How Thinking Like A Hot Girl Can Get You Laid
Before you start reading this, no, I am not encouraging you to come out of the closet. This article is not about becoming feminine or being fabulous, sorry to disappoint. However, if you are able to adopt a few things from the mindset of an attractive female you can increase your results with women dramatically.
I am sure that every single guy reading this has had a conversation with a women that was about a topic they had zero interest in. I am also sure you can remember listening intently to and taking interest in what the girl was saying simple because she was saying it. In fact, I can guarantee you were even hoping she would keep talking so that the conversation would continue.
See, the secret to women is actually having this effect on them. Imagine if you could get girls to listen to stuff they find boring, but be extremely interested because you were saying it. What is the difference and why do hot girls feel confident about talking about completely retarded stuff they know you would not care about.
The only difference is that they think it’s very important. Hot girls believe they have value and power, for them to say whatever is on their mind. This is a very common trait they share with the infamous breed of man known as the jerk. Girls also do not think twice when it comes to touching someone, assuming people are attracted to them or blowing someone off. Again, all jerk characteristics.
The result of this delusional self importance girls have is people thinking that they are important. I have news for you, no one is going to think that you are extremely important until you think so first. This is a mindset hot girls have that you need to achieve if you want to get them chasing you and hanging on your words.
The huge advantage you have when you master this narcissism is that it always trumps the hot girl’s mindset if you believe it enough. Girls’ egos and mindsets are based on reactivity. This means they get their confidence from the response they get from society. However, a male can obtain this type of ego with no positive responses from society at all. Think about the cast of “Jersey Shore.” Before these guys were famous, they probably got as many negative responses from women as they got positive. Because of their delusional confidence though, rejection and negativity had zero impact on them. Hot girls do not have this same type of mindset allowing you to drastically change their response to you.
This puts you in a prime place, because when a girl meets a guy with a similar mindset to them they become extremely reactive to him because they are not getting the response from the guy that is needed to maintain their crazy egos. This is the loophole in the attraction system that natural pick up artist use to get crazy result with women.
So, in conclusion. Thinking that you are better than everyone else like a hot girl, will actually get people believing you are. Loving yourself is the secret to getting love.
Also, wearing make up like a hot girl will make you less ugly! Adopt that too!
About Alex Becker Alex Becker is a dating coach and writer with a huge knowledge base in PUA, psychology, and social dynamics. He currently spends most of his time focusing on teaching college aged men how to naturally improve their success with women. In his free time he enjoys playing guitar, building websites, and his dog Chewbacca.