change the subject.

So tired of the friend zone.

Bobby Rio June 17, 2016 at 5:23 pm

the cheat sheet is the first post on the page.

Clay June 14, 2016 at 2:55 am

Same problem.. No cheat sheet

Boli May 19, 2016 at 9:51 pm

Hey bobby I like this girl, but doesn’t seem to be interested in me. I tried light flirting and kind of reacts to it. She gets nervous but it doesn’t seem that the attraction is sparking up. A

brian May 2, 2016 at 2:37 pm

Im trying to get the cheat sheets.When I click it,it just says can not find page,any ideas why?

Davon P March 17, 2016 at 3:11 am

Hey Bobby I was tryna get the Teaser and Banter Cheat Sheet but everytime I click on link it opens up a Facebook page but it doesn’t show anything except the Facebook logo.. any advice would be appreciated

Kyle March 6, 2016 at 3:16 pm

Day 1- the most single piece of critical information I learned in approaching. A- don’t talk to her @ B- confessing to fast.

Thom B February 11, 2016 at 10:43 pm

Your information is great. A long time ago I used to teach guys how to pick up women. I am always seeking new exciting information and yours is the best yet. My biggest teach was body language. 93% of human communication is body language. I was wondering if you could do a segment on body language for the guys so they would understand this. Today, so many women know this material and use it on us, talk about a battle of quick sand. This is why I am always keeping up on the life skills. I am 46 and I am still getting much younger women. 10-25 years younger. They still cannot bypass the body language. Currently, I am using your material on a major Female player, she is very good at her life skills. Your information has helped me bypass her skills. She used to have me in check all of the time until I discovered your skills. Check mate. Thank you so much.

qraq December 30, 2015 at 8:59 pm

sounds good let’s do this! really hope I can get my ex back.

Chris R December 7, 2015 at 1:49 am

So the background is I’d spent a long time living a “Bohemian Lifestyle”. Manhattan artist and writer, studied Music comp, Neurobiology and Lit at top American and European Institutions. including 100 credits of Psychology, but I was often not looking for anything long term – I’d had successes when I was “totally in the zone” that fizzled, others that were short term romances, and times when I had someone obsessed with me- a few times the other way. But training or no, I knew obvious bits and pieces of why some things went well and others not, but when I started listening to what you had to say, it clicked immediately for me that what you said is sonsistent with basic principles of Psychology I know, and I was in a situation where times have changed – I want a relationship, and I’d met an amazingly beautiful and brilliant Russian Olicharch’s daughter – super hot and a decade younger than I – and I knew she had a good sense of humor, but we’re both people who can be super funny, but it can be hard at times for a lot of people to pick up on the fact we’re joking. She’s hard to get, awesome, and she’s got some game herself, and I like to travel a lot and she’s back and forth between NYC and Moscow, which adds some complexity. So we meet in Soho and she approaches me – we start talking about all sorts of stuff and SHE’s the one sexualizing the first conversation – tells me a story about getting searched in Israel taking her vibrator through customs – I’ve got a similar story about a Turkish relic with a large penis that wrapped looks like a gun to Brit customs – then she’s asking me what kind of pornography I like – she’s kidding around, like testing me sort of, but I just tell her straight up what I like, and she reveals her hand that she’s expecting me to get rattled by her “joke” and I just keep coming right back over the top – and I make her laugh her ass off. A problem is we won’t be face to face for another week – she invites me to Moscow for Christmas and now she’s coming to Poland next week, is blowing off her friends for New Years and we’re doing her birthday in Berlin – if things go well and I feel like it, not to sound callous. But it was Unlock course that turned around a difficult situation – when I mentioned I’d stay in moscow through New Year’s but made it clear I didn’t expect her to change plans she might have, she felt pressured. We were texting a lot, and this woman has a wild sense of humor, but I write dark comedy – she’s like “I don’t want you to build expectations…you think I’m great, but then we’re together then I take a shit and you see I’m just a woman-now I wouldn’t say this to most women, but to her, I wait til end of day, and then ask her, like I really am totally perplexed, “Why did you give example of taking dump like that would turn me off, because I want you to do that to me”, Tables are turned – she’s the one now can’t tell if I’m kidding or not. We probably texted too much – I hadn’t gotten Unlock’s advice until she sent me a message suggesting she wanted more attention even though we couldn’t seal the deal yet – I wrote back a joke – but it was too much for her – it triggered like a 9 or 10 response – even though she’d put picture of sailboat at NYC (she’s into sailing, I live there – if a guy did that it could be creepy), my joke over the edge got her saying she saw scared (even though she initiated it saying i was “out in the park after dark “hunting girls”). So I apologized,backpeddled and appeased – and then it was like she had total control of our interactions…until I got Unlock – I had to break this pattern, I had to stop reliably replying, had to make it subtly clear that I’d walk on her, that other women were interested, and also keep her attracted. A couple well placed scrambles including a no contact period, and she was pleading my to stop raping her mind, she couldn’t sleep at night – the girl was freaking out so badly, and I hadn’t been through the whole course – I threw her a life raft instead of letting that tension drive her crazy – I said you’re raping your own mind, and sort of discussed what was going on – this girl knows a lot of this stuff, was accusing me of it, but it has turned out okay – she’s though things won’t work out a few times-all of this had to do with my failure to get to the “Understand” part of LUST – I kicked ass the first day, then I had to scramble when she tried to make a power play, but I wasn’t complimenting her femininity – I opened up about an internet interaction where I got hurt and explained how I did understand – and now she’s touching herself thinking about me, then I give her some space – I really have stuff going on – and she’ll be up all night obsessing – when we are face to face soon, we’ll be doing a lot of really cool stuff, including tearing each other’s clothes off and going at it like animals…it’s hard to maintain this through internet and getting back together soon was a good idea…armed with Unlock’s suggestions how to make sure she’s turned on – who knows, I may get called away on business and not be able to do Berlin for her birthday – I had planned a return 10 days earlier… the cat with ball of string metaphor – all of it works like a freaking magic pussy charm.

