Step Your Sex Game Up!
This article was entirely inspired by my sexcapades from the past weekend, so I’ll just start off with the mini story:
The only reason this girl and I were hanging out is because both of our best friends were dating. She’s an attractive girl, so fuck it right, why not enjoy the benefits of some casual sex?
We got to my bed and the second I went to stick it in she said, “Listen, it’s been a while so can you go slow and then I’ll tell you when to speed it up?” (Anything else you want to tell me before we start?)
15 minutes later she said, “This is so weird the last person I slept with I was in a relationship with for four years!” (I wasn’t asking but okay.)
And in the middle of me finishing she shouts, “Oh my God it looks like you’re trying to write your name in crayon on my Stomach!” (Sorry I never watched myself cum before.)
Needless to say, that will be the last time I sleep with her.
When you’re sleeping with someone there is absolutely no reason to talk about anything but that actual sex that’s taking place. Forget about everything else that’s happened during your life and just enjoy the moment. It’s sex! If you want to talk dirty to each other, that’s great, but anything else is completely irrelevant and can be a huge turn off. Now mentioning your ex during while sleeping with someone that you have no intentions of being in a relationship with mid-fuck, is absolute no no.
You also want to avoid giving someone specific instructions on what to do. Obviously some chicks like being dominated, but being told exactly what to do makes people feel inadequate.
Instead give suggestions. Flip over. Let me get on top. You wanna do it doggy for a little bit? These are all acceptable. Give each other the benefit of the doubt that you have enough skills to please each other.
The most important thing with sex is to have fun. If something goes wrong laugh it off and keep going. When she’s doing something right let her know that it feels good. And be sure to compliment her body, even if you have to make shit up because the majority of girls are self conscious with their clothes off.
Women should want to sleep with you more than once. If you’re constantly having once night stands and not getting phone calls back, it means you’re doing something wrong and you need to get that fixed ASAP. Be aware of what you’re doing while you’re having sex and be cognizant of their reactions. Girls are rather easy to read. Eventually you’ll start getting texts the next say that say, “Damn!!” and “Thank you for that.” I know it’s just a few words, but they tend to make a kid feel good.
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