Here is another new post I found on Fast Seduction. It is a quick basic refresher course for the seducer.
Seducing girls – A Complete Guide
Improve appearance on day to day basis. Get organized – written goals/plans. Focus on these 3 areas:
–Gym & nutrition. Girls seem to value strong/raw physique much more than genetic good looks. This alone will transform seduction from a difficult mountain climb to a walk in the park. Girls will be much more cooperative early on. It is an absolute must.
–Dress with distinct style. Take it to the extreme in clubs/disco. Groom adequately. If odor/rash problem, try 5%vinegar instead of soap.
–Improve vibe/body language habits
Go to coffee shop/mall/pub/bar/club at least twice a week. On your way there, first focus on total relaxing – shut down all other thoughts (especially thoughts about girls). Then consider the incredible coincidence that put you into existence. Think about how lucky you are and how great life is compared to not existing. Really feel the gratitude for being alive, and put a big smile on your face. Continue focusing on this and other things you appreciate
When you arrive, all happy and relaxed, your first mission is to find something inside this environment that you appreciate. Then, turn immediately to the nearest girl and tell her. Say something like “I love this song!” or “Wow.. this couch is so soft.. and I love this texture!” (rub the material slowly). If you see a nice girl, tell her immediately (no delay) . Say something like “You look happy!” or “Aww.. you are so cute!” or “Nice hair! Is it real?” or “That shirt looks good on you!”…
Do not try to observe her reaction. Just continue smiling and commenting on things. Sit/stand with your side towards her. Keep everything light and relaxed. No need to talk non stop. Mix in some teasing and humor (see app. C for inspiration).
When she starts asking about you, say “Guess”. Then dodge with joke answers (see list). Then break yourself off in middle of telling. Then try _obviously_ to change the subject. Girls find this little game of secrecy very exciting.
When she starts smiling a lot, tell her she smells good. Stroke her lightly. Talk less. Sit closer.
Do girls leave you confused as to whether or not they like you?
Let's face it. Girl's don't make it easy for you. She will often send mixed signals leaving you unable to tell if she is being friendly or flirty. If you read her signals wrong you risk rejection and embarrassment. Or worse, you blow it with a girl who wanted to kiss you.
Here is a simple and innocent move that will instantly tell you if you're in the friend zone, or if she's waiting for you to kiss her.
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About Bobby Rio I'm Bobby Rio, one of the founders of TSB. I tend to write about what is on my mind so you'll find a mix of self development, social dynamics and dating articles/experiences. For a collection of some of my favorite articles check them out.