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read below.

Strategy for Inner Game

We all know how important INNER GAME is, but have you ever stopped to ask yourself
what Inner Game actually is? Is it simply when I memorized material very well or maybe
when I perfected the delivery of my voice?

Actually, Inner Game is based on confidence, beliefs, and your overall attitude about life.
Whether you realize it or not, your attitude is constantly projected to the women you talk to.
If you have a strong, assertive, and positive attitude, women will naturally be attracted to you.
That’s how most naturals get laid. They develop these three aspects of their identity: confidence,
beliefs, and attitude. When this happens, they begin to feel more confident and they start to
behave like they’re the prize, which is exactly what attracts women.

I enjoy analyzing these ideas, and I recently found something crazy below the surface.
People in general love leaders, especially women. Leaders are naturally attractive because
they radiate confidence and not easily concerned with outside criticism. They know exactly
what they want and focus their energies on achieving their goal. I am willing to teach you
how to become a leader, how to make people follow you and even respect you. These steps
are essential to leading a successful life.

I am 25 years old, but what I have lived through, you cannot even imagine. I believe I’ve
learned a lot in these 25 years–possibly more wisdom than the average joe aquires in his
entire lifetime.

The first observation is that charisma does not exist. People do not know how to describe
something that is intangible, so they say this person has “charisma”, or “this guy is a
charismatic person”. If you take the time to observe charismatic people, you see that they
actually have one big quality in common. They have a frame (or point of view) so strong that
people are sucked into their reality. Everything they do reflects an ultra-strong frame that
exists inside their individual reality. They tend to have a lot of rules that you must follow
when you are around them. They treat themselves with integrity and they absolutely will
not tolerate disrespect; in fact they punish it.

You can apply these characteristics to your own life. They are actually core lessons for living
succesfully on this planet. Let’s take respect for example: How do you ensure that the people
around you show respect for you and your work? First start to respect yourself and your
work too. When you start to respect yourself completely, other people will respect you as well.
If you don’t respect yourself, why in the world would anyone else respect you? If you treat yourself
like shit, trust me, other people will do the same because you are sending a strong signal to the
world that shit is just what you are.

Next, what you must accomplish is to develop a set of unwavering rules in your life that define
what people can and cannot do around you or to you. You must punish any negative behavior
that impedes upon your integrity. Tell them you disaprove, and make it crystal clear that they
cannot behave like that if they want to be in your company. Kick their asses for it. Make them
know they did something that you do not respect. If people treat you like shit and you let them
get away with it, they will do it again and again. Other people see this, and learn to disrepect
you also. Make personal boundaries for yourself, and make it clear to the people around you
that these boundaries must be respected. Humans are social pack animals, meaning they will
accept the strongest frame presented to them.

For example, if my girlfriend flakes on me, of course I will be pissed off, but I will show her that
I am angry and will calmly state that it will not happen again. For everything that she does that
I do not like, I tell her she can do it only 3 times: the first time, the last time and never again!
My rules are strict. People will enjoy the time they spend with me. In return I will do everything
I can for their happiness. I will teach them and have fun with them, but there are some rules
you must follow, otherwise you won’t see me ever again.

I make options for myself, so that you are not my only choice and I can go out with someone
else if I choose. For now, even if you don’t have other options, make it look like you do. Behave
like you do. I am going to do everything for my girls. I love them and will treat them like a queen,
but only as long as I think they deserve it. It is funny to see how, when women don’t get what they
want, they call me a jerk. They make not like my rules, but they will respect me if I stick to them.

Take a look at the police. They have strict rules. Break them and you’ll get punished, and trust me,
you won’t make the same mistake again in your life. I want you to do the same in your own life.
Let people around you know what is allowed and what is not. Otherwise nobody is going to respect
you. It is funny, but people will test you from time to time to see if you are still congruent with
your frame. That is why I say that “shit tests” are not problematic. As long as you are congruent
with your frame, shit tests are a non-issue. Women will challenge you all the time when you are
seducing them. That’s just normal behavior.

My best friend has this cute little dog. The pet knows that it is not allowed to sleep on the sofa
because he got his ass kicked a few times, and still months later he comes near the sofa with
his cute little look. He glances at the sofa, then his owner, the sofa, the owner, just waiting for a
reaction. He might even put one leg close to the sofa, the whole time looking at his owner. What
the dog is actually doing is testing his owner to see if he is still congruent with his rule about sleeping
on the sofa. Is he going to allow him to jump on the sofa or is he going to yell at him? The dog is not
giving his owner shit, just making sure he is still congruent. Children will test you in the same way.
Every couple of days, or even hours, they will challenge you to see if the rules have weakened or
changed. You can observe this behavior everywhere in nature.

Now, let’s get back to charismatic people. It’s funny, but the more rules charismatic people have,
and the more they punish those who break their rules, the more charismatic they appear. A negative examples would be Hitler, while positive examples like Christ, Gandhi, the Dalai Lama and Martin Luther King. Being assertive does not make you good or evil. It gives you power, and you choose how to use it.

These leaders issue commands and demand unquestioning loyalty. Challenging their ideas is
strongly condemned and often leads to some type of emotional or physical punishment. With
women, you give them pleasure and show them a really nice time when they are with you, but
you must also remember to punish any negative behavior or disrespect from her.

So the first step toward developing confidence, belief, and attitude is to start respecting yourself!
If you have ever gone out with me, you will notice something really unusual: as soon as I go
into a set, I am not sucked into their frame. I do not live in their world. You will see that they
live in my world. How do you see this? When I approach a set or any group of people, I don’t
position myself so the whole group can hear me. I don’t try to yell so the whole group can hear
me. First, I position myself in the most comfortable position, where I feel the most relaxed. Then I reorganize the other people around me in a way I like. For example, I approach them, have them
open up to me, sit down, and use the space around me to make myself comfortable. Then, I might
position the extra people to talk to each other, while the target is left to talk to me. This behavior is not something I modelled or learned, but it’s been a part of my personality for a long time.

I really can’t stand people who have a weak frame. For example, I hate to see guys fall into a
situation like this: A guy sits in a chair, maybe one that is totally uncomfortable like the letter S,
and he stays there for hours pretending he is relaxed without saying a word about it. He would
rather sit there no matter what because the chair is more important than who he is. It is more
important than his health or his body… sad. Why the fuck should I be in some uncomfortable
position when I talk with some average frustrated woman. What the fuck is she for me?

You will always see me in the most comfortable position you can imagine, while I am in a set or
anywhere in life. Why? For a few reasons: You can’t be nervous when you are in a relaxed position.
You must feel cool. People will see you as a socially cool guy. More importantly, your voice is
going to be deeper and more relaxed, so that people will start to lean in to hear you. If you drop
your voice down when they can’t hear you, they will start to lean in and pay more attention to
your lips in order to understand what you are saying. Looking at someone’s lips for ten minutes
is really sexual.

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