4 Behaviours That Will Kill Your Relationship
Romantic love is not unconditional.
It’s why half of all marriages end in divorce, and why even long term relationships with plenty of emotional investment, fail every day.
There are plenty of civil, legitimate and healthy reasons to end a relationship, but there are also a lot of things you can do that will erode away at a girl’s attraction for you, until she feels like she’s forced to leave.
They range from the confrontational, to the seemingly benign, but if you’re exhibiting any of these symptoms, they can kill your relationship.
It’s natural for couples to complain and even grow irritated with one another as time goes on.
But it goes deeper when you start to pick apart her personality.
Women want to be with a guy who encourages and compliments them, who elevates their spirits. Not a guy who’s constantly trying to take them down a peg.
If you’re always on your girl’s case about something, or never supporting her decisions, she’ll start to feel like you don’t really want to be with her.
Trying to track a girl’s movements, condemning them for going out, spending time with their friends, or flipping your lid every time another guy hits on her boarders on abusive behaviour.
Couples need to be free to live their own lives, and as for your girlfriend getting hit on, some things are just out of your control.
Relax. She’s not going to run off with the next guy who puts the moves on her. And even if she did, is that the kind of person you’d want to spend the rest of your life with?
Be confident and secure in the fact that she chose you. Let them make their own decisions and know that you have the courage to leave if they violate your trust.
If you need to sap up all of a girl’s attention or you rely completely on her to constantly pull you out of an emotional rut, it starts to wear thin on even the most tolerant and nurturing girls.
Women do not want to be your babysitter.
They want a man who’s emotionally stable and confident in himself.
Whether you’ve stopped trying to woo her on dates, gotten way too relaxed in your own grooming or ambition, or worst of all, starting putting in a mediocre effort in the bedroom, nothing kills the spark faster than complacency.
Women want to feel thrilled and excited with a relationship, but they also want to know that it and you, are going somewhere. They want to know that things have a future.
Oh and women like orgasms as much as you do, if not more. Never go half-measure.
About David Maitland David Maitland is a writer living in Vancouver, Canada.