Shall We Swing?


Is it just me or are swingers the only people who seem happy in a marriage? I was actually out the other night with this girl I’m friends with and we got into a discussion on swinging.

We both agreed that you can’t possibly be happy fucking the same ass for the rest of your life. I suggested swinging, as I do with all my girlfriends…(to no luck so far) and she said it seems like a great idea, but she’d be too jealous to deal with it. I disagreed.

I mean a fuck is a fuck right? I mean it would probably sting a bit knowing my wife is getting balled the first few times… but then you’d probably become numb to it… and concentrate on enjoying your fresh new pussy.

The arguement against swinging always seems to be, “what if she likes fucking him more then you?”

My answer, “Of course she’ll enjoy fucking him more, its new dick to her… but so what?”

I mean really, the odds are that both you and your wife at some point during your relationship will both have feelings for another person… whether you act on them or not, you have those feelings. So why be jealous? It’s going to happen. No fucking way around. During every one of my relationships where I was completely in love with my girlfriend, at some point I fell for another girl at the same time. It didn’t make me love my girlfriend less…

I guess my point is to open up the dialogue on this topic. I mean those couples on HBO’s Real Sex always seem so fucking happy.

Here is a nightline video on swinging.


About Bobby Rio

I'm Bobby Rio, one of the founders of TSB. I tend to write about what is on my mind so you'll find a mix of self development, social dynamics and dating articles/experiences.  For a collection of some of my favorite articles check them out.

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One Comment

  1. teddy bear

    December 13, 2007 at 1:37 pm

    im mean its only natural about 85% of ppl cheat and like that lady said if you gonna cheat lets do it together. and if yall got true love for eachother you wont worry about your partner leaving you

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