Rod December 4, 2015 at 6:34 pm

I was pretty skeptical when I signed up, but your sales pitch made me take a risk.
Day 1, I didn’t return a text,
Day 2 I still didn’t return a text.
Now she is texting me and inviting me to be out with her. I stopped intellectualizing and talk about emotional stuff. I got pissed at her without worrying if she would “hate me”. I’m working on validating her now and within a few days I’m going to seal the deal. Already worth the price of admission.

Zachariah Payne November 30, 2015 at 6:00 pm

Hey Bobby, thank you for this 31 days bite sized program it’s exactly what I’ve been looking for to take my game to the next level.

Theo September 7, 2015 at 4:31 am

are you ready! 😀

Roy July 8, 2015 at 6:02 am

Hey man, all of this sounds great but don’t have facebook. Is there another way to get the cheat sheets. Thanks

Raymond June 6, 2015 at 4:55 pm

Looking forward to your advice

DOK May 13, 2015 at 3:03 am


raj April 26, 2015 at 10:35 am

Great guide. These are things I never knew. You made it look so simple.

Thanks Bobby

Dragan April 13, 2015 at 11:44 am

Hi Bobby,

How to download Teasing & Banter Cheat Sheets?

I liked TSB Magazine , but I do not see any link for download.

Drew March 27, 2015 at 8:00 pm

Hey Bobby you kick ass bro! Is there any other way to get the teasing and bantering cheet sheets? because I do not have a Facebook account, I hate social media.

Alexandre Gabriel February 10, 2015 at 3:12 pm

Please send me the tip day# 4. I haven’t received yet. It went from day 3 to day 5.

Texugo January 20, 2015 at 6:18 pm

Good stuff, will change it all for me! Thanks!

Yuri Boyka December 3, 2014 at 2:12 am

Hello Mr. Bobby Rio, Sometime after learn about unlock her legs I always ask my self about the game which you taught me push and pull !! I feel that aren’t no girl give shit about me , I mean who the fuck am I ? why they choose me , why need obsessed with me ? I think if she feel that it hard for her to get me or solve my puzzle she will find another guys who more easy than me !!

Jose November 1, 2014 at 11:26 pm

It took me some time to begin, but totally happy of what i have seen so far i know is les than 1%. But thanks there is this one girl I really like she lives in another country i will visit her in a couple of months.. so happy!

Erwin November 1, 2014 at 5:51 am

How should you treat a woman thats attracted to you on facebook. Should i ignore her comments and not like her statuses or what? Thank you 😉

Raymond Thompson October 25, 2014 at 6:17 am

I’m looking forward to changing my life, from no date from the past 20yrs, to at least two dates a week.

larry October 9, 2014 at 5:38 am

Hey bobby, you are great to deal with this sounds like a hell of coarse… I’m like you small tweaks with results …thanks man …..
later larry osborne

David September 14, 2014 at 11:34 pm

Please help
I ve been dating a girl for 5 years now and we broke up about a month ago i was devastated she just wanted to be friends !!!
because we had some major issues in communicating I’m 39 and she’s 27, through this 1 month actually its just been this week i Bought your unlock her legs
program stayed up all night listening to what you guys have had to say and to the truths about women hell i even bought your magnetic messaging as well for the 2nd time lost your first copy ages ago
ANYWAY put your program to the test and ended up having lunch with her listen to her conversations whole heartedly looked at her as if i wanted to fuck her hell
i even said that little thing about the jewellery she was only wearing earing but said to her ” Oh thats nice you put on some pretty bling bling earings for me and got jazzed up for me ” big smile and she looked like she was melting let me tell you, everything was going perfect to the point i was at the bar getting us a drink and shed send me some pic of a porno site lol finished lunch things got so heated up she”s like we should catch up tomm arvo which i just said Why wait !!! to cut a long story short she drove me back to mine and mind you the drive back was so fucking intense she was rubbing my cock i was rubbing her moot got to mine
i got out of the car she got out went in for the killer pash and SUCCESS like two dogs on heat went into my garage ripped our clothes off and went for it.
Apparently were catching up tomm which she said she was going to wear a nice stripped dress for me and were going for a drive up to the hills lol.
? 1 She’s me ex what do i do from here ?
? 2 What txt do i send her after she goes home afar a nookie ?
? 3 How do i treat her now ?

The Hills didn’t happen but she did say we should catch up for a coffee over the weekend and do something nothing happened Wtf am i here only on convenience when she’s bored now ?

Please help i really want her back in my life and don’t want to fuck it all up lol

Kind Regards
David Skoda

dan September 7, 2014 at 5:06 pm

All the advice you give in your videos is actually really helpful. Just a wanted to say thanks and here’s the but. Two issues that I have. The other night at the bar I was able to get this girl Michelle’s number, except her phone was actually dead so my number was never taken and I feel as tho she was so drunk that she’s not gonna remember giving me her number. The other issue I have is, at the gym, which is a gray area to hit on girls, the girl works at the front desk, what are your thoughts on approaching her.

Thanks again, in your videos you say how it is and it all makes sense cause the way in which you say it is straight to the point.

