3 Secrets About Older Women
You date women your own age because it is convenient. Your colleagues, friends, perhaps even your neighbors and their friends are likely to be persons within your age bracket. Spending so much time around the same kinds of people makes it more likely that you will eventually end up in bed with one or more of them.
Dating an older woman—a woman at least two decades your senior—takes effort. You must go out of your way to chat up, dine, dance with, and fuck one of the many naughty grannies running loose in the world. Indeed, it is more likely that she chose you rather than the other way around.
Older women have a slyness and subtlety about them attained through years of experience in handling different men. They exhibit a confident, straightforward, no-bullshit attitude when they see a man, especially a young man, they like. Even if she is married and out with her husband, a flirtatious, sizzling hot sex-kitten of a granny will signal in the most explicit way short of outright saying it her desire for you.
But older women are still women. They still have vulnerabilities, ways of feeling, emotional vicissitudes that you must discern in order to succeed with them.
A recent fling with an older woman may have put you in the mood for more of what you just had. Here are 3 tips that will help you on your way.
A woman who has just turned 50 is in a state of crisis. It will not show outwardly. She will not turn psycho on you, nor will she quit her job, buy a motorcycle, or get a tattoo. She will, however, experience a marked increase in self-consciousness about her body. She knows that the struggle with gravity is over and that the latter has prevailed. Her tits, ass, and jowls are not in the same place they once were. Her hair is greying and her face is wrinkling. Her looks are fading, and she feels this change acutely.
This will prompt her to re-double her efforts to be attractive. The pop culture phenomena of the PAWG and the MILF have made her aware of the many men who will want her because of her big ass and her slutty mommy look. It is up to you to present yourself as one such man.
She may instinctively shy away when you look at her lustily. But she will like it—a lot. With all of the tight little young packages parading themselves before you, your choice to give your attention to her will flatter her immeasurably and take you one step closer to her bedroom.
Here is another secret. Older women do not want surrogate sons. She has no interest in cooking for you, cleaning up after you, and babying you. You are an outlet for her womanly drives, not her motherly feeling. Do not make yourself a burden or a chore; she spends time with you to get away from all of that. A woman your own age will show a nurturing side as a way of enhancing the bond between you. This does not happen with older women. They do that at home. Your older lady doesn’t want to fawn over you; she wants to fuck you.
Finally, older women tend not to care about making or having more money than their young lovers. This can be a particular advantage if you are in college or are just starting out in your new career. Again, she has no desire to be looked after. She has been through the ups and downs of working life and is now settled in her finances. Money is the last thing on her mind when she is with you, so you need not worry about any disparity in income.
About Christopher Reid Chris was born in Washington, D.C. and lives in Britain. He works as a blogger, essayist, and novelist. His first book, Tea with Maureen, has just been published.