The Bold Move Never Works…. Never
A little over a year ago I was wrapped up with some girl who was giving me the run around. But I had wanted her for a long time and finally had her, so I was not willing to let her go so easy. At the recommendation of my brother I went for the “bold move.” The bold move is a phase from the otherwise flawless book “the art of seduction.”
The bold move is an act of almost embarrassing yourself to prove your commitment and love… Well, I tried this and did something i never do and sent this girl flowers at work with a card that i cringe to think of what it said. Needless to say, I got a thank you for the flowers, and things went right back to where they were headed. Nowhere!
This year my brother was in a similar situation with a girl he’s wanted for awhile. After a couple of dates she started blowing him off. Instead of taking his losses and moving on he opted for the bold move. He sent her an email declaring his love for her.
Later that night he got a phone call, the gist of the convo was she’s to busy to get serious right now…
So the purpose of this post??? The bold move doesn’t work. It reeks of desperation. If a girl is blowing you off, losing interest, seems to be interested in someone else…. you WILL NOT win her back with a gesture of affection like flowers, cards, poems..
Is it possible to win her back? Yes. In another post I’ll tell you how!
Do girls leave you confused as to whether or not they like you?
Let's face it. Girl's don't make it easy for you. She will often send mixed signals leaving you unable to tell if she is being friendly or flirty. If you read her signals wrong you risk rejection and embarrassment. Or worse, you blow it with a girl who wanted to kiss you.
Here is a simple and innocent move that will instantly tell you if you're in the friend zone, or if she's waiting for you to kiss her.
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About Bobby Rio I'm Bobby Rio, one of the founders of TSB. I tend to write about what is on my mind so you'll find a mix of self development, social dynamics and dating articles/experiences. For a collection of some of my favorite articles check them out.