JakeStein September 1, 2014 at 12:25 pm

It’s really too bad you only make the cheat sheet available through Facebook. Not everyone likes to use Facebook, and even FB users are not always keen to have other sites or concerns get access to their information. I’ll have to skip this resource and make my own deductions through your other materials.

Robert June 22, 2014 at 10:44 pm

Your word is as good as gold so far. I got more than I realized I was bargaining for, just in the 1st purchase alone, and then the training area? Thumbs up! Thanks!

michael June 8, 2014 at 5:15 pm

Iam a member socialtraininglab.
met this attractive woman in starbucks this past tues 5-20-14 in las vegas in mirage in starbucks. she has a clothing company , she goes back and fourth vegas brazil and now she in miami. she wanted too go in expensive clothes store she did not ask me to buy anything or hint me, after went to wal greens she paid for her stuff, on strip took pictures of her and took a few pics of me her picture, she told me i was nice, not nice guy qualitites that she might like a nice guy, difference and i was a good that really bad or no ? problem though, during time i met her her gf was in room sleeping so i did not try to esclate her there, i checked out of my room before i met her. she says we look cute together, and when she goes to los angeles she wants too meet me, but in starbucks saved her number, she forgot that i called when we did that, later she saved my number and name i did same . she took picture of a statue that showed a dick, so she said dick, i should have said i have a sexy dick, let’s go to your room and get sexy, didn’t say that, another time she said do you like to play ? i said yes, and i should have said let’s go play in you room. but she happened to be leaving within 2 hours, after that miami she had to leave with her gf in room to airport,probelem is during interaction i did not esclate tease a little. did not disagree at first meeting approached her, she was texting, a little she got on phone talking on phone, i did not say anything about it, texts, she did eye contwact me, but she still was texting, those were the issues, on wed 5-21-14 i texted her, shopping was ok, but it was boring, and told her in los angeles when will have fun and that i have ideas. she texted me back awhile after, saying. hi honey how are you ? I replied with great, getting ready too have a few tacos. on 5- 23-14 fri left her voice mail. on 5-24-14 she returned call. She says she likes me, she thought I have boyfriend, said oh man. and during conversation she has told me this conversation and in vegas she wants too meet me in los angeles.however, i told her i want privacy in room with you in los angeles, alittle bit after she said my friend calling, i will call you back. last thing, on 5-28-14 wed I was assuming what she did satuday was joking with her, and sent her, Texted, How was shopping sat ? she replys back with wtf. I replyed i was guessing. she said Iam crazy , I said Iam crazy fun, A while after no response, I told her, I was joking about shopping. As I write this that’s it so far. I believe that why she said wtf, is because i told her on phone i want to have privacy with you in room.she could be mad about that. why about shopping / was only joking. don’t know for sure. What is next step and your suggesstions? vin, the five words, don’t see how this would work through text voice mail. what would you say through voice mail or text and when ? any suggesstions ?

was supposed to meet her in los angeles in july. looks like may not, don’t know, any steps suggestions / what too leave voice mail or a text. sounds like she don’t like me now ?


Joseph June 7, 2014 at 8:42 pm

I don’t do facebook. How does one go about getting the “Cheat Sheets?”

Bobby Rio June 3, 2014 at 2:13 pm

Hey Man

Get your testosterone levels checked. could be the issue.

Alan May 31, 2014 at 8:40 am

Hi Bobby,
These links won’t expire after a month, will they?
I probably won’t have time to go through every lesson every day.

Thank for the help, man.

Austin May 30, 2014 at 2:00 am

I hope this stuff works.. I’ve struggled with asexuality pretty much my whole life.. I know I’m not gay, but I feel I have no desire for women and can’t relate to everyone going crazy over being “good with women,” and wanting to “spark attraction.”

I started dating when I was 25 out of social pressure, out of everyone going raving MAD about wanting “pussy,” but I never really enjoyed any of my experiences. After some girl played some mind games with me, I decided I had enough with dating and that it just wasn’t for me. *I* was the one shooting WOMEN down when they expressed interest in me… *I* was the one doing the rejecting – crazy, right?

When I go out I see women that APPEAR appealing physically but I don’t feel any desire or need to approach them. I feel “numb” around women and any sort of intimate acts with them just don’t seem very important to me.

But I feel that they SHOULD be.

The only reason I’m taking this program is a feel I “should” desire women, and hopefully this program will give me that desire.

I’m looking over the cheat sheet now and none of it seems very exciting to me, but maybe if I force myself to “quickly establish myself as a flirt” I will find enjoyment in interacting with women.

tayo May 26, 2014 at 9:53 pm

Great stuff! please email cheats as link not working.

tony May 22, 2014 at 9:07 am

Hey Bobby I watched today’s video but when I went to get the cheat sheet it said page not found ,I’m a truck driver and it’s hard sometimes to be one the same day is this a problem and is there anyway I can get the cheat. Thanks Tony

Noel jacob May 9, 2014 at 9:11 am

Teasing and banter cheat sheet link is not working
Message on Facebook says ‘page not found’
Do you have a pdf document link.

Chris March 29, 2014 at 4:42 am

bobby i fucked up i was trying to get your scrambler program and i only got a 90 dollar prepaid card… it ends up being 92.78 with exchange rate…. ive gotten two of your other things so far… i wanted to get this program cause i want to make this girl want a relationship and keep her for damn sakes… shes just getting out of a marriage well not quite yet but thats the idea.. shes already attracted to me and ive already had fun with her in bed numerous times im going nuts at what i can do to get and keep her… i am playing it as cool as i can without letting her know im hurt about the whole thing.. i havent felt like this about a girl in a long while.. she says she doesnt want a rebound it may not work shes been in a 12 year relationship. she wants to continue to see me but initially giving me the power saying its up to me if i want to see her. i know she would be hurt if i just stopped talking to her. i have her so close just no idea what to do next.. anyways thx bobby i will have to figure something out to get scrambler stupid exchange rate…

Jay March 24, 2014 at 8:21 am

I like to get it emailed as well

Bobby Rio March 17, 2014 at 12:50 pm

As for lost emails and stuff, shoot our customer support girl Nataly an email and she’ll hook you up with whatever you’re missing.

