One Step at a Time Seduction
Here is a good motivating article from the guys at Pickup Arts all about learning seduction little by little. I promise you it gets easier as you go along.
Â Seduction Steps by Jay Valens
Salutations… There are stages in our existence we get out of stepwith our personal social stability and can’t see our way back sansthe assistance of others. Consider this correspondence a step inthe right course as I advance you step-by-step through the process.
To start, no success can take place unless you are set to step up
and stake certain action when you discern you must. That’s the
first step. The next step is to ascertain any missing knowledge
and start seeking the right steps towards seizing such skills.
This will sometimes necessitate you to step outside of your present
sequence and step inside a new one. You may not spot how your
perceptions need to transform until you step back and witness a
superior sight of things. The segments of understandings you
stumble on are not your decisive answer but instead your stepping
stones for realizing your goals. The sole wrong step in the
process is taking zero steps forward. In the process, it will be
necessary to ask some persons to step aside when they obstruct your
progress and say to any person who attempts to step on you to step
off. Conclusively when you close in on what you considered was the
last step to realize your aspirations, you recognize it was simply
the first step towards a new purpose, one which you never
Now that I’ve got your attention with my homage to a “V for
The gist of the message is that, like any process you are
unfamiliar with, you must learn how to get through it in order to
be adept at it. The first step is realizing an accepting that.
Many people have access to a car and drive every day, but there was
a point in their life that they’d never driven a car before and
their only experience was watching OTHER people drive.
After many years of driving, and especially whenever driving a
familiar route, most people experience a near-hypnotic automated
ability to drive themselves from point A to point B without barely
any memory of the actual drive.
If you think about it, that’s really amazing given how many complex
things a human needs to do to accomplish this without causing a
wreck. Watching the traffic around them, rear view mirror, left
mirror, right mirror, adjusting the wheel for curves or to avoid
other drivers or obstacles, accelerating, tapping the break,
watching for road signs, road conditions, signaling when needed,
paying attention to driving speed, and a hundred other possible
Part of getting to that point, they had to do a number of things:
– Become aware of WHAT had to be learned
– Learn what needed to be learned
– Put their learning into practice
From the standpoint of getting better at meeting and succeeding
with women, you can look at our newsletters and DVDs as becoming
aware of WHAT to learn. Really, looking around, that is pretty
much already done for you.
What is not done for you is actually taking the time to learn that
stuff and then putting that learning into practice. We are giving
you access to the tools, it’s up to you to use them.
When you use those tools, it’s important to not try to get ahead of
yourself and focus too much on your concern of ultimate outcome
but, rather, learn one step at a time and focus on each successive
The only wrong way to go about this is to not take any steps at all
(for example, just reading these newsletters but not taking any
action). Figure out what the next step is and get to it.
Finally, there will sometimes be people who will get in your way,
whether out of jealousy, spite, or misunderstanding. You can’t let
those people dictate or hinder your process. If they are not
actively helping you achieve your goals or, worse, hindering you,
they’ll need to step aside and get out of your way.
Do appreciate the people who cheer on your success, even if they
don’t outright help, because positivity from others is valuable and
does help you a long. You shouldn’t depend on it but if it’s there
then don’t take it for granted and show your appreciation.
Do not allow anything to discourage you, take it one step at a
time, and eventually you will get to a place where you might even
see it possible to achieve goals you had not previously thought
Isn’t this all really pretty simple? Isn’t it amazing that it
takes a newsletter like this to shine a light on a path which might
otherwise have not been obvious to you?
I’m here to cheer you on AND provide you the tools, step by step.
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About Jay Valens Jay Valens & Ray Devans are the masterminds behind The Art of the Pickup plus the founders of the first & largest site dedicated to pickup, attraction & dating advice for men... Their [pickup newsletter] is top-notch & their advice caters to average guys worldwide, not just the young college or club crowd. They regularly answer subscriber questions & have one of the most amazing pickup learning tools around, The Art of the Pickup: Tactics & Techniques.