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Time Notice You Should Give A Girl When Asking Her On A Date

Posted August 13, 2018

Stop Wasting Time And Learn How To Strike When The Iron Is Hot Life is complicated. The older you get, the less time you seem to have, and the busier everyone else becomes. This makes many things complicated, but in dating, it can lead to confusion over what to do. There is no hard and

The Player’s Game Plan For A Night Out

Posted August 12, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : How to Meet Women in Bars and Clubs I often get asked about bar and club game so it seemed only natural to do an article about it. To try to focus everything in one this article is mainly going to be about the actual night itself rather than the location. Assuming that you know

She Ended It- So Why Is She Still Texting You?

Posted August 10, 2018

The Honest Truth, And 3 Scenarios That Explain Her Behavior Women are notorious for saying one thing and doing another. Not that men don’t do the same thing, but this behavior is one of the reasons dating is so difficult at times. Sometimes, you don’t know if the words she said can be taken at

Escalating On High Points

Posted August 8, 2018

I know I’m ready for this week to be over with that’s for sure! I wanted to write a more big picture post today about escalation, it’s not going to be heavy on tactics and techniques but more on an overall strategy for escalation that is extremely effective and easy to use. What’s this strategy

How Do You Create Attraction Over Text?

Posted August 6, 2018

The Fundamental Rules Of Creating Attraction Over Text Texting, whether you like it or not, has a massive role in your dating life. Whether it’s Whatsapp, Facebook, or iMessage – people speak over text every day. And when it comes to flirting, most of them completely suck. At some point, you’re going to be in a

Handling Women’s Tests

Posted August 5, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : Why Women Test You (and How to Handle Them) I want to tell you a story about the exact moment I learned to love being tested by a woman. It wasn’t always this way. In fact, long ago I was clueless to the fact that women were actually testing men. I thought that when women

When A Woman Wants To Take It Slow- 6 Tips & How To Deal

Posted August 3, 2018

6 Tips & A Counterintuitive Solution For Speeding Things Up One of those punches to the gut that all men experience at some point. “I like you, but I think we should take it slow” Heard that before? How did it feel? If we’re anything alike, it probably felt confusing. And frustrating. And a bit

“Fools Mate” The Most Low Self Esteem Idea EVER

Posted August 1, 2018

I was reading through some psych research this week, and in reading about people with co-dependent personalities I found some really interesting ideas that could be applied to both students who enter the community and the guys who have been teaching for quite some time like me 🙂 One thing that co-dependent people tend to

What To Do When A Girl Stops Texting You

Posted July 31, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : Six Steps To Reviving A Dead Conversation When a girl ignores your messages, it can feel like such a fall from grace. Yesterday, you were having a great time and she seemed super-down for a date. Now, you’re supposedly not worth responding to. This situation can seem as if you’re backed into a corner with

The Shit Test Formula

Posted July 30, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : How to Pass a Girl’s Shit Test What’s the right attitude for responding to a “shit test?” How should you respond when a girl throws one at you? This is a question I get a lot when I’m working with one of my private coaching clients. “Should I appear angry?” “Should I laugh it off”

How to Get That One Super Hot Girl

Posted July 28, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : How to Score the 9 or 10 So, you’re out in a bar and you see her, time slows down, a wind machine magically appears but is somehow only aimed at her hair. It’s that classic scene from an 80’s film but somehow in the middle of a bar in 2011. Then you realize “oh

Semi-Advanced Post: Attraction is Highest the First Time

Posted July 25, 2018

Here’s one of my big new ideas, about escalation and emotions. Once you’re good enough at this stuff that you get laid on a regular basis (say 10 new lays a year) then it becomes all about the idea of striking while the iron is hot. The reason being when you have good attraction game,

Why She Stopped Replying To You

Posted July 24, 2018

There Are Simple Ways To Figure Out Why She Stopped Replying To You Messaging girls is a headache, and sometimes, it can be tough figuring out why she’s stopped replying to you. A lot of this has to do with the medium of online messaging / texting itself. But it also has a lot to do

Is She Over Her Ex?

Posted July 21, 2018

Things to Watch for That May Reveal That A Flame Still Burns for Her Ex Love comes and goes. Breakups happen. Various sources disagree on who gets over relationships quicker, men or women, but it’s all subjective. If the love was deep, both genders can deal with some heavy mourning and pining. Neither gender really

How To Play It Cool After Hooking Up

Posted July 20, 2018

The Right Things to Do After A Hookup That Leave a Good Impression (instead of looking like a douche) If you are a red-blooded male, hookups are bound to happen. You never know, right? One thing leads to another, the conversation gets hot and next thing you know, the two of you are headed out

Re-Visiting Sticking Points

Posted July 18, 2018

I’m in the middle of moving and waiting for furniture so I figured I’d write out a quick blog post. I feel like I’ve definitely written blogs while waiting for furniture before… But I move a lot so it makes sense. Today I want to lay out what I believe are the basic sticking points

How to Tell if a Girl Likes You (5 Fool Proof Signs to Look For)

Posted July 15, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : The Signs a Girl Likes You (and the #1 Proof) How many times have you been twenty minutes into a conversation with a woman … and asking yourself ‘Does she like me or is she just being polite?’ It would be so much easier if they just came right out and said it, wouldn’t it?