Bobby Rio March 17, 2014 at 12:49 pm

Absolutely awesome man!

Ric January 27, 2014 at 4:25 am

Hey i cant open the cheat sheet can i get it emailed to me

bukul January 10, 2014 at 11:52 am

thanks that what about a lady in the library concetrating

Julio Tarango December 22, 2013 at 10:54 am

Hey Bobby,Vin, or any of you fucken Jedi masters. This is Julio”Bugsy”Von-Jul Tarango. I got 2days absorbing this info along w/ a lot of the other links. So far I’ve got a b.j.from a waitress, got my ex wife back in bed, and building progress w/ 2 other fine females. In that same order. All in a couple days!! Then all my emails got lost and I’m no longer receiving anything from anyone anymore. I’m trying not to panic, I did pay for this, and I believe in your integrity. I just need to get back on track. Also I’m doing all this from my Nokia windows phone and it has just been a pain in my ass. Almost every video download is complicated. I’m a fucking loyal padawan, with every desire to reach Jedi status. Still w/ all the tech complications, it gets a lil disencouraging. I’m still here, still ingaged and ready for whatever coaching is next. Thanx

steve November 28, 2013 at 3:59 pm

Thanks, hope it works, i’m awful with girls

Michael November 17, 2013 at 2:31 pm

hey bobby there is this girl i like i started off with flirting… managed to get her number talked to her couple of times… got to know her lifestyle… tease her as well… u know… but then when i asked her out she rejected me… could it be i pushed myself too much or she got a diff impression on me i swear i never got this confused out of all the girls i got with… :SS

Marlon October 25, 2013 at 6:48 am

Hi bobby.

Im having problems viewing the cheats lis, keep getting an error that the page cant be viewed

Eli September 7, 2013 at 5:20 pm

Hey bobby,
For some reason it’s not letting me open the cheat sheet link. Is there another way to view it!

nervous breakdown August 14, 2013 at 3:21 pm

That can dude actually knows what exactly is he has speaking about.

Edgar August 5, 2013 at 12:00 pm

I cant load the banter sheet, when I click on it it takes me to a page saying “page not found” Please send it to my email

Cortland July 24, 2013 at 11:05 am

The cheat sheet wont load. Can i get it outside of fb? Also im stuck in the “friend zone” what do i do? Or do i find out later :3 cuz i really like her and we have been friends for years. I feel we both want it to go further but i asked her out once and she declined. We still remain best friends and sort of act flirty but i want to know how to jumpstart. Our relationship.

Cortland July 24, 2013 at 11:00 am

The cheat sheet wont load. Can i get it outside of fb? Also im stuck in the “friend zone” what do i do? Or do i find out later :3

Ron ogden June 16, 2013 at 3:20 am

.I as well don’t a Facebook page but would like it emailed to me!! Thank you!,

Abraham June 2, 2013 at 5:12 am

I don’t have a Facebook is there a link a can get without going to Facebook if not can u please send it to my email?

farbiz May 25, 2013 at 3:07 am

I can’t download… Grab the Teasing and Banter Cheat Sheet

Frank Alsup April 27, 2013 at 2:18 am

Don’t have any thing to said at the moment.

Abraham March 25, 2013 at 6:57 am

I don’t have a Facebook

Is there a way I can get the free banter cheat sheet sent to my email instead?

D January 27, 2013 at 12:30 pm

cheat sheet rip, …not funny !

Matt January 7, 2013 at 4:19 pm

How do I get the teasing and banter cheat sheets? I “liked” TSB on facebook but don’t know where to go from there. Let me know please.

Sam December 12, 2012 at 4:11 pm

Agreed with everyone else having a problem getting the cheat sheet. I don’t have a Facebook account and don’t care to create one. Could you email the cheat sheet or put a download link up directly without Facebook?

joe December 10, 2012 at 8:07 pm

teasing and bantering guide

r November 13, 2012 at 1:20 am


Aaron November 4, 2012 at 5:19 pm

I came across this because my best friend and I are close and like each other but she’s confused about what she wants. All our friends we know want us together because im the one guy who doesn’t want her for just her body but to make her happy in all other aspects. She told she wants me to make a challenge and not make things easier last night. I feel she wants me to succeed in this cuz she’s told me she’s happy with me. I hope you can help me!

osmettle November 4, 2012 at 2:03 am

hey man the first video sent to me is not playing,i don’t know if there is anything you can do fast cos i ll like to start fisting into them.thanks

nell October 16, 2012 at 3:58 am

any way you can send the cheat sheets by e-mail?

Jason October 6, 2012 at 8:24 am

1. Like on facebook
2. right click pdf save as
3. download video to library

took me 30 seconds, in and out, nobody saw a thing

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Dean August 26, 2012 at 7:31 am

I agree with JD. Liking on facebook is too revealing. The common friends of my ex and I will see it. Also the girl I fancy now is a FB friend already. One look at this ‘like’ she’s probably gonna run away.

Can you send the Banter cheat sheets to my email?

