6 Things to Never Say in an Email
I got this Dave M, who has course out on online dating. This list of things not to say is pretty basic and my man Michael Stoute with delve deeper into this throughout our podcast series, but this is a good place to start if you are clueless into writing a girl an email for the first time.
6 THINGS YOU SHOULD *NEVER* SAY IN ANY OF YOUR
EMAILS. (unless you don’t want a response)
EMAIL BLUNDER #1:
‘I just came across your profile’
This line has been used over and over and over
again, and its dumb.
DUH! Hey genius, of course you just came
across her profile, otherwise you’d never be
able to email her!
This line is lame, worn out and insincere.
The BS detector goes off from a mile away with
EMAIL BLUNDER #2:
‘I figure that I probably won’t hear from
Confidence is the #1 thing which attracts
women, Therefore, if you’re doing THE EXACT
OPPOSITE of the thing which attracts women,
you’re REPELLING women away.
EMAIL BLUNDER #3:
‘I’m not what you’re looking for, but…’
Uh genius, then why are you even writing?
If you’re going to write a women who’s looking
for something you’re not, go in with confidence.
You can’t email a woman thinking you’re not
going to get a response. ALWAYS FOCUS ON YOUR
EMAIL BLUNDER #4:
‘if you decide not to write me back, can you
please take a minute and tell me why.’
Yeah ok. This one REALLY wreaks of desperation.
tony, If you are sending this in any emails, put the
book down, look yourself in the mirror, and
‘I will not be a wuss anymore.’
Then go ahead and slap yourself upside your
head for being a dumbass.
EMAIL BLUNDER #5:
‘Would you like to join our swingers group
Ok, for real, if I even have to explain why
this is so wrong…. forget it.
Meeting women online is not for you. I can’t
tell you why right now, but someday you’ll
understand… seriously, it’s for the best.
(unless you’re sending those emails on some
‘adult’ site, but even then, what do you
think EVERY OTHER GUY IS SENDING?)
just a little something to think about…
EMAIL BLUNDER #6:
‘I wanted to see if there was more to you
than just another pretty face’
This line wreaks of BS. Sad thing is SO many
guys are still using it.
If you’re still using this line in your emails,
you’re WAY BEHIND what some of my other guys
are doing…. and THAT’S the reason why you’re
not getting the responses you’re expecting.
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