7 Reasons You Should Date Older Women
You’ve done the rounds with women your own age, or a little younger. The bars and nightclubs of most major cities are filled with sexy, single girls looking for a bit of fun. But carrying on with these kinds of women can take a toll after a while. Maybe you’re ready to settle into a monogamous relationship or maybe you just want a relationship that is much more peaceful and settled. There is no reason to consider yourself lame just because you’re no longer interested in the ever-changing game of singledom.
If you have reached something near to this state of mind, then you should date older women. I have done so my entire life. Indeed, after doing so I found it impossible to go back to youngsters.
Here are 7 reasons you should date older women:
1. More Interesting
Older women have had more experience of life. They have more to talk about and can hold better conversations. They may even be able to open your mind to ideas and experiences that you’ve never considered.
2. Less Flaky
Let’s face it. Girls in their tweens and twenties are busybodies. They will drop you in a second if they think they can have a better time with someone else. Older women understand the value of meeting someone they get on with. They also know the value of time and the importance of not wasting it.
3. More Direct
Older women tend to speak plainly and to the point. You will always know exactly where you stand and will not have to play a bunch of childish guessing games.
4. Less Whinging
Older women are secure in their careers and in their lives. They know what they want and where they are headed. You will not have to spend a lot of time listening to them whine about their parents, their careers, or their friends.
5. More Intelligent
As the body matures, so does the mind. An educated older woman will have the advantage of both book learning and experience. She will have critical insights that are worth paying attention to.
6. Less Inhibited
Older women are comfortable with their bodies and their sexuality. They will be more willing to experiment and try things in bed that a young woman won’t.
7. More Sensual
Have you ever sat in a restaurant or café and observed an older woman? If you do so, you will notice certain qualities of fineness, of beauty, grace, and elegance. Older women know just the right way their hair should be styled, their clothes should be worn, and their makeup should be applied. They know themselves and are comfortable in their own skin—and it shows. A woman who eats well and takes care of herself can remain physically fit and stunningly attractive well into her 60s, and in some cases beyond.
This article from Elite Daily gives even more reasons for dating older women. It’s good, but I disagree with the author on one point. I’ve met many very attractive women who were well past their 50s.
If you are looking for something different, something that’s out of the run-of-the mill twenties scene, you should think about dating older women. Strike up a conversation with that woman you see every day on the subway. Even flirt with your boss, who you know is single, and see where that goes. The point is you should put yourself out a bit and expand your horizons. Older women offer great fun, great sex, and great company.
About Christopher Reid Chris was born in Washington, D.C. and lives in Britain. He works as a blogger, essayist, and novelist. His first book, Tea with Maureen, has just been published.