J. D. August 19, 2012 at 1:33 am

I am very reluctant to “like” you on Facebook because that lets the whole world know what I am doing. Is there another way?

ankur July 31, 2012 at 2:51 pm

hey bobby
A little help here

there is this girl i have been talking to mostly over text,
i know her through one of our common friend i keep flirting to her and she does respond to it. from few day she hasn’t replied and i did tried reaching her but was not successful . what should i do to nail this one.

Paul Pepper July 25, 2012 at 7:11 pm

Hi Bobby,
Its seems like im back having downloading probs again.
I can get the video but when i tried the cheat sheet, its casuing internet explorer to stop working.
Any ideas

DANIEL June 26, 2012 at 2:34 pm

Have this girl in the office that i like so well.I mean she is pretty. Problem is , she is too careful and quiet.I had earlier told her girlfriend to tell her i love her which she did.(mistake#1) Her girlfriend now all of a sudden seems to be interested in me(problem#2) and when i ask her whether my intending girl is around she will readily say NO…not surprising ! I had good courage and could express my self very well so i met my girl and told her i do have this strange feeling whenever i see her(mistake #2) but would love to be her friend.SHE AGREED BUT SAID WE COULD JUST START BY BEEN COLLEAGUES. ….Need professional advice on how to carry on with this r/ship. And by the way is is a older employee at work while i’m barely months . tanx

DANIEL June 26, 2012 at 2:15 pm

I’m ready Dude ….U sound gr8 !

rushi June 20, 2012 at 8:28 am

hey bobby…i am in a confused situation…
i really need your advice…
because of you emain and tutorial…
i am in a realtionship with a girl…
i had sex with her many times….but when i had sex with her lst time….after sex she told me that she dont want to be in any physical relationship anymore….
plz help me bro…how can i convince her now??
her reasons were that:
she thinks that she had became bad while being in sexaual relation…she thinks that sex is wrong..
plz bro…help me to convince her…

ayham June 18, 2012 at 1:40 pm

Thanks for sharing. looking forward to more.

sean June 14, 2012 at 10:29 pm

bobby i read shit like this all the time just to get that much better with chicks. (David d, Marin) just to name a few but finally I come across one made by a true bro.

Bobby Rio June 13, 2012 at 4:02 am

will definitely give you the fundamentals of what attracts women

Nick June 11, 2012 at 11:32 pm

for some reason i was not sent day 18

solomon rooney paul June 8, 2012 at 4:07 pm

thats great but what if you never see her again and you said no asking of number at that ist instance so what do we do to keep in touch boss

Rahul June 7, 2012 at 2:12 pm

i’m looking forwrd 2 it…..dat was awsum…i believe 2 get lot of hlp frm ur 31 day program man….

Kevin May 29, 2012 at 12:12 am

Hey I did not get the second day for this and was just wondering why, I am getting all of your other emails.

LEKINI May 25, 2012 at 9:12 pm

i am starting to get the hang of this and also interesting

Amarjeet singh Madan May 25, 2012 at 3:37 am

pls.send the learning content.

Lee May 2, 2012 at 3:05 pm

Hi Bobby;
Do you address how to work the system when on a web site such as
I am the in nice guy mode. I get winks and flirts but no respnces to my “nice guy email”
What do I do?


Zwelakhe April 20, 2012 at 8:08 am

i follow very well on the steps…. What if am attracted to her and i want her to be my girlfriend, what am i suppose to do?

EG April 17, 2012 at 1:30 am

hey first day first step thanxs for this help…

Eg April 15, 2012 at 10:30 pm

Hey the cheat sheet doesn’t work?

PRADEEP April 6, 2012 at 12:34 pm

i’m Pradeep from India…and dere is a another way of leaving…here we can’t approach a girl directly for a religion effort… is a lots of barrier about finding a girlfriend………how can i approach a girl……can u send me the answer of this comment in my mail id…its a request sir…….

Jewel Rahman March 30, 2012 at 8:23 pm

Hi! Bobby Rio.

I like to join your club. But I need know that the girl I like, I already proposed her but she had refused. She like the good looking guy as like the TV star “Deen” of Super natural serease. But I am just a very simple guy and so good looking as Deen. So I should I aproach her again. Pls give me some suggestions as because life depend on it. I told her that if she does not accept my proposal I will kill myself. So what to do now?
Pls tell me how to start with her again.

Thanking you and waiting for your answer.

Jewel Rahman

danny March 28, 2012 at 1:03 pm

Hi Bobby Rio i love to talk a girl , i love her but i fear that she answer ‘no’
and i become nervous . what kind of situation i can create to talk to her , i am busy and she is busy too . which kind of situation is favorable in medical school am year 4 medical student

Enthu March 27, 2012 at 8:45 pm

The Video of day 1 is not playing. Can you please help?

James March 26, 2012 at 5:23 pm

Hi Bobby Rio! I love a girl very much. But whenever she comes in front of me or talks with me I become nervous and go out of words. I just don’t know how to talk with her, what to talk with her? Also she is in a relationship with another guy. But she flirts with me a lot. Just don’t know what to do?

Tony Stark March 20, 2012 at 1:56 am

Hi Tony,

you’re great man. I really love your videos & podcast, and the way of thinking about seduction & life. Tomorrow I will suscribe to your social training lab, is cheap and can be very fun.
By the way, for the rest of readers: now that I think… I can sound like a friend of Bobby Rio, trying to improve their sales or something like that. I am from Spain, and I am just enjoying the advices from this man, plus I am practicing my English (listening) also.
So thanks a lot for all your free material, and your work. You rock dude

Matt March 12, 2012 at 11:59 pm

Hey where do you get the testing and banter sheet? I liked the Facebook page and nothing?

airtym February 27, 2012 at 7:51 am

interesting, Bobby Rioo i lyk ur game

Foster Lauden February 23, 2012 at 6:36 pm

I’m boy new to the web and also needed to read up on this subject.

raj February 23, 2012 at 3:18 pm

hey bobby nice mail .
but im not been able to watch video as my mobile doesn’t support flash .
please send me a download able link so that i could watch.

