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17 Text Messages That Reveal How She Secretly Feels About You…

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By: Bobby Rio

17 Common Female Texts Decoded

When it comes to communicating with women, many of us men are sadly quite lost. The subtleties of hidden meanings, reading between the lines and ‘just getting it’ seems to be lost on many of us.

When the conversation then transitions from real life conversation to texting, the chances of us understanding how a girl really feels about us drops to some scarily low statistics. This leads to many men giving up on all hope of ever understanding how a woman feels.

But instead of giving up, all you actually need to learn is how to read the signs and understand what she truly means in those text messages.

1. OMG! I’m so sorry, I thought I replied, but I forgot.

Gentleman, if you are falling for this one, then we have more work to do than I initially anticipated. If a girl hasn’t replied to you and you’re pressing her to answer it again, you’re not going to get great results.

There will no doubt be a reason that she didn’t message you back.

  • She’s not into you
  • She’s bad at replying
  • Her priorities are on something or someone else

Don’t panic. This is the moment where you want to get the power back. If you’re sat there wondering what happened, look back through your texts and take a hard look at how often she started the conversation.

If you’re noticing a theme that you are the one starting the conversation every time, change it up. Don’t message her for longer than you usually would and see what happens.

2. Good Morning 🙂

If you’re getting a text first thing in the morning from your woman, you’re in a good place. When a girl texts you first thing in the morning, it’s a clear indication that you are one of the first things on her mind.

Her texting you first is also a good sign, as when women initiate a conversation with you, it shows interest and the fact they actually want to speak to you.

Some things it can also mean:

  • If a girl is starting a conversation with you first all the time, it might show she isn’t worried about being too needy (i.e., she just see’s you as a friend)
  • If she’s starting some of the conversations and texting you first in the morning, she wants to show you she’s thinking of you without coming across as too needy

3. I can’t make it tonight, sorry.

So you’ve been planning the date for a week and then last minute she cancels. She makes an excuse about being ill, having to look after the neighbor’s dog, whatever it is.

There are two main things you want to look out for in this situation:

  • Does she try and reschedule the date? If she does, that’s a good sign (as long as it’s soon). Rescheduling for next week shows she’s not that interested.
  • Does the excuse come out of the blue? If she says she’s ill and she’s been texting you all day, she’d have probably told you she was feeling terrible. If the excuse appears last minute out of the blue, chances are, she’d rather spend the evening watching Netflix, or a better offer came up.

To many guys have back to back canceled dates where they keep making plans, and it goes nowhere. If she cancels on you, wait for her to make the next move.

4. Hey stranger

This is her subtle way of saying it’s been too long since you’ve messaged her.

If you’re receiving ‘hey stranger’ texts from women you’ve not contacted in months, it’s likely  she’s either been through a break-up or is feeling super-horny.

In fact, any adaptation of ‘hi’ that is initiated by a woman you’ve previously flirted with is a promising sign.

Most women are too busy drowning in their own set of ‘hey stranger’ messages to start a conversation with a man they’re not interested in.

Alternatives to ‘Hey stranger’:

  • ‘Hi’
  • ‘Just checking you’re alive’
  • ‘Heyyy’

5. U up?”

This is like ‘hey stranger’ on steroids.

It’s late at night. She’s probably too wasted to spell ‘you’ fully, but it’s you that’s on her mind.

It’s not your sleep schedule she’s curious about. It’s your whereabouts. She wants you there with her as soon as possible.

Perhaps you’re wondering how to deal with ‘u up?’ texts when you don’t see them until the next morning.

Most girls would appreciate that they’re acknowledged, but there’s no need to make fun of her being drunk and horny last night, nor to speculate about how hungover she is.

Also, appreciate that the ‘drunk and horny’ window of opportunity is now closed. No woman wants to be sexted while she’s nursing the world’s biggest headache.

A better alternative would be to ask about her night out, then invite her out for junk food.

Alternatives to ‘U up?’:

  • ‘How’s the party?’
  • ‘Come to the club. It’s amazinggg.’
  • ‘This bar sucks. I’m leaving.’  

6. A Selfie

You’ve hit the jackpot; you’re two well-played texts off receiving the coveted NSFW pictures. This message can mean a few things:

  • She’s insecure and needs validation on how she looks
  • She wants you to encourage her or send one back

Word of warning, this is not the time to send her a picture of your man sausage. In fact, it’s never the time to send her that, unless she explicitly asks for it. A naughty text message or words of encouragement are going to get you a lot further, trust me on that one.