3 Tips For Keeping A Woman Wet With Anticipation
No guy likes getting flaked on, but in this fast paced society where everybody seems to have a severe case of A.D.D. people are flaking on each other left and right.
And as much as it sucks when your boy flakes on you, it really blows when a chick you’ve got the hots for won’t return your calls or stands you up when you were supposed to meet her.
So what is a guy to do? How can you keep a girl’s interest level high in between dates so that she doesn’t go M.I.A. and leave you holding your dick?
The trick is to keep her not just interested but wet with anticipation for the next time that she gets to see you. I like to refer to this as “keepin’ her juicy”…
Here are 3 Tips you can use immediately to keep her juices flowing so that she’ll be eager for your next connection with her:
Should you text a girl every day? You might think that you should stay in touch with a girl that you are working on as much as possible so that you’ll be at the forefront of her mind, but this is actually not the case at all. Perhaps you have heard the phrase “familiarity breeds contempt”? The idea is that if we get too much of the same thing over and over again we will start to take it for granted and get sick of it. And you absolutely do not want a woman to feel this way about you! In fact a woman will start falling in love with you on the days that you DON’T text her, when you give her a chance to miss you and wonder about what you could possibly be up to.
I’ve never been big on this concept of the bad boy. However it is indisputable that women are attracted to guys who challenge them and who are unpredictable. It’s the same old story with familiarity breeding contempt. If a woman knows that you are going to take her to a nice dinner and have a nice conversation with her it sounds… nice… but boring. Instead take her to a dive bar, talk about what you want to talk about and if she says something you don’t like, have the balls to disagree with her. Women get wet for guys with backbone, not spineless jellyfish.
I realize that this may be outside of your comfort zone, but the fact is that women are immensely turned on by guys who can push her to new sexual extremes. So when you get a chance to finally connect with a woman sexually don’t just give her the same old vanilla roll in the hay that she’s had with the last ten guys she’s slept with. Hell no. Bust out with some moves she’s never seen before. Carry her around the room, talk dirty to her, put her up against a wall, and give her butt a smack or two. I’ve talked to a lot of women very frankly about what they like in the bedroom and the overwhelming response is that they like a guy who takes control and pushes her past her limits.
The key to keep a woman interested and juicy for you is to become her fantasy. Women don’t flake on their fantasy guys, they flake on guys that they see as Dilberts.
Don’t be a Dilbert.
About Jake Vandenhoff Jake Vandenhoff is a dating coach and author specializing in self-development and online dating. He offers an array of programs to help guys succeed with women naturally, without relying on outdated PUA tactics. His Online Dating Playbook offers step-by-step instructions for meeting girls online, and connecting with them authentically. Visit www.jakevandenhoff.com to claim a free copy of Jake's Online Dating Secrets eCourse.