Maihoi February 5, 2012 at 11:52 pm

wow Now i understand

Maihoi February 5, 2012 at 11:49 pm

Cool I’m ready

Rajib February 3, 2012 at 4:48 pm

Hey Bobby,

Do you take disciples?? Coz if you do, them i want in..No matter you select based on SAT scores!!!! 😀

david February 2, 2012 at 4:24 am

cool stuff here 😀
i wanna try this out! i just want to get out of the “friend zone”..

but my question is how?,even if we started as friends. 🙁

Alcides Giovannillo January 31, 2012 at 5:15 pm

Dear Bobby,
My name is Alcides and I am Angolan Citizen, I can not make payment to your Program because you have only sellected other Countries.
I am interessed to apply to your program and my country is not on the list. Could please help.
Country : Angola
City: Luanda, Zip Code:+244
Southen Africa.

I look forward to hearing from you soon,

Kind regards,

Zipsy January 29, 2012 at 7:21 am

I am waiting for your reply on this… cross fingered…

SRG January 25, 2012 at 2:27 am

i meant to say i got the first video of day one but didnt get one for day two

SRG January 25, 2012 at 1:46 am

hey Bobbie Rio ive liked this girl now for 5 years and i like her but she doesn’t like me how do i use this to help me get her?also ive only got the first day of the 31 days of the program why haven’t i got the email yet?

Alex January 24, 2012 at 9:03 pm

Bobby, I’m texting this girl who I met and kissed a few days ago… I just had a bit of banter with her and she told me not to call her that ever again, i carried on and she went ‘fuck you!xx’. I know she’s not being serious, but I don’t know how to respond to that?

ksee January 21, 2012 at 2:00 am

hay Bobby Rio the girl i want she dose no want to hang out or go some where how do i get her to like me? I also need help the girl of my hart slices her rest if you can help me then i need you to tell me how i get her hart

Rich January 9, 2012 at 5:09 am

Where exactly is the link to the teasing and banter cheat. I tried the like and comment but nothing.

prince January 3, 2012 at 3:17 pm

hey bobby……i like one girl nd she is was my frnd before i say anything ti her she came to know before about it through somebody else…… she dosent talk to me and dont to be even my frnd and she is not even listening to me…….so tell me what should i do?

Mattf013 December 31, 2011 at 1:25 am

Whenever I click the link to cheat sheet it just takes me to the TSB Facebook page

madmax December 27, 2011 at 7:42 pm

you will never really understand, unless you are going to put into it some serious work. This isn’t about learning a pickup line. So why don’t you go back to your girlfriends….

J JonaH December 10, 2011 at 9:51 am

I do believe this is the first comment I’ve left.
online In 6-7 years because this just might be the help us guys need to finallly figure out these beautiful refugees from Venus and build the confidence needed to approach and conqure any single one of ’em

Dude of The Decade December 10, 2011 at 3:02 am

hey Bobie , man, i liked this video alot. I am 19 yrs old and there is one big confusion in my small head:sometimes i feel ,okay this would be enough…!! and sometimes its like “Oh shit, man i won’t be able to make it.I just wanna say i don’t have even a single girlfriend yet though i have 6-packs ,a good look and money too and the last thing is:” i am able to build the attraction ,rapport and what else is needed to play the game,but still i don’t have a g.f past 19 years and this is humiliating 🙁 .Something is missing but what is it? ,i can’t rectify.
pls help
yours fan.

Mic December 9, 2011 at 6:37 am

Any ideas regarding, hooking up during finals week in the Uk? thanks for your time.

charismatic December 7, 2011 at 11:30 pm

Starting in Dec 2011, a great way to start 2012 🙂
Thanks, Bobby!

NIVEK December 5, 2011 at 1:22 am


siddharth shah November 30, 2011 at 5:57 pm

Sir, is it necessary to see the video. Is there any material that you can mail, so that it can be read.

tyga November 27, 2011 at 9:53 pm

i jsut wish am able to have some one dat i can really make
to love me

Jaime November 22, 2011 at 9:08 pm

Hello Bobby:
I am finishing a divorce, I lived with my ex 25 years and I’m 50 years old, do you think this program will help me get back in the game?

Richard November 10, 2011 at 1:47 am

do you have these videos on pdf, format of something to read, cant watch vidoes, with my satalite card, without using to much data, and paying more a month….for service….Thanks…am not getting out of all these video’s i cant watch…

Jerrick October 18, 2011 at 10:57 pm

There this girl at my church that seems really into me and she failry cute and she’ll walk up to me and start a convesation but all i can do is say ” I’m hanging in there doing fine how about you” then my mine go’s blank cause I can’t think of nothing elese to say but those boring words.

trevor October 18, 2011 at 12:24 am

hey bobby ,

I’m in a jam and need your help. I just broke up with this girl and want to get her back. help me plzzz.

