Positivity Will Always Get You Laid
Having a positive attitude towards the women you want to bang is absolutely paramount if you ever expect to have any sort of success. Women are always able to pick up on the vibe you’re giving out and a positive one is attractive because it shows confidence and control. The right attitude enables you to make the people around you feel good. If everyone around is feeling good and is eating up your amazing vibe, you can rest assure that all the women around you will also feel it.
This article is going to focus on a few things that can help you keep an upbeat and confident attitude when approaching and talking to women. Most guys are nervous in their encounters but these tips should help keep your mind at ease, enough for you to be in a confident state.
Think of her as that old not-so-hot classmate of yours that you never had an interest in but always had a friendly relationship with.
Pretending that you’re familiar with any one girl will allow you to trick your mind into being more relaxed and comfortable. Not being nervous will allow you to project confidence, a trait that is very attractive. This system works because you are actually relaxed and comfortable when you’re having a conversation with that not-so-hot friend of yours.
Whenever you meet a new woman, the point of your interaction is to make her feel good. Knowing that you’re able to make any girl smile on a consistent basis will resonate from within and she’ll instantly be able to pick up on that. You only need her to give you a couple of minutes because that’s just enough time to spit quality game and impress her with your attitude.
Hot women are normal people just like you. They want to meet a nice guy and are trying to find love and happiness pretty much in the same way every other person on this world does. Treat her like a real and normal person (not some HOT alien that speaks a different dialect) and make sure you also show her some respect. Basically, treat and talk to her like you do with your friends, she’ll appreciate you for it.
Focusing on what she’s telling you will allow you to forget about the actual interaction and the nervousness that comes with it. The more you listen to what she’s saying the more you’ll come up with other related stuff to ask her thus appearing interested in her as an actual person. All you have to do is repeat what she’s telling you while asking a related question. Again, this will allow you to keep a great attitude towards the conversation because you’re actually focusing on it.
This is pretty much standard people skills here but it applies to women that much more. Imagine if you were a woman and a total deuche bag approached you and said “Hey beautiful!” and then slapped you on the ass. Would you like that done to you? Of course not. You’re obviously not going around slapping women on the ass but the point to draw here is that if there’s anything that you wouldn’t like said to you, make sure you don’t say it to her. Coming across as a no-class brain-dead monkey won’t help you get in her pants.
You should be talking to absolutely every single girl you ever have the chance to talk to. They don’t need to be the hottest women in the world but the more you do it the easier it gets to keep a great attitude. You see, the secret is to improve your overall people skills, if you do that then you won’t ever have to worry about how you present yourself since being around other people becomes natural.
Attitude is an incredibly important aspect and having the right one will always guarantee a lay. Just keep approaching, the more you do it, the better you’ll get at it and the quicker you’ll see results.
This is the sort of stuff I discuss on my blog and in the free eBook I give out. If you want to increase your success with women, visithttp://ThePlayerGuide.com – a place where the dating mindset is thrown out the window.
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About Alex Matlock Alex Matlock is an expert in dating and woman psychology. Apart from working on his PHD in Social Psychology and writing for TSBmag he also owns ThePlayerGuide - a place where the "dating" mindset is thrown out the window in favor of more direct (and fruitful) methods of meeting and seducing women.