How to Arouse a Woman: The Secret to Sexual Attraction

Posted July 9, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : The Secrets to Making Her Horny and Aroused There are few things that empower a man more than his ability to arouse a woman sexually. But not every guy knows which buttons to push, since there seem to be so many, and each chick is wired differently. So to make things manageable, I present to

How To Know If She’s Faking Orgasms

Posted July 4, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : Did She Fake the Orgasm? Here’s Test… There’s a very simple test which allows you to know for sure whether or not she’s having an orgasm. And that is: ** IF YOU’RE JUST “PRETTY SURE” OR YOU “THINK” SHE HAD AN ORGASM, IT IS 100% GUARANTEED THAT SHE FAKED IT OR YOU JUST IMAGINED IT.

How to Hook up with a Girl who is a “Tease”

Posted July 1, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : How to Score a “Tease” If you’ve ever met a “tease” then you know exactly how frustrating they can be. These are the sort of girls that will drive you crazy trying to figure out the mixed signals they are sending. Even if you’ve never encountered one personally, chances are you know a friend who

When You Have a Girl Back at Your Place

Posted June 26, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : How to Move it Forward When She’s at Your Place Getting a girl back to your place is the dating equivalent to getting the ball into the red zone in football. You’re knocking on heaven’s door: so close to the awesomenesss, yet nothing is guaranteed. You could still fumble here and lose it all. In

Tips on Flirting

Posted June 21, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : The Different Styles of Flirting Being able to flirt is absolutely essential if you want to have A-game with women. You can peacock, recite routines and openers, practice inner game, but if you don’t know how to escalate a conversation through flirting then you will always have trouble with women. Competitive Flirting Competitive flirting takes

What if she says, I have a boyfriend?

Posted June 19, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : How to Handle When She Tells You She Has a Boyfriend If you’ve been out on the town for any length of time you are bound to have had the phrase muttered “I have a boyfriend” by some girl you’ve been talking to. I remember for many years this phrase used to be a game

“Closing the Deal” with Women

Posted June 18, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : How and Why You Must Get the “Kiss” I was just watching the movie Glengarry Glen Ross last night, and in probably the best scene of his life, Alec Baldwin states an eternal truth: A-B-C. A-always… B-be… C-closing.Always be closing! Always be closing!! I remember when I first saw the movie, although Alec was talking

How to Handle “Crappy Behavior” From Girls… (without ruining things)

Posted June 12, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : How to Keep Your Self Respect Around Women What do these three situations have in common? 1. You lend a girl money, she tells you she’s going to pay you back in a week, but now a month has gone by, and neither of you have brought it up even though you really need the money.

3 Tactics to Create “The Vibe” with A Girl

Posted June 12, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : How to Spark the Right “Vibe” with a Woman Having an enjoyable conversation with a girl is the first step towards getting to exactly where you want to go with her. Why does it seem so effortless for some guys and so difficult for you? You know what I mean? Some guys seem to have

How to Appear Less Needy When Talking to a Girl

Posted June 7, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : Eliminate Neediness Around Women Do you want to know why girls get so turned on and excited by guys we view as “players,” “jerks,” or “bad boys”? I used to get really confused why a girl would so quickly go home with one of these guys. And I was always obsessed with figuring out “what

How To Get A Girlfriend

Posted June 6, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : How to Find and Keep a Girlfriend You Really Want DISCLAIMER: Why do you want a girlfriend? Do you feel lacking inside, and hope a woman will complete you? Are you lonely and lost, and seek companionship and direction? Do you believe it’s the thing to do because all your friends are doing it? Well,

How to Keep Your Power Edge With Women

Posted June 4, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : Why Women Want a Man Who “Leads” “I’m hungry. Come over to my house. And we’ll head over to The Barnyard for a burger and some beers. Wear something cute and summery.” Most guys would not have the balls to say something like that to a woman with whom they are setting up a first

On the Benefits of Being Shameless

Posted May 30, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : How to Attract a Woman By Being “Direct” with Her When it comes to picking up babes, there are two schools of thought. One school says to approach women “under the radar” in an “indirect” way such as asking for directions, asking for a female opinion on something, or making a situational comment that will

8 “Friend Zone” Traits Killing Your Game

Posted May 28, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : The “Good Boyfriend” Habit (Must Eliminate) My girlfriend would probably describe me a “good” boyfriend. I take good care of her, treat her well, I’m compromising, I pay attention to her, and I listen to her problems and try to help her through them. But here’’ the thing… My girlfriend would NEVER have described any of

Are You Really On A Date?

Posted May 26, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : How to tell if you are having a romantic rendezvous or just hanging out Some women are very hard to read. I know: understatement of the century. But one of the more puzzling features of modern dating is figuring out if you are actually on a date—that is, a rendezvous meant to signal romantic interest,