The Goal of the 2nd Email
This is a very quick bit from Dave M of Insider Internet Dating. I posted this because it is so true and many men make the mistakes of dragging email conversation out way too long. Read my review of Dave’s course.
2nd Email Online Dating by Dave M
Heres the deal. The goal of that 2nd email is to get
her number. If she’s not giving it up, then its more
than likely due to one of a few things:
1. You messed up somewhere along in the
2. She’s got low interest/attraction level for
3. She’s getting hit up by guys that ARE doing
the right thing
I don’t let anything these women do affect me. You
can’t because its just another TEST.
Think about this for a second….
You’re getting emailed 30-100 emails a day from
guys ALL wanting you. Day after day after day…
Eventually you’re going to be a PRO at figuring out
which one of these guys is full of it and which are
These women are TESTING you to see if you’re
going to break like 95% of the guys out there.
You need to never worry about what she says or
does and only focus on YOU.
2nd email, GET HER NUMBER. Thats it.
If she doesn’t give it up, its because one of those
3 reasons and then you need a plan B.
Do girls leave you confused as to whether or not they like you?
Let's face it. Girl's don't make it easy for you. She will often send mixed signals leaving you unable to tell if she is being friendly or flirty. If you read her signals wrong you risk rejection and embarrassment. Or worse, you blow it with a girl who wanted to kiss you.
Here is a simple and innocent move that will instantly tell you if you're in the friend zone, or if she's waiting for you to kiss her.
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