3 Tips To Stop Getting Flaked On
Have you ever made plans with a girl who you were really excited to hang out with and then a half our before your date she calls or sends a text with some lame excuse for why she can’t make it? Even worse have you ever gone out to meet a girl and been stuck sitting at some bar feeling like a damn fool because she never showed up?
These sorts of situations are extremely frustrating and if they happen with any regularity you may find yourself wondering if you are doing something “wrong” to cause all this flaking. So, in today’s article I’m going to share 3 tips you can use to drastically reduce the amount of times women flake out on you:
Often in a misguided attempt to appear “busy” a guy will make plans with a woman a week or more in advance, not call her all week, and then act surprised when she flakes out at the last minute. This is a situation that can be easily avoided simply by waiting to make plans with a woman the day that you want to see her (or perhaps a day or two before the day you want to hang out at the absolute earliest).
If you give a woman too long before the date she might forget about it, forget how much she liked you or in many cases something that seems like more fun may come up in the interim. Plus, if she’s hot, which hopefully she is, there will no doubt be other guys vying for her time and attention who will be presenting her with fresh opportunities.
While going M.I.A. all week in a major mistake, too much texting or calling can also be problematic because it creates more opportunities for things to get screwed up. Giving her too much attention will not only make you appear like a needy guy who is trying to hard, but there is also the possibilty that she will misinterpret something that you say, negatively impacting her perception of you. And after all, is there really anything that important that you need to talk to her about?
I learned the hard way that it is absolutely essential to check in with a girl you have plans with before you go out to meet her. After all, there are only so many hours in the week and you can’t be wasting your time going out to meet people who don’t show up. Another trick is to have the girl come by your place before the date. This way you’ll never have to worry about going out, and if she does make it over starting the date at your place always helps to create a more intimate, connected vibe.
Another thing to remember is that some women are just flaky people. Not only will they flake out on you, but they will flake on their friends, on work, on their family members etc… People like this aren’t necessarily bad, or evil, but you need to decide how much flakiness you are personally willing to tolerate from a girl you are dating.
Your best bet is to get yourself a whole lot of different dating options so that you don’t need to settle for a flake just to get a little lovin’. I’ve got a couple of FREE guides that can help with that…
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About Jake Vandenhoff Jake Vandenhoff is a dating coach and author specializing in self-development and online dating. He offers an array of programs to help guys succeed with women naturally, without relying on outdated PUA tactics. His Online Dating Playbook offers step-by-step instructions for meeting girls online, and connecting with them authentically. Visit www.jakevandenhoff.com to claim a free copy of Jake's Online Dating Secrets eCourse.