Must-Read: Keep It In Your Pants on the First Date

Keep it in your pants

So, we’ve all been there. You’re wrapping up the first date, maybe finish off with a little heavy kissing, and there’s this moment between you two where you have to decide if you’re going to take it to that next level and get laid that night, or maybe hold off and possibly make it a more meaningful relationship between you two. TOUGH DECISION!

Well, the sex advice columnist over at thinks you should hold off on it. And while I’m never the type of person to tell you all to turn down any kind of action, she makes some compelling points. For instance:

Waiting shows you don?t think she?s a slut

If you?re quick to show her the way to your bedroom, she might think you view her as nothing but a cheap date. She?ll think you see her as someone who does this with all the men she meets. And chances are, she?ll be right. So hold off on sex for now. Although she?s attracted to you, ultimately she wants to know you respect her and are interested to know more about her than how she looks naked.

Truth! When you have sex on the first date, there’s certainly a lot of unspoken things that go on between the two of you, and can ruin a possible great relationship simply because of that strange subconscious feeling that she thinks you think she’s a slut, and you kind of do because she agreed to have sex with you right away. Strange stuff!

Anyway, the whole thing is an interesting and compelling read. The question to you guys, though, is how do you feel about first-date sex. Feel free to respond in the comments below.


Simple Trick Tells You if a Girl Wants You to Kiss Her

Do girls leave you confused as to whether or not they like you?

Let's face it. Girl's don't make it easy for you. She will often send mixed signals leaving you unable to tell if she is being friendly or flirty. If you read her signals wrong you risk rejection and embarrassment. Or worse, you blow it with a girl who wanted to kiss you.

Here is a simple and innocent move that will instantly tell you if you're in the friend zone, or if she's waiting for you to kiss her.

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About Rick Mosely Rick is the editor for TSB magazine.