Byron October 7, 2011 at 1:06 pm

Cool stuff. Exactly what am looking for………

finny October 7, 2011 at 8:05 am

thanks it helped a lot in improving the game

hetty October 6, 2011 at 11:05 am

i love yr stuff, its rocks.keep the fire blazing

george October 2, 2011 at 2:12 am

i cant wait to have game

Cameron September 23, 2011 at 12:44 am

Omg Bobby thank you so much.. The works is starting to pay off.. I was with this girl that I really like yesterday for like 5 hours and I got a kiss on the cheek; and today she kissed me on the LIPS! :D. I haven’t even started the 31 day challenge, but it’s excited to think of what I’ll be able to do in 30 dZy

Dahnlove September 19, 2011 at 6:46 pm

HI Bobby Riooooooooooo,

U are the best flitter of all times. Will you provide some stuff on hotel attendent and aircraft attendant.. I really enjoy your stuffs. I got most of the begining from players guide and now from the tsbmagazine…

madhan September 18, 2011 at 5:21 am

oh man i’m impressed

Bobby Rio September 14, 2011 at 4:49 pm

you’ll get the lessons to any account. if you don’t get a lesson check your junk mail. it might be in there. then whitelist bobby

dynamite September 14, 2011 at 12:40 am

what if i don’t have a yahoo mail i only got gmail 🙁

jerry Wallace September 12, 2011 at 5:21 am

where do I sign in

Richard September 10, 2011 at 4:02 pm

A good advise on timing to ask her to take her out .

Also never ask her mobile number in the initial days – great advise

Russell September 6, 2011 at 2:59 pm

This is great…I’ll try this stuff and give some feedback on how it went down….

Bobby Rio September 2, 2011 at 2:30 pm

yep.. a two part lesson with my evil scheme for getting out of the friend zone… its coming in a couple weeks.

L September 2, 2011 at 9:45 am

Dude, I really hope you have some stuff in here for getting out of the friend zone. Because that’s my main problem.

Blake August 20, 2011 at 4:18 pm

I’m on the third week of this course and it’s got some good stuff. About Bobby mentioning other products, I think he’s just giving us a choice… and a chance to look at other stuff. Maybe having user controls on the weekly videos would be a good idea, especially for those on dial-up. About Bobby giving us all his stuff (making it self-sufficient), I’m sure he’s got to put bread on the table too. No matter what method you use, there’s going to be work involved in learning, practicing, and using the material. Me personally, I’m a fan of Speed Seduction. That’s not free either. Still, Ross Jeffries does give you a very good taste of how his method works and is worth checking out. Below is a 10-part lesson on YouTube.

Ross Jeffries: With Women, It’s the Attitude That Counts

Judd August 20, 2011 at 10:29 am

Hi, a couple of comments…….
You don’t seem to understand that there are a lot of us out here that just don’t have high speed and are still using dial-up not by choice, so when you do the damn utube thing we just have to hang up and you lose a potential customer. There are better programs than utube…..
Next, I attempted to get the cheat sheet, but will not join face book to do so. You need to make your stuff self sufficent instead of attempting to force us to use the other crap…… you are only loosing customers.

isaac bello August 16, 2011 at 8:52 am

hi from spain this course is great but any tip for institute girls?

david entsiwah August 15, 2011 at 5:47 pm

praise The Lord God Almighty! Oh Lord! Your works are wonderful! You do not leave your children! You never fail in your promises. Oh Lord! how happy i am, the joy Susdgs has given me, for having finding you! Oh Praised be our god yahweh! Praised is jesus our beloved savior!Amen!

Dave V. August 15, 2011 at 4:25 pm

im starting college really soon and im excited to try this haha

Mohan August 15, 2011 at 7:56 am

Its amazing…It is funny to know …..its really helpfull 🙂

Matt August 15, 2011 at 5:27 am

Hey Bobby just got your program and already finished reading the cheat sheet. I’m going to go over the lines several times out loud until I have them all memorized. These should give me some idea and help me come up with my own. Can’t wait to get the second video.

joseph August 13, 2011 at 6:28 am

looking forward to this different kind of approach

swey August 12, 2011 at 12:42 am

hmmmm….. i feel its time i had a change in dating life. pretty much feel confident at the moment and also feel committed to take some time out to actually practise the materials you are willing through at me…. BRING IT ON CHIEF

Maksim S August 7, 2011 at 8:23 pm

HMM…. Some of those parts can be re-engineered for salesgirl in the store. Will keep that one in mind.

Maksim S August 7, 2011 at 7:13 pm

No we wanna know how girls trick us!

Maksim S August 7, 2011 at 7:09 pm

I am looking forward for this all.
I feel that in the future I will have no problem w women at all. It’s just that I need that extra kick to get me started and some techniques. I followed David Angelo’s newsletters for half a year about confidence and stuff, and it did help me allot especially in business and work world. However he never ever gave any examples of solid dialogue with women, or any pickup lines, which I could relate to, and see how it actually goes (including that magic whisper in the ear that makes the girl laugh or slap on the shoulder). – to be honest, I still don’t know what can you whisper to a girl to get such a powerful reaction from her…
Anyways, Looking forward for those lessons, and not to have any more lonely nights all the time.

edge August 7, 2011 at 8:18 am

nice line

mk August 6, 2011 at 9:43 pm

Nice tips, hope we get to pick up more than the usual.

Pedro August 5, 2011 at 6:52 pm

Hey thanks for this first video advice, looking forward to more.

However, the Cheat Sheet – is there any other way to download it other than “like” it on facebook? I dont want certain friends to see that I am looking up pick up advice…

James August 4, 2011 at 2:40 pm

it is an intelligent approach and could be exiting.

away August 3, 2011 at 2:45 pm

wow u the best.u rock

raffaele July 31, 2011 at 11:19 pm

due settimane sono troppe..x una barista….soldi spesi male…in un’attesa che puo’ essere vana…spero in qualcosa di piu’ nelle prossime lezioni!!!ciao

Bobby Rio July 18, 2011 at 10:03 pm

thanks. I am working on fixing it. Check back in a few.

