Yahoo Groups 3/27/2006 “What every man should know about feminist issues”

Message: 1
Date: Mon, 27 Mar 2006 08:04:41 -0800 (PST)
From: Aaron Kulkis
Subject: Re: What Every Man Should Know About Feminist Issues: Nice Guys

Brandon J. Van Every wrote:
> George wrote:
> >
> > http://www.backlash.com/book/nice.html
> [quote]
>
> “The next time one of your female friends wants to cry on your shoulder,
> tell you all about how she’s being victimized by her current cowboy, get
> tough. Tell her that her problem is, she has separated sex from
> intimacy, and that until she learns to connect the two, there’s nothing
> you can do.”
>
> Ok great.
>
> “The only problem with this is that, in the current anti-male climate,
> this is likely to be mistaken as a sexual come-on, which will make you
> vulnerable to charges of sexual harassment. To protect yourself, tell
> her that while you really care for her as a friend, you cannot associate
> with her until she overcomes her harmful addiction. Then ask her to
> leave you alone.”
>
> Aside from being unnecessarily paranoid, this is a workplace issue.
>
> Just don’t talk about sex with her at your workplace. I mean really,

Better yet, turn HER in for sexual harassment.

Now you’re no longer a nice-guy — and you’ll be the jerk every other
woman in the place has been looking for!

Remember…according to the law, sexual harassment is defined by the
person being harassed.

I think having to listen to some bimbo tell you about her sex life
while complaining to you that she can’t find someone nice like you
DEFINITELY constitutes emoto-sexual harassment.

> are we going to be the kind of wusses that allow Femminazis to
> psychologically colonize our every action as potential “sexual
> harassment?” Nonsense! We should leave women alone when we don’t get
> what we want out of them. *Not* because we’re afraid of interacting
> with them on our terms.
>
> “Girls just want to have fun, oh girls just want to have fun.”
>
> Cyndi Lauper is a dyke. It’s true.

Not from the interviews I’ve heard with her.

Her voice sounds ditzy, but she’s actually quite clever
(and I’m a politically conservative engineer).

>
>
> Cheers,
> Brandon Van Every
>

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Message: 2
Date: Mon, 27 Mar 2006 08:36:25 -0000
From: “njabs3399”
Subject: Sending 1st opening email online!

hey Guys…

do any of you know or use a good opening email to women online what the
response rate is to that email?

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Message: 3
Date: Mon, 27 Mar 2006 16:49:50 -0000
From: “George”
Subject: Re: What Every Man Should Know About Feminist Issues: Nice Guys

— In seduction_dating@yahoogroups.com, “Brandon J. Van Every”
wrote:
>
> George wrote:
> >
> > http://www.backlash.com/book/nice.html
> [quote]
>
> “The next time one of your female friends wants to cry on your
shoulder,
> tell you all about how she’s being victimized by her current cowboy,
get
> tough. Tell her that her problem is, she has separated sex from
> intimacy, and that until she learns to connect the two, there’s nothing
> you can do.”
>
> Ok great.
>
> “The only problem with this is that, in the current anti-male climate,
> this is likely to be mistaken as a sexual come-on, which will make you
> vulnerable to charges of sexual harassment. To protect yourself, tell
> her that while you really care for her as a friend, you cannot
associate
> with her until she overcomes her harmful addiction. Then ask her to
> leave you alone.”
>
> Aside from being unnecessarily paranoid, this is a workplace issue.
> Just don’t talk about sex with her at your workplace. I mean really,
> are we going to be the kind of wusses that allow Femminazis to
> psychologically colonize our every action as potential “sexual
> harassment?” Nonsense! We should leave women alone when we don’t get
> what we want out of them. *Not* because we’re afraid of interacting
> with them on our terms.
>
> “Girls just want to have fun, oh girls just want to have fun.”
>
> Cyndi Lauper is a dyke. It’s true.
>
>
> Cheers,
> Brandon Van Every
>

Hey Brandon,

Just FYI, I don’t listen to a woman’s romantic woes. If she does bring
it up, I interupt her at once and change the topic. Insensitive? Not
really, I just know my boundaries.

The reason I posted a link to this article was because of the list:

“Nice Guy” Defined — How To Love A Nice Guy, Dr. Judy Kuriansky, p 145

and how women SAY one thing and MEAN something else.

Warmly,

George

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Message: 4
Date: Mon, 27 Mar 2006 16:59:02 -0000
From: “George”
Subject: Re: Poison, Manipulation and Game

— In seduction_dating@yahoogroups.com, “dddrsos” wrote:
>
> I have a little question to do.
> In the past i was a “good guy”, today i’m starting my “bad boy”
> life’s style..but i steel have a problem.
> I know a girl that think that i’m a “good guy” and act around me
> like i’m her best friend.
> OK, i know, this is a game of manipulation…i don’t show intrest in
> her (and she feel it) and i’m real not intrested in her, but she do
> lot’s of things to put me again in her “emotional contribution’s
> zone”.

Why are you letting her? YOU are in charge of your thoughts, feeling
and behaviors.

> The problem here is simple..all this game of manipulation by her is
> real intrusive in my sets.
> For example..other day i was talking and laughing with a girl and
> she destroy my game.
> She say to me…”Hey give me a hug.”..right i started to think
> (“humm now if i give her a hug i will be her good dog, and if i
> don’t do it i will be anti-social. Well au au Au let’s give her a
> hug like a real good guy”)

Next time she does this, say it outloud “she is my little sister” and
hug her.

> Next she say during the “dog’s hug”…”i like you so much” (just
> manipolation, don’t care)…and i talk again with my set…but now i
> feel she start be less intrested.

It may not be manipulation, she may be a female version of “nice guy”
or she may like you as a friend.

> Ok, this girl is poison…no problem if she try to manipulate me,
> she can’t but the problem is that she can destroy my sets.
> What can i do to convert this situation?
>
>
> Tkx for your attention
> DrSOS
>

Next time she does something “cute”, hug her and tell say outloud “she
is my kid sister.”

Don’t blow this out of proportions…it’s not a big deal, really. And
remember, she may really like you as a friend and not be interested in
destroying your sets.

If she continues to do this, have a chat with her and tell her simply
and directly to stop doing what she is doing.

Don’t beat around the bush.

Warmly,
George

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Message: 5
Date: Mon, 27 Mar 2006 08:59:34 -0800
From: “Brandon J. Van Every”
Subject: Re: What Every Man Should Know About Feminist Issues: Nice Guys

Aaron Kulkis wrote:
> Brandon J. Van Every wrote:
> >
> > “Girls just want to have fun, oh girls just want to have fun.”
> >
> > Cyndi Lauper is a dyke. It’s true.
>
> Not from the interviews I’ve heard with her.
>
> Her voice sounds ditzy, but she’s actually quite clever
> (and I’m a politically conservative engineer).
>
Looks like I was only nominally correct. She went through a bi-curious
phase:
http://www.gay.com/entertainment/interview.html?sernum=592
She’s proven to do dick:
http://home.houston.rr.com/blase/Root%20Folder/cyndi.html
Her sister is a lesbian:
http://www.metroweekly.com/feature/?ak=60

Cheers,
Brandon Van Every

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