5 Direct Openers You Can Use Right Now
A direct opener is exactly what it sounds like.
It’s a no bullshit, direct line to open up conversation with a girl.
Why they’re so great is because a good direct opener will not only open a conversation for you, but it will also establish attraction, immediately imbuing the conversation with a sexual vibe.
Now there are some stipulations to using these.
As always, confidence is key. You can’t be awkward or uncomfortable
Watch your body language, be calm, be fun, and for the love of god, smile.
Also don’t expect her to do all the work, follow up with an introduction and stoke the flames of the conversation for a bit. Watch her body language. If she isn’t looking for her friends and leaning away, stay in the set.
But most of all be genuine.
What’s great about direct openers is you get to just act on your instincts and believe it or not, you can actually say how you feel.
Sure you’re being consciously funny and charming, but if you really mean it, the rest is easy.
You also don’t have to use these word for word or have them memorized. These are templates and inspiration for you to know what to say the very next time you get the ping in your stomach and feel the urge to talk to a girl.
Just remember, hesitation is the enemy.
Do girls leave you confused as to whether or not they like you?
Let's face it. Girl's don't make it easy for you. She will often send mixed signals leaving you unable to tell if she is being friendly or flirty. If you read her signals wrong you risk rejection and embarrassment. Or worse, you blow it with a girl who wanted to kiss you.
Here is a simple and innocent move that will instantly tell you if you're in the friend zone, or if she's waiting for you to kiss her.
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About David Maitland David Maitland is a writer living in Vancouver, Canada.