How to Contact a Woman You Met Online

Here is great article from Dave M, author of INSIDER INTERNET DATING, the best course
specifically for online dating.

How to contact a woman you met online

As you may already know, I’m not big on
theory. I think it’s important to know but I
think what you really want to know is HOW to
do it. Thats why the Insider Internet Dating
program works so well, because it shows you
HOW to do it. Just plug into the system and
follow each step.

So I’m going to give you a HOW TO… What to
say to a woman on the phone you just met

This is a great phone script you can use to
help with your initial conversation with
women you meet online. Just read it word for
word if you have to until you feel
comfortable enough to ‘wing it’.

Hi (her name),

its _____ from (the site)

Hey whats up?

I got your email, had a few free minutes and
I figured I’d call you… I hope you’re not
as scary as the last girl I spoke with…

[small talk]

I’m curious why you’re doing this…. (pause)

Listen I know you’re REALLY unattractive and
you can’t get a date and thats why you’re
doing this ….right? ( said in a sarcastic

(talk about experiences you have had on
this… a funny way… funny stuff that
happened to you, or in general.)

See what shes all about. See where the
conversation takes you. Your goal now is to
just get a feel for her, have a conversation
with her and let it roll.

If you enjoy talking with her, if you’ve got
a good ‘vibe’, then go ahead and make plans
to get together.

NEVER call it a date.

When you call it a date, it puts you in the
same category as every other guy who’s
CHASING her… which you don’t want to do.

The other guys are met with a brick wall,
whereas you won’t have to deal with that,
because you’ve gone UNDER THE RADAR.

This is something so subtle, yet has such a
powerful effect.

Remember, you want to get together with
her…. when she’s thinking date, she’ll have
all of these preconceived ideas of how a date
should be. So don’t mention the word date.

From now on Get Together = Date

Are you with me?


I’ll simply ask her:

Hey (her name). what’s your schedule like
this week?

ok, lets meet up for a drink on (pick a day)

at (pick a time)

does that work for you? (if she sounds
unsure, don’t continue, call her out on it…
‘you don’t sound too sure about this… (shut
up and let her talk)’ )

Cool, it will be fun to meet up….. but if
you’re bigger than me or shorter than my
dog, we’re gonna have to just be friends.

See you on (the day)

Thats it.

Not too hard. All you need to do is follow
it, then move on to the next step.

If you want to learn what the next step is
check out Dave’s Insider Internet Dating
course by clicking here.

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About Bobby Rio I'm Bobby Rio, one of the founders of TSB. I tend to write about what is on my mind so you'll find a mix of self development, social dynamics and dating articles/experiences.  For a collection of some of my favorite articles check them out.