The Secrets of a Steady Relationship
I haven’t lived that long by any measure of time, but I have been in my fair share of relationships; and I’ve learned from each and every one of them. And if I had to pick out the most important thing that I’ve learned from them all, I would say that it is the fact that relationships often turn out as great or as terrible as we think they’re going to be.
Now, I’m not saying that being in a steady relationship is easy, it’s actually quite a bit of work, but following are a few tips that will help you truly enjoy your relationships to the fullest.
One of the biggest reasons that people run into trouble mid-relationship is because they aren’t honest and open about their expectations from the start. The only thing that you’re going to be doing by kidding yourself or outright hiding your expectations from your partner is that you’re going to end up with a whole load of resentment.
And nothing grounds a relationship to the dust like resentment. It’s fine if you want to have regular threesomes or if you want to swing, you shouldn’t be ashamed of your desires. What you should do is let your partner know early on so that they know exactly what they’re getting into.
Understanding that perfection is an amorphous concept is not only an important lesson when it comes to relationships, but it’s a crucial part of understanding life. Having a steady relationship isn’t about finding someone who’s perfect in every which way; because the truth of the matter is that no one is perfect. You’re not and nor am I. The secret to a steady relationship is accepting and loving your partner for their imperfections and learning to work around them.
There are certain folk in the seduction community that might disagree with me on this, but I’m a firm believer in the fact that a real man isn’t a cheater. If and when you commit to someone, commit to them truly. This is the only way to avoid nasty feelings of fear, jealousy and possessiveness from ruining a relationship.
That said, I don’t think that harmless flirting with strangers is bad for a relationship. In fact, I think it’s quite healthy. Knowing that you still choose your partner despite having other options in love is an incredibly sexy feeling. And this is a choice you should remind yourself of every day.
One of the things that I love about being in a relationship is the fact that I can always count on having an ever-willing partner in crime. Find things that interest the both of you and do the shit out of them. Not only will this bring you closer as a couple but it will help keep things fresh in your relationship.
You can’t grow as a couple if you do not grow as individuals. It’s important that when you’re in a relationship that you take time off to focus on yourselves. Spend time each day focusing on yourself and working on becoming the best person you can possibly be. Your future self will thank you for this and so will your partner.
And last but not least, communicate openly, listen closely, kiss passionately and make love often.
It might be a bit funny listening to relationship advice from a guy that teaches seduction for a living, but the truth of the matter is that it is the true seducers that also know how to love truly.
So if you are interested in learning more about being the type of man that any woman would love to be in a relationship with, visit my website at here and check out my program Radical Inner Game.
About Tony Laroche Tony Laroche is an inner game specialist who helps men become more confident around women, get over approach anxiety, and live life with a higher sense of self esteem. He is the creator of the Radical Inner Game program.