Overcoming the “Cold Shoulder” Online
You’ll love this.
Today I present the cure for the common “cold shoulder” for guys who are using Internet dating sites. You know … the one you get when a woman gets your initial email and doesn’t respond. Doesn’t really matter much what your email said, either. If you are meeting women online, from any site, you really want to read this.
Twice. It’s worth the time.
This is one of my favorite tips, you can start using this IMMEDIATELY and it will improve your online game INSTANTLY and DRAMATICALLY. And I’m going to flat out give it to you as usual.
A huge question is this:
INSIDER INTERNET DATING OBVIOUSLY WORKS, BUT WHAT IF A WOMAN DOESN’T RESPOND TO MY FIRST EMAIL?
Well … I have two choices here.
I could try to increase sales of Insider Internet Dating by downplaying the question and making it seem like not knowing how to follow up with women online is no big deal because every email you send out will get replied to …
(Which we both know is total bullshit.)
OR I COULD JUST SHOW YOU HOW TO FOLLOW UP WITH WOMEN YOU’VE EMAILED … SO YOU’LL GET A BUNCH OF WOMEN REPLYING TO YOUR
EMAILS, AND HOPEFULLY BUY TONS OF STUFF FROM ME FOREVER 😉
I think the second option will be better for us both, don’t you? Cool.
Now picture this: You emailed a bunch of women and if you’re like most guys trying to meet women online, you’ve had your fair share of women who DIDN’T respond to
your email. Sound familiar? Don’t worry, it happens to ALL of us.
WARNING: The stuff I’m about to show you is basic, fundamental Insider Internet Dating. It is nothing super fancy or revolutionary. But IT WORKS. That’s because I’m here to help you MEET WOMEN ONLINE … not impress you with the newest “trick”.
So if you’ve ever been frustrated by how hard it seems to get women to respond to your emails, this is for you. It took me a LONG time to really “get” this. I’ve found that there are a few main reasons why women don’t respond to men’s messages. I hope you enjoy it.
5 REASONS WHY WOMEN DON’T RESPOND TO YOUR MESSAGES
1. She’s already be overwhelmed with emails by the time you emailed her.
2. She’s already met someone.
3. She’s not into the whole internet thing.
4. You acted like a dumb ass
5. She’s not interested.
Who knows? Don’t take it personally. After all, it’s just an email.
MOST GUYS CAUSE REJECTION by what they’re doing. They aren’t paying attention, or they’re doing things that are offensive. If you just avoid a few major mistakes, learn how to start conversations with women online, and do a few simple things RIGHT, you’ll all but totally avoid “rejection” from the women you email.
If a woman isn’t interested in you, forget about it. It doesn’t matter. Go to the next one. There are plenty.
The way to fix this is to focus on the “process” of getting a response, instead of getting ‘ONE-IT IS’ and wonder why that one woman didn’t respond. If you do this, you’re toast.
Now let me be up front with you. Even using what I’m about to share with you some women will not respond. But then again, you already realize it’s foolish to think every woman will reply to your emails.
WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU DON’T GET A REPLY
This is called a “REGEN” strategy, and is based on the principle of “calling someone back” later. This is so easy that I am embarrassed every time I see a guy screw it up. If you emailed a woman 7 days ago or longer and did *not* get a response, here’s something you can take and use RIGHT NOW.
The thinking behind it this is:
“I emailed you, you didn’t respond, maybe you were busy, now I need to do something different to get your attention.”
Oh, by the way…
I DID THE “HARD PART” FOR YOU ALREADY
I’ve already made you a “copy-n-paste” email that helps you “Follow Up” with women who didn’t reply to your first email. (Yes, I show you how to do that in the program too :-)) All you have to do is edit it a bit and you’re off to the races. I hope you dig it.
THE “You Must Be Shy” REGEN EMAIL
— begin email —
SUBJ: you must be…
…really shy. Cute. 🙂
ps I emailed you a week or so ago [give her a nickname]
— end email —
Yep. It’s that easy. Use this wisely 🙂
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About Dave M Dave M. is the author of Insider Internet Dating: Discover how an average guy met 398 women with online personals - using an automatic 'cut and paste' message system that works nearly every time - get the hottest girls with absolutely NO EFFORT! He also publishes a free internet dating tips newsletter, available at Insider Internet Dating.