Having A Positive Self Expectancy Gets You Laid
Today I’ve got a really cool concept to share with you. It’s called ?Positive Self Expectancy?, and yes it really will get you laid, if you take what I’m going to share with you and apply it. And if you are interested in MORE than just getting laid, like perhaps snagging yourself a special lady friend to cherish, well a positive expectancy can help with that too…
But first a caveat: What I’m gonna share with you is ?conceptual? and could even be considered kind of ?new-agey? so if you don’t like that kind of thing this might not be for you.
So, what is a ?positive self expectancy? and why is this something that you NEED in order to have success with women?
Basically all this means is that you EXPECT that good things are going to happen in your life. You expect that you are going to be successful and you expect that you are going to be able to reach whatever goals you set for yourself.
For example, let’s say that you see a really hot girl on the first day at your new job, and you set a goal for yourself that you would like to spend time with her outside of the workplace. If you have a positive expectancy, then you are going to expect that you are going to be able to make this happen…
You’re going to expect that she is going to like you when you introduce yourself…
You’re going to expect that she is going to be open to talking to you and vibing with you…
You’re going to expect that she will accept your invitation to get a drink after work…
And so forth…
And guess what, you tend to get what you expect in life.
Some may scoff and say that relying on the power of positive thinking is the same as ?hoping? but really there is more to it than that. When you start cultivating a positive self expectancy you start in motion a self-fulfilling prophecy. You are basically putting your ducks in a row to assure your future success.
You are telling yourself ?I’m going ?to get that girl…? and that can change your actions and influence your behavior in order to fulfill this prophecy. And thus the statement becomes a reality. The fact is that every guy who is successful with women, with business or with any other undertaking is successful because they believed that they could succeed BEFORE they ever succeeded. You can’t sit back and say ?I’ll never be successful? until one day success comes along and knocks on your door and says ?Hey, surprise now you can be successful!?
Success doesn’t sneak up on you like that, you’ve got to expect it in order to manifest it. Developing a positive outlook and setting a self fulfilling prophecy of success is NOT a passive event.
It’s active and it takes work… Here are a few things you can do to get started:
Whatever you spend your time thinking about is going to take over your life, so focus on the good side of things. I know this might sound ?hard? but that is an excuse, you need to take responsibility for your own thinking.
Optimism and pessimism are contagious, so it’s important to spend as much time as you can with other people who are happy about their lives and excited about the future. On the flip-side it is crucial to cut off the negative soul-sucking energy vampires in your life. See ya, wouldn’t want to be ya…
Start the day saying thanks for what you’ve got, another day on this beautiful planet where you are free to have fun and make love to beautiful women.
Women do not want to spend time with guys who are riddled with doubt. They want to be with guys who have positive masculine attitudes and who radiate positive masculine energy.
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About Jake Vandenhoff Jake Vandenhoff is a dating coach and author specializing in self-development and online dating. He offers an array of programs to help guys succeed with women naturally, without relying on outdated PUA tactics. His Online Dating Playbook offers step-by-step instructions for meeting girls online, and connecting with them authentically. Visit www.jakevandenhoff.com to claim a free copy of Jake's Online Dating Secrets eCourse.