Adriano Tosetto July 18, 2011 at 9:01 pm

The above link is not working.

sKeVeRd July 18, 2011 at 4:03 pm

feels so exited my men… 🙂

isaiah July 18, 2011 at 3:43 pm

Hey it won’t let me see the book ?

Peterz July 12, 2011 at 10:38 pm

Hey guru, i nee a favour from u man¡ My and my girl stopd talking 2 each oda and badly 4 me shes now in my school and it seems am lyking her again but i dnt wonna go 4 her. Is dere any techiqe i can use 2 make her come 4 me?

Vincent July 9, 2011 at 7:45 am

this is great, i am really learning a lot!

Steve July 8, 2011 at 9:08 pm


I went to get you teasing and bantering guide . I pressed like button and it tells me to sign up for facebook.
I do not have a facebook page and do not want one at this time.
how else can i get your teasing and bantering guide.??

Clue July 2, 2011 at 11:43 am

Lol just what i have been looking for and got to say its intresting its like episodes.

Rob June 28, 2011 at 9:23 pm

yoo Bobby, one day, really? THANX a billion>> ive been able to turn interest into attraction in a matter of minutes!!!SUMMER IS GONNA BE GREAT!!

emvy June 28, 2011 at 11:35 am

well, i am a woman. hahaha. sounds weird bcoz this site is supposed to be for men. i just want to know how boys trick us! hahaha peace!

JasonG June 7, 2011 at 6:39 pm

There are some really good tips in here. I’m looking forward to 30 more days of this.

jm June 5, 2011 at 8:33 pm

I am interested

jared June 3, 2011 at 6:32 am

my speakers dont work for my pc .. do you have pdf files of your videos i can read?

Jason June 2, 2011 at 2:03 am

Hmmm… This is really cool, I’m getting all pump up looking forward to this program :O

Efex June 1, 2011 at 2:59 pm

Dude… I just finished reading that Teasing and Banter Cheat Sheet… That ROCKS!

Awesome stuff man and can’t wait to use it.

Dave M May 28, 2011 at 3:10 pm

Really cool idea with this program. And giving out for free kicks ass.

Looking forward to it.

crimson May 27, 2011 at 8:40 pm

Thanks for that bartender advice Bobby.

Its cool that you take the time to read these.. I’m really looking forward to putting everything into use.

Bobby Rio May 27, 2011 at 8:04 pm


Funny you asked about seducing a bartender because, i just came across this article on The Player’s Guide about picking up bartenders…

I worked in a bar for a couple years… and think that this is a good strategy, although I never recommend getting hung up on a bartender…

(…from the article)

Seducing a barmaid is often a long-term project, so you have to ask yourself whether it’s worth it. If you decide to go for it, here’s a system:

Step 1: Smile, make sure to look straight into her eyes and ask her name before ordering a drink for the first time. Don’t leave a big tip, instead leave a regular tip and buy her a drink. Go dance or work the club.

Step 2: Now that you know her name, always use it and smile whenever ordering drinks. Don’t use words like “sweetie,” “cutie,” “baby,” or “hey.”

Step 3: In the beginning, never try to make conversation during hectic hours. You have to remember that she’s very busy and needs to concentrate. The last thing she needs is a pest who makes her confuse the orders. Respect her zone and let her groove.

Besides, how interesting can you be if she has to interrupt you every two minutes? Your best bet is to show up early before the bar gets busy. This will give you more time to develop a conversation with her.

Step 4: Never volunteer your name; let her ask for it. It shows some sort of intrigue in what you have to say.

Step 5: No compliments — everyone else has already let her know. To a barmaid, flattery means nothing. She hears it every night and has become immune to it — especially from a stranger. Instead, give her a negative hit. Try saying something like, “Your lipstick is running,” while smiling.

Step 6: Become her friend. That’s right; don’t show too much interest in her. Instead, concentrate on being a friend. I suggest you keep her entertained whenever she’s not too busy.

Step 7: Have an interesting conversation; talk to her about something other than the bar scene. Ask her what she does in her leisure time. Ask if she has a day job or goes to school. Ask how her boyfriend handles so many men hitting on her (purpose — to find out if she’s available). The idea is to show authentic interest in her life, not her body.

Step 8: Dismiss any false buying signals. Remember, she might be flirting with you for a juicier tip. Look for other hints that might illustrate that she’s not interested in your money.

Step 9: Asking for her phone number will lead her to believe that you are like all the others trying to get into her pants. Never ask for her digits; it’s a dead giveaway that you’re trying to pick her up.

Step 10: After developing a good friendship (usually takes a few weeks), ask what she’s doing after work (assuming she has no boyfriend). Then ask if she’d
like to go for coffee; if she’s tired, ask if she’d like to hang out on a Sunday afternoon. If she says “no,” at least you tried and won’t have any regrets. If she says “yes,” now is the right time to exchange phone numbers.

There you go…


crimson May 27, 2011 at 7:55 pm

Love it. and looking forward to more.

The Cheat Sheet kicks ass!

I can’t wait to use those lines.

Any good lines for using on bartenders?

Alex May 27, 2011 at 7:40 pm

Hey Bobby

Thanks for putting this together. It’s just what I need to kick off the summer and get me going.

I love the advice in the video and i’m looking forward to more tricks.

Chris C May 27, 2011 at 6:46 pm

This sounds awesome! I’m really excited about going through the lessons.

And thanks for the tips about sparking attraction. It makes